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How often do you need to see/meet the person you're dating? (Provided you're not already living with them.)
Every goddamn second, sweetheart! \o/
Once a day would be nice.
Once every 2-3 days would be ideal.
Once a week, or just on weekends.
Once every 2 weeks.
Once a month.
Whenever I remember that people other than myself actually exist.
NEVER. I'd rather love someone from a (safe) distance...!
I don't date. :|
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4:31 am, Feb 13 2011
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Just curious. bigrazz

It's once a week or only on weekends, for me. Am I weird to not be more desperately attached?

Oh, and by the way, the question is how often you NEED to meet the other person, not just how often you "wouldn't mind" meeting that person. Obviously, I wouldn't mind meeting the one I'm dating a lot more often, but I don't actively want or need to meet them more than once a week. There's a fine distinction.

Yeah. Please vote and answer in the comments, if you'd like to explain why you prefer the option you do!

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4:44 am, Feb 13 2011
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Once a week or so is fair enough, as we are all busy with a lot of other things.

I can't handle meeting every day. I have to make a lot of arrangements and that will drive me crazy.

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4:48 am, Feb 13 2011
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just on weekends.
i don't like my routines be disturbed laugh and less trouble.
if you meet everyday, the chances to get in a fight are more frequent.


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5:41 am, Feb 13 2011
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I don't have someone right now.
Provided that I do, meeting once in 2 or 3 days would be great. Not too long, not too short. No reason at all. I think once a day is bad and once a week is too long.

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5:52 am, Feb 13 2011
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This year we are in the same class, so we talk everyday. We date(by date I mean meeting outside school) 3 times a week, so I will go for 2-3 times. We don't necessarily neeeed to meet 3 times a week, but its kind of a routine(we have done it for over 2 years), the day feels quite empty when we don't.

About being weird...Not at all, it just varies from person to person.. and it has nothing to do with loving or not, some couples talk with eachother all the day everyday and breakup in one month.



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6:03 am, Feb 13 2011
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Well I'm living together but before that we also saw each other every day and were practically all ready living together.
we were always pretty close friends before becoming lovers and spent a lot of time together when we could. so I think it's just in both our natures to want to be together as much as we can.

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Not at all, it just varies from person to person.. and it has nothing to do with loving or not, some couples talk with eachother all the day everyday and breakup in one month.

Excellent point. Yes, that's true.

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7:26 am, Feb 13 2011
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i have to see him on every day i go to school, and at least every third day during holidays. i get really depressed if he is ill, but thanks god he has a great health.

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7:59 am, Feb 13 2011
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Couple times a week. I can't stand clingy women. It's not really a conscious choice, but I find myself running the other direction whenever one tries to supplant every other part of my life with herself.

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I chose "once a week," but that's how often at the least. But since we started going out, my boyfriend and I have seen each other about an average of 4 to 6 days a week, due to the classes we share and convenient schedules. But it's been four months, and for about 5 weeks of that 4 months, we didn't see each other at all (it was winter break and I lived 4 hours away from him). We've been going strong, and I still find myself smiling and giggling after we kiss, just like the first time smile

EDIT: Ah, "dates." I misinterpreted the question. Actual "dates" aren't necessary, since we hang out so often for such an extended period of time, eating a couple meals of the day together. But on Saturdays, he comes over and we watching movies or something...I think we've actually been on 5 technical dates, with one of them being with his mom embarrassed


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I go to a school where dating and getting married is quite a big deal. I've recently met some people that are pushing for me to not only get out more and date boys but also take it an extra step and get married.

I'm a little bit of a rebel so if people push me to do something, I do the exact opposite.
I'll be friendly with someone but as soon as I feel that I've become a person of interest to them, I back off.

So seriously, with my current situation and personality, I'm pretty sure I won't be dating for a really long time. *knock on wood*

Besides, I'm only 19. I shouldn't have to worry about getting married.

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10:52 am, Feb 13 2011
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well when i was dating someone she wanted to see me atleast once a day and wanted to constantly text each other when we werent seeing each other face to face lol, but i wouldnt mind seeing her maybe 3 or 4 times a week.

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11:28 am, Feb 13 2011
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I wonder......what it's like to go out on a date... #_______#

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12:07 pm, Feb 13 2011
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=.= I'm still waiting for my Shoujo Manga Miracle. Yes, that's what I call it. The handsome prince on a white horse that will sweep me off my feet with sparkles and shining bubbles. But, sadly I have yet to go on a real date. cry

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12:17 pm, Feb 13 2011
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We're all lonely people. ):

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