Libido

15 years ago
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AHAHAHAHA. Thats kills me. 🤣

15 years ago
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A very puzzling and interesting thing...
I have no idea why I sometimes couldn't care less and sometimes want to eat him up even though there was no evident trigger.
Is it only the human wish to reproduce that makes us women more passionate than usual when in the fertile days of the circle?
But a certain smell can make me just as willing. Which contradicts the first theory.
Very interesting indeed. Fortunately, I stopped socialising with this one person who's character I didn't like but who's phenomenal smell I (almost) could not resist. 😳
So yes, it can be a very negative thing to be physically aroused although you feel no emotional connection.
And yes, in this case, I am very lucky to be female.

15 years ago
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I have a fairly low libido overall, so unless I'm reading/watching something arousing, it doesn't happen unless the mood is right with my husband. He's got a fairly high libido, so it's kind of annoying that mine is so low in comparison.
If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.
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15 years ago
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For me it's when it's with the right person. It used to just be when the mood was right, but there was one time when I was in the mood and there was a fine women that wanted to have sex with me, but she was too much of a bitch and it almost completely ruined it for me.
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Oh well, we can always rely on the creases on the jeans to cover the tent.
Crease not big enough. :,<
I guess when they mood is right.
Mood can suck too, but typically I just need to
be intoxicated. Target should at least still be somewhat
appealing.

15 years ago
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My "libido" is a peculiar thing. It comes and goes in, seemingly, random cycles. I may not get aroused for a week or two, sometimes longer, then it hits me really hard. Then comes another long period of no arousal, then it will hit me again.
When the mood is right, and i don't have a problem with it out of the house. Nothing happens.
But some weeks it seems hyperactive, others completely dormant like a bear in hibernation o.o

15 years ago
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My "libido" is a peculiar thing. It comes and goes in, seemingly, random cycles. I may not get aroused for a week or two, sometimes longer, then it hits me really hard. Then comes another long period of no arousal, then it will hit me again.
My husband has around a 2 to 3-month cycle. I don't think it's uncommon for guys to also cycle, it's just not a cycle quite as regular as a woman's.
If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.
From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

15 years ago
Posts: 48
My libido is kinda high and on high before and after school. But the thing is I can't get arouse by woman in public unless they provoke me to be. I personally see women probably the same not in personality or individuality, but in physical aspect are kinda the same fat, tall, breast, hips I guess I can say I can kinda see pass physical appear or maybe gotten used to it I suppose. Kinda weird isn't it?
15 years ago
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hmmm. First, I'm female. Well, the first time I was ever aroused was a year or so ago, when I was reading the part with the Mordsith(sp? I don't feel like checking) near the end of the first Sword of Truth book(for those who haven't read it, think BDSM). That kind of scares me, and I spent hours searching google to figure out whether that could in any way be interpreted as normal.... but it could be that due to the combined factors mentioned below, only something that extreme has an effect...
Of course, I am taking an SSRI, and a possible side effect is decreased libido.... I'm also anosmic(congenitally, so I never had a sense of smell), and that might affect it too, judging from some of the previous posts. So it could be those combined, but I'm beginning to wonder if I will ever be interested in a relationship 😐 ... And i am very frustrated with google for failing to provide adequate descriptions of the emotional and cognitive changes people experience from puberty to now(18 for me)... >:-(
But whatever. I just want to know how it is a woman knows if they are physically attracted to a person(not just aware of the aesthetic characteristics).
So, I answered cold for the poll.

15 years ago
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I'm a horny animal! I'm not ashamed of it nor do I try and deny it.
If it weren't for the gutter, my mind would be homeless.

15 years ago
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But whatever. I just want to know how it is a woman knows if they are physically attracted to a person(not just aware of the aesthetic characteristics).
I think that defines itself pretty well. It's like gravity. The way you put it makes me think that your idea of being physically attracted to a person is automatically a hard on (maybe it's true, who knows). Though I wonder if there's actually a difference between being "aware of the aesthetic characteristics" and being physically attracted. To me at least physically attracted is just that, and if it's something that makes you want to make a move or something (unless you're the kind of person who just has to taste everything that looks good...) it's not just physical attraction anymore (..and touch everything that's pretty <-- I think this is pretty common).
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15 years ago
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Wow. That's sad. I'm worse than most of the younger guys here. 🤣
Just the right breeze and I could get horny. 🤣
But, I know how to take the word no. I might not like it. And I might pout about it. And I may do something to persuade your mind. Okay, so maybe I'm not that good with the word no.
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15 years ago
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But whatever. I just want to know how it is a woman knows if they are physically attracted to a person(not just aware of the aesthetic characteristics).
I think that defines itself pretty well. It's like gravity. The way you put it makes me think that your idea of being physically attracted to a person is automatically a hard on (maybe it's true, who knows). Though I wonder if there's actually a difference between being "aware of the aesthetic characteristics" and being physically attracted. To me at least physically attracted is just that, and if it's something that makes you want to make a move or something (unless you're the kind of person who just has to taste everything that looks good...) it's not just physical attraction anymore (..and touch everything that's pretty <-- I think this is pretty common).
"something that makes you want to make a move" is physical attraction, unless you know the person or something about him/her. You simply find the one in question more attractive than usual.
By physical attraction I don't simply mean physical appearance, I'm including the way someone moves and all that stuff that one doesnt usually consciously notice.
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Wow. That's sad. I'm worse than most of the younger guys here. 🤣
Just the right breeze and I could get horny. 🤣
But, I know how to take the word no. I might not like it. And I might pout about it. And I may do something to persuade your mind. Okay, so maybe I'm not that good with the word no.
At least you're a girl. Guys usually don't mind pushy girls.

15 years ago
Posts: 140
I'm like a dog in heat, a freak without warning. I've got an appetite for love coz me so horny. (when the mood is right)