Who do you trust?
I couldn't find a similar topic in the forums and thought this would be interesting.
A certain mistrust is healthy, while too much can be pathological.
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Do you mean trust slightly?? Cause if so then most people really.. I could trust strangers a tiny bit.
Do you mean a medium ammount?? Cause if so then some of my family members and friends.
Do you mean implicitly?? Cause if so.. Well depends on what I'm trusting them with really.. As a medical proxy maybe one person.. actually I thought only of trust and mistrust and not of degrees of it, while making this poll. But I guess thats just as wrong as saying there's only black and white. So think of complete trust, that makes being betrayed unthinkable or (if you can think of it because it's theoretically possible) at least extremely unlikely for you.

17 years ago
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I trust based on my own judgement, so it varies according to the situation and the person.
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17 years ago
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I trust... individually.
My family members are certainly not trustworthy when I need an accurate answer on a manga. On the other hand, I wouldn't let someone deliver my paycheck just because he's a fellow otaku >.>
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17 years ago
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i've learned not to trust anybody especially family. they are all out for themselves plus if i something to one person i have no idea who they might then turn around and say that too.

17 years ago
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When I have someone who is close to me, that we have built a friendship and trust over the years (or time~)...
That is who I trust.
I must say, that family members can't be automatically trusted...
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I'm nice to everybody, but my srust needs to be earned.
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17 years ago
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I'm really bad at trusting people, and, as you said, too much mistrust can be quite bad, not only for yourself, but for others too... o_o
I voted "based on other criteria" but I'm not really sure what that criteria is... I've never thought about it, because I've never trusted anyone fully. Even the closest of friends/lovers.
But I guess honesty is a HUGE part of it. I cannot trust a dishonest person that much, even if they only lie occasionally. I just can't, I'm quite paranoid. xD
Um... hmm... And yesh.
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Actually, I can't be bothered since no one is actually going to be interested in reading/commenting on this. And I'll most probably forget that I posted here too, even if I could use the notifications thing, as it's an interesting topic. =/
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17 years ago
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I completely trust only my close friends.
But some people tend to gain my trust quicker than others, sometimes oddly based only on intuition-fortunately, it proves to be right most of the times.

17 years ago
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Based on personality.

17 years ago
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I'll be honest, I don't even trust my friends. If I put too much trust in a person, it'll devastate me when they break it. Why invest in something that wont help you at all?
And I really don't expect anyone to trust me.

17 years ago
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i put my trust in my country's government to bring us all down...
well i trust my family, they're a trustworthy bunch after all...guess i'm pretty lucky with that...
also there's few good friends i can count on...
but i don't, under any circumstances, trust any women.
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17 years ago
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Based on experience. I tend to give everyone "trust" only when I feel they've earned it. I like to think that I give everyone an equal chance though.
That said, depending on personality/appearance, I can be pretty skeptical.
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17 years ago
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I trust no one other than myself, but I can learn to trust you if you work hard enough 🙂

17 years ago
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So far I trust only one person, the rest being family or friends I will always treat with a degree of separation, will not loan things for too long and will only loan things I can replace if lost. Never, under no circumstance I will relly on someone to help me complete something or loan me something I need the most.
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Based on personality.
But it's also an issue if the personality shown to you is real. So even before judging the personality trust may be required.