I'm actually hoping that the romance picks up a bit in the Blood + series. I've been disappointed with it thus far, but only on the romance aspect. I like the manga.

Anything else I had to recommend has been mentioned.

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."