What Does Your Ideal Partner Have?
18 years ago
Posts: 1650
Quote from Dark_Sage
I often stroke my nonexistent beard in class.
So, how does that rate on the ladies' scales?
We'll think that you're just scratching an itch or that you wish that you had a beard.
More hair = less beard.
Less hair = more beard.
This equation is the key
to the nice balance. 🙂

18 years ago
Posts: 5
Girl here, the Ideal partner would be a combination of kindness+loyalty+looks not in the order shown since i voted for looks 😛
My first attempt at a relationship is going to be when i get married sometime next year, at the moment i know his name,age,occupation and some word of mouth info on him -which can be super unreliable- and i probably won't get more info as time passes. it's still a year away but I'm freaked out already, i always say this system of ours is so wrong, the day before my wedding I'd been a girl who's never spoken to a boy alone in her entire life then the next day i have an obligation of being his wife and that involves more than just speaking sighs
Bad combination of traditions+religion 🙂
18 years ago
Posts: 278
Quote from hauntition
I'm betrothed to a guy I've never met.
Bad combination of traditions+religion 🙂
Yeah, ummmm, screw your family and live your life the way you want to.
Seriously, that type of a relationship is just outdated and disgusting.

18 years ago
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Hair? Whatever style he has doesn't matter as long as it's clean and smells nice.
I remember that I once jokingly said that I like bald guys... and a guy who sort of likes me shaved his. I stuck to the story until graduation so he wouldn't feel bad.
So yea, watch out for what you say in public.

18 years ago
Posts: 218
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[quote]Grab his hair? Or his cheek! laughOr both, well maybe not grab. For so reason i think its sex when a girl runs her fingers though my beard. Although i dont even have one right now,so i guess ill change it to plays with my stubble after i skipped shaving for a couple days. 😢 stupid work telling me how to look.
I love playing with my boyfriend's beard. 🤣
LOL is his beard big like Santa Claus?[/quote]
Nooo!! It's just there...and I don't have any...so I think it's interesting. 🤣
18 years ago
Posts: 1650
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Girl here, the Ideal partner would be a combination of kindness+loyalty+looks not in the order shown since i voted for looks 😛
My first attempt at a relationship is going to be when i get married sometime next year, at the moment i know his name,age,occupation and some word of mouth info on him -which can be super unreliable- and i probably won't get more info as time passes. it's still a year away but I'm freaked out already, i always say this system of ours is so wrong, the day before my wedding I'd been a girl who's never spoken to a boy alone in her entire life then the next day i have an obligation of being his wife and that involves more than just speaking sighs
Bad combination of traditions+religion 🙂
You should probably meet him once or twice before your wedding. It'll be easier to be a good wife that way. And I hear that arranged marriages can last longer because the people are forced to find a way to make it work.

18 years ago
Posts: 1566
oh ♥ arranged marriage sounds sweet... It's like a blind date! And since you've never met him, your conversations aren't going to be too boring (for a while), because he doesn't know you yet <3
woo~ It's like meeting someone new... except to be with him forever. Though, I'd probably refuse to, if I were you. Can't stand somebody I didn't choose (unless he really is nice... and please cook LOL)

18 years ago
Posts: 5
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Girl here, the Ideal partner would be a combination of kindness+loyalty+looks not in the order shown since i voted for looks 😛
My first attempt at a relationship is going to be when i get married sometime next year, at the moment i know his name,age,occupation and some word of mouth info on him -which can be super unreliable- and i probably won't get more info as time passes. it's still a year away but I'm freaked out already, i always say this system of ours is so wrong, the day before my wedding I'd been a girl who's never spoken to a boy alone in her entire life then the next day i have an obligation of being his wife and that involves more than just speaking sighs
Bad combination of traditions+religion 🙂
You should probably meet him once or twice before your wedding. It'll be easier to be a good wife that way. And I hear that arranged marriages can last longer because the people are forced to find a way to make it work.
yah i do get to meet him a month before the wedding once just so we can see how the other looks "live" and chat a bit nerve-wracking already
The part about arranged marriages lasting is so true, out of all my friends and relatives over the last ten years only one divorce happened, it's like both parties try so hard to compromise and negotiate to make it work since marriage is the only way of having a relationship with the other sex , sounds a bit forceful and fake but strangely it works out in the end, the days my sister hated her husband in her first year of marriage was way more than the days she loved him, but now three years into it she calls him her one and only soulmate 🙂 hope i get a happy ending too!!
18 years ago
Posts: 278
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yah i do get to meet him a month before the wedding once just so we can see how the other looks "live" and chat a bit nerve-wracking already
The part about arranged marriages lasting is so true, out of all my friends and relatives over the last ten years only one divorce happened, it's like both parties try so hard to compromise and negotiate to make it work since marriage is the only way of having a relationship with the other sex , sounds a bit forceful and fake but strangely it works out in the end, the days my sister hated her husband in her first year of marriage was way more than the days she loved him, but now three years into it she calls him her one and only soulmate 🙂 hope i get a happy ending too!!
Sweet. I'm going to go kidnap a girl right now and keep her locked up in my house for years.
Eventually she'll love me. Huzzah forced marriages!

18 years ago
Posts: 5
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yah i do get to meet him a month before the wedding once just so we can see how the other looks "live" and chat a bit nerve-wracking already
The part about arranged marriages lasting is so true, out of all my friends and relatives over the last ten years only one divorce happened, it's like both parties try so hard to compromise and negotiate to make it work since marriage is the only way of having a relationship with the other sex , sounds a bit forceful and fake but strangely it works out in the end, the days my sister hated her husband in her first year of marriage was way more than the days she loved him, but now three years into it she calls him her one and only soulmate 🙂 hope i get a happy ending too!!Sweet. I'm going to go kidnap a girl right now and keep her locked up in my house for years.
Eventually she'll love me. Huzzah forced marriages!
um no one's being locked up and I'm not crazy about the system but what's bad about giving something your best shot for it to work??
haven't read any other of your posts dark_sage but do you usually sound upset or are you especially passionate about this topic 🙂
18 years ago
Posts: 278
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haven't read any other of your posts dark_sage but do you usually sound upset or are you especially passionate about this topic 🙂
I'm filled with passion over most things. 😉
My ideal partner would definitely have to be willing to level with me in an MMORPG. We'd be the best team out there, and I'd definitely be able to get the Sword of Carnage. Thanks in advance, honey. ^_^

18 years ago
Posts: 264
LOL. I'd want my partner to help me when I'm playing video games. xD It's nice to yell "________! I need help in the final battle for ___________!" I suck in general at most video games, so it's bound to happen.

18 years ago
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I don't want my partner to play video games with me..... I only play them with my brother, since he's good, and I'm not.. we make the perfect team. There'd be no other game partner like my brother!
Also, that partner would probably go, "aww~ are you dead? I'll die too!" LOL EW

18 years ago
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LOL. I'd want my partner to help me when I'm playing video games. xD It's nice to yell "________! I need help in the final battle for ___________!" I suck in general at most video games, so it's bound to happen.
What's cuter is if your boyfriend totally super sucks at video games! And then you can help him out. Aww so cute!