After your death, what should your spouse do?
14 years ago
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It's a purely subjective matter, so anyone who 'flames' you is a fool. That said, it looks like the clumsy wording of the first post is the biggest influence in everyone's response. We have ten different people posting, with ten different ideas of what "a young age" is.
Is a "young age" 20? 30? 40? 50? 60? It's impossible to discuss an already subjective matter without laying down a decent framework, really.
On a personal level, both my grandpas died in their 40's (I never met either of them). One grandma remarried, one didn't, so truthfully, I can see it both ways. Although admittedly, I'm probably biased towards "remarry", since that grandparent lived long enough for me to reach an age that allowed me to look past the guise of "grandma" to see "a person with needs, wants, and problems".
Ha, ha... I also have a divorced, 27-year-old cousin who's currently dating a man in his mid-forties, and has been dating him for over a year, so perhaps I'm just warped. shrugs
14 years ago
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I would most likely come back as a ghost and we'll have a bunch of human-ghost sex like in that one manga Dx...
14 years ago
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14 years ago
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whatever makes them happy 🙂 im already dead arent i? so why burden him with sadness.. i love him but i cant make him happy anymore.. a living person can do that so why not go and love another.. im alright with it.
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14 years ago
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whatever makes them happy 🙂 im already dead arent i? so why burden him with sadness.. i love him but i cant make him happy anymore.. a living person can do that so why not go and love another.. im alright with it.
yeah, i have to agree with you..
somehow, this poll make me remember the film titanic..
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14 years ago
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yeah, i have to agree with you..
somehow, this poll make me remember the film titanic..
well thank you.. and yeah.. titanic, speaking of that whos gonna watch it in 3D? xD
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14 years ago
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It would have been a more interesting thread if it wasn't particularly serious....
Maybe with answers such as "Sati: Burn Baby, Burn," "Befoul My Final Resting Place," and "Marry My Relative."
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14 years ago
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It would have been a more interesting thread if it wasn't particularly serious....
Maybe with answers such as "Sati: Burn Baby, Burn," "Befoul My Final Resting Place," and "Marry My Relative."
haha you should've mentioned that in Random Question thread.
14 years ago
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Death is one of those wonderful, amazing things that after experiencing, past and future no long bother you.
So I say - if hubby/wifey wanna bone somebody else (and not my rotting corpse) they have my blessing.
I'd rather not come across as a selfish bitch. 😮
And it's not like I have a say in all this.
Because, you know, I'm dead.
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