Dating
This is a thread about dating. So when you're on a "date" what do you usually do? Or what are the things that you like to do while on them? Do you act differently when you're on a date? Do you really plan your dates, or are they more like spontaneous outings?
Any eventual tips you have for dating? Etcetera.
Discuss~
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I put some considerable thought into my dates, but that's only after I've gotten to know the girl a little bit.
I don't use dates as ice breakers.
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16 years ago
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So when you're on a "date" what do you usually do? Or what are the things that you like to do while on them?
Hang out, take a bite at a restaurant, go to park/movies, not sure just something fun depends on the guy I'm with though. I usually just take the opportunity to get to know the person better while on a date.
Do you act differently when you're on a date?
Depends on the person and how long we've been together. If I'm comfortable with the guy and we've been together for a while, I act how I usually do. If I just started dating the guy than yeah I act differently, wouldn't want to scare him off discussing my many hobbies such as yaoi and handcuffs. 😀
Do you really plan your dates, or are they more like spontaneous outings?
I never plan them since I never take the initiative in that sort of thing. They often end spontaneous but in a different way...
Any eventual tips you have for dating? Etcetera.
- Never complain about how long a girl takes to get ready. We take time to try to look good for you! Geesh...
- Always think about time, place, and location...
- For the guys: Just because girls are girls doesn't mean we don't like to spend our days with you playing video games or watching a game, some girls (like me) do like those sorts of things.
- Never, and I mean never bring up past relationships especially on first or second dates, let them bring that topic up first. I mean there's a reason they're currently dating you.
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16 years ago
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I've never been top one.
I use tridents instead of hooks.
wondering what definition Mams is using
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I've never been top one.
I use tridents instead of hooks.wondering what definition Mams is using
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I'll just take the one I want. 🤣

16 years ago
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lol
I wanted to make a thread like this...
It depends on the person. We usually do things we both enjoy.
Me, I like going to the beach and eat some ice cream together, watching the waves... All this has to be done when it's not too hot of course.
Cuddle somewhere... nyaa...
Mmm, other things would be rated 18+, and I won't be telling you anything about it. 🤣
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16 years ago
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Mmm, other things would be rated 18+, and I won't be telling you anything about it. 🤣
I hate when people mention things... and don't intend to share or invite me. >:-( 🤣
It's all up in the air for me when it comes to dates. We may start out by doing one thing... and end up doing something entirely different. I'm random and up for anything. And I definitely don't act any differently on a date from how I act normally. Defeats the purpose I think. You're on the date cause you're interested in each other and want to get to know one another more, why would you want to act differently and the same for them.
As for advice...
Be yourself.
Avoid taking them to a strip club on the first date... 🤣
And as for girls... don't fake not being ready when you are. >:-(
And don't get mad if he's five minutes late cause we all know you're going to play not being ready anyways...
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16 years ago
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Mmm, other things would be rated 18+, and I won't be telling you anything about it. 🤣
I hate when people mention things... and don't intend to share or invite me. >:-( 🤣
It's all up in the air for me when it comes to dates. We may start out by doing one thing... and end up doing something entirely different. I'm random and up for anything. And I definitely don't act any differently on a date from how I act normally. Defeats the purpose I think. You're on the date cause you're interested in each other and want to get to know one another more, why would you want to act differently and the same for them.
As for advice...
Be yourself.
Avoid taking them to a strip club on the first date... 🤣
And as for girls... don't fake not being ready when you are. >:-(
And don't get mad if he's five minutes late cause we all know you're going to play not being ready anyways...
Nyahaha.
Well, I'll leave everything to your imagination.
Or tell you in private :p
Being a tease sometimes is fun XD.
Having spontaneous, tottaly "go with the flow of events" dates is fun at times. At other times it just goes out of control and people end up in the wrong places...~ (at least it was so for me~~)
I agree though, that being yourself is very important. If not, it would only lead to unnecessary disappointments and other crap... That's not how to build a relationship (at least a good/stable one).
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16 years ago
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So when you're on a "date" what do you usually do? Or what are the things that you like to do while on them?
lots of kissing~~especially recently my dates are full of kisses^^
Do you act differently when you're on a date?
umm i flirt with almost all the guys that i know. so dates doesn't really make any difference. though sometimes when i want to impress the guy that i went to date, i flirt more that usually or act more cute, sexy, innocent... (depends on the guy)
Do you really plan your dates, or are they more like spontaneous outings?
no i don't plan my dates. i just set a time to go back and that is all.
Any eventual tips you have for dating?
just act like how you want to be~~what can be the worst outcome? and when you have this confidence in you, you might get lucky on dates.
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16 years ago
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doesn't it depend on the situation......
Well let say first time with the girl make her enjoy it ^^
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16 years ago
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Ehh with my peers the only "dates" are at the movies or in a bedroom. Anything else is dumb. I wish I could do more and put in more thought but sadly no. 😔
Formal dates scare me >.>
I prefer to be friends with someone before we decide to have a relationship, and then keep doing the things we did before without giving thought to 'oh this is our 5th date' or 'I should get her flowers', etc.
But if I have to make a date where we both know it's a romantic thing and not just to have fun... it will not be a group date. I learned my lesson with those XD They have never turned out well for me.
heh...I start with dates-can-be-interpreted-as-friendly-outing after getting to know first of course and I leave it to the other party to decide where they are going to head with a "relationship", and mostly I decide, but I do like guys who plan the date...
i act normal,i dont want to lie to someone just tom make them like me or think good of me.
i usually try to pull conversations out of the air so my partner wont get bored,but i dont do that a lot because they might think i'm annoying or something.
no planning for dates, it kills the whole thing.i just make a plan just in case though.