What do you hate about yourself
14 years ago
Posts: 11
Being an alcoholic, procrastinating uni student. But when there's so much anime and manga out there, what's a guy to do?
Oh and first impressions. Wow do I seem to be bad at that, I mean trying to hit on a girl I met at a house party by showing off my Satoshi Kon knowledge seemed like a really good idea at the time.

14 years ago
Posts: 560
I have a tenancy to run away. From responsibility, from my feelings, from other people. I don't like disappointment and feeling hurt, so I run away from my feelings and hide. I've gotten a bit better, opening up to certain people instead of crying to myself.

14 years ago
Posts: 445
I hate myself for being not honest sometimes. Lying to myself. cant admit the truth that lies in front of my eyes.
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14 years ago
Posts: 1701
I'm a procrastinator. I'm quite passive. And I'm gullible. I wish to be more of a leader than a follower in certain circumstances, and with certain people. I hate how I have trouble speaking when it comes to serious matters. I hate how I say some things I don't mean or feel.

14 years ago
Posts: 167
Quote from Pikapu
I can't handle spicy food.
I have a hard time speaking up.
Yep,the same points as you and also i hate myself being sometime walking around the room and talk to myself....god, i hate it!

14 years ago
Posts: 267
I hate how often I come up with a perfect reply, but waste so much time thinking it up that I end up not being able to use it!!! 😢

14 years ago
Posts: 134
I hate the fact that:
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I'm so lazy. (Procrastination is very tempting. But, on the contrary, I do finish my work. It's just that I end up pulling all-nighters because I start doing it late at night.)
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I'm very weak and unathletic. (I'm very useless to my group in PE.)
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I can easily lie if it benefits me, but I often feel guilty afterwards. (But, it depends on the degree of my lie, hehe. Sometimes, I don't feel guilty at all.)
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Sometimes, I'm too blunt and demanding, especially when I'm in-charge of a group. (Some of my group members hate me for that, too. Well, I only tell them to do what I'd expect myself to accomplish if I was in their position. Maybe, it's too much for them. shrugs)
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To follow up on #4, I can be very insensitive to other people's feelings. (I didn't even know that one of my group members was on the verge of crying because I kept asking her to repeat her lines over and over for hours, which is basically what I do when I'm trying to memorize something, so I thought I was helping her. That's when I realized I was being demanding and kind of bossy -- she said that directly to me. But we're friends now 😀 )
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Also, like daisukidesuyo, I have the tendency to run away from responsibility, too. (I may not try that hard to get schoolwork done, but if it's to avoid having to do anything hard, I'd snatch 1st place for effort.)
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I hate the fact that even if I know my faults, I don't even do anything about it. (It's more of a "don't like me, don't care" thing, but I realize that I have to change my faulty ways one of these days.)
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Last but not the least, I hate it that I have so many things I hate about myself. 😔
Having difficulty to say No. I don't want to but the feeling of rejecting others disturb me.. contradicting, I against myself.
Easily manipulated by others.
Forget things a lot.
I am not consistent..

14 years ago
Posts: 149
Quote from comel
Having difficulty to say No. I don't want to but the feeling of rejecting others disturb me.. contradicting, I against myself
Same to me.
Also I'm soo impatient and I often overreact or react before to know the full situation. The impatience is so bad trace!
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14 years ago
Posts: 603
I'm probably the laziest person you'll ever meet.
I have a hard time not to be rude to anyone, cause that's just how I am. When someone says something so utterly stupid that it annoys me, which is a lot, I have the bad habit to humiliate them.
Edit: Forgot to mention how easily I can manipulate people. I see through people very quickly and use that to my advantage sometimes. Not something i'm proud of, but it's helped me out of sticky situations millions of times.
14 years ago
Posts: 1
I worry too much about my health since I have a very poor one and become too paranoid.
Even though I like drawing I don't draw enough and can't improve.
I also lack of self-confidence.
I think too much and end up doing nothing ! I would feel better if I could get rid of these....

14 years ago
Posts: 12
I hate how my hair grows really quick, if i shave it all off in two months it'll look like the amazon rainforest
14 years ago
Posts: 3
Quote from crossyuuki
I hate the fact that:
- Last but not the least, I hate it that I have so many things I hate about myself. 😔
Omg wow ive been using this site for over a year now and never thought to ever sign up or read anything from community but after reading this post and all the things you lot hate about yourself i was moved.
Well to keep on target with the post I wont list everything i hate about myself because most i share with yourselves, but if i had to rate 1 thing i hate most about myself it would be my shy nature.
Its not like im a shy coward ill always stick up for myself but when it comes to meeting new people i often come across as uninterested which can be difficult in my work place and when making new friends
Doesnt seem so bad when i read what some of you lot have difficulties over but to me its fustrating

14 years ago
Posts: 9
Omg i didnt know their was so many people who hate the same things about themselfs as me
Hate that when someone i dont know tries to talk to me i will start thinking of a good response but when i say it its really quiet and they dont hear me, So annoyin
I hate that im lazy and leave things till the last minut i tell myself i wont but i still do
I hate the fact that i dont trust people much and id rather be alone, i get attached to things really easy so i try to stay away
wow theirs so many things i got loads more but their alot like everyone elses so yh
dats all 😀