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every human being should have the authority of their own human rights to their own decisions... thats why we hear "mind you own f***ing business" alot...

if there were goody goody two shoes/self righteous people trying to seed their beliefs into other people's minds, theyre no better than communism or the terrorists we fight today... forcing others to believe in what you believe in as a cult is what communism is all about... we're democracy/republic, as in a the country of USA, so everyone should have their own freedom of deciding things that revolves around them... period.


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every human being should have the authority of their own human rights to their own decisions... thats why we hear "mind you own f***ing business" alot...

if there were goody goody two shoes/self righteous people trying to seed their beliefs into other people's minds, theyre no better than communism or the terrorists we fight today... forcing others to believe in what you believe in as a cult is what communism is all about... we're democracy/republic, as in a the country of USA, so everyone should have their own freedom of deciding things that revolves around them... period.

I don't think you understand the mechanics behind communism and democracy at all.


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Honestly I don't care what other people are doing in their private life but for me this is a big NO. I can only focus on loving one man in the time and neither have enough time nor energy to spend on multiple partners.

from the other hand, I can't accept polyamory from my partner either. if I feel he is going after other women, I will dump him immediately. my last relationship finished as soon as I saw he has fallen for another woman and although I loved him so much but I finished it as fast as I could since it was totally heartbreaking and point less for both of us. 🤨


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Quote from bluegreenangel

every human being should have the authority of their own human rights to their own decisions... thats why we hear "mind you own f***ing business" alot...

if there were goody goody two shoes/self righteous people trying to seed their beliefs into other people's minds, theyre no better than communism or the terrorists we fight today... forcing others to believe in what you believe in as a cult is what communism is all about... we're democracy/republic, as in a the country of USA, so everyone should have their own freedom of deciding things that revolves around them... period.

Not all people here are from USA you know...
I guess there's even people from 'evil communist' countries here...

And everybody was just trying to state their opinion, all the posts started with a version of I've got no right to judge others...


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It's nothing as long as all the parties involved are aware of and agree to be in such an arrangement. I am not against polyamory but I am strongly against cheating and lying (such as having a relationship with someone who doesn't want polyamory, telling her/him that you only has her/him as a partner, while having relationships with other people).


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umm sure why not.. its not like its going to bother you


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I would not reprehend my friends for polyamory... but I would adivise them to use proper prottection.
As for me I would not want to have another partners since in my mind this kind of love is something that should be directed only to one person in this world. But unfortunately I can see myself downing my head if my girlfried/wife asks me to be in a polyamorus relationship... Even though knowing that the person I love the most needs love from other people would destroy me, kowing that she would be in the arms of another the same way she is in mine would kill me bit by bit, but since I am a very clingy and needy person I would consent with that just so she wouldn't leave me...
Before I used to think that polyamory and stuff alike were only from erotics stories and there wouldn't be something like that in real life, but now JohnGalt's post made me a bit scared by realizing this kind of stuff is real... I know the chances that I would be in a relationship like his are minimum, but I am quite paranoid... so adding this worry to a few others will keep me from having a girlfriend for a whille 😛


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Well it's the same as my attitude to everything else: "As long as it doesn't affect me, to each his/her own". Personally, I'd never be okay with having to share a guy, but I guess some people are okay with it =/


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Well it's the same as my attitude to everything else: "As long as it doesn't affect me, to each his/her own".

Yeah, if the others can maintain such a relationship without having their emotional and mental balance undermined well then kudos to them.

I will never be able to handle polyamory. I can get a bit selfish and possessive at the beginning of a relationship and imagining the emotional rollercoaster such a relationship will put me through just makes me go UGH 🤢

I want my man to be mine alone... =P


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Well it's the same as my attitude to everything else: "As long as it doesn't affect me, to each his/her own".

Yeah, if the others can maintain such a relationship without having their emotional and mental balance undermined well then kudos to them.

I will never be able to handle polyamory. I can get a bit selfish and possessive at the beginning of a relationship and imagining the emotional rollercoaster such a relationship will put me through just makes me go UGH 🤢

I want my man to be mine alone... =P

Until you get tired of them? 🤣 j/k j/k

I don't really care what they do. I would be against them being "married" though. That would just be messy. But if other people want to have multiple partners, then more power to them. Just one is too much for me >_<


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Well it's the same as my attitude to everything else: "As long as it doesn't affect me, to each his/her own".

Yeah, if the others can maintain such a relationship without having their emotional and mental balance undermined well then kudos to them.

I will never be able to handle polyamory. I can get a bit selfish and possessive at the beginning of a relationship and imagining the emotional rollercoaster such a relationship will put me through just makes me go UGH 🤢

I want my man to be mine alone... =P

Until you get tired of them? 🤣 j/k j/k

I don't really care what they do. I would be against them being "married" though. That would just be messy. But if other people want to have multiple partners, then more power to them. Just one is too much for me >_<

wouldn't you feel at least a bit jealous?


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Well it's the same as my attitude to everything else: "As long as it doesn't affect me, to each his/her own".

Yeah, if the others can maintain such a relationship without having their emotional and mental balance undermined well then kudos to them.

I will never be able to handle polyamory. I can get a bit selfish and possessive** at the beginning of a relationship** and imagining the emotional rollercoaster such a relationship will put me through just makes me go UGH 🤢

I want my man to be mine alone... =P

Until you get tired of them? 🤣 j/k j/k

I don't really care what they do. I would be against them being "married" though. That would just be messy. But if other people want to have multiple partners, then more power to them. Just one is too much for me >_<

Note the highlighted parts... 🤣

Yeah one partner is already too bothersome at times >_>


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@Aurey: Yea, I noticed that 🤣

@Ane: You're asking me? I'm not the jealous type... well, I think it's very unlikely that I'll have a polyamorous relationship though.


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every human being should have the authority of their own human rights to their own decisions... thats why we hear "mind you own f***ing business" alot...

if there were goody goody two shoes/self righteous people trying to seed their beliefs into other people's minds, theyre no better than communism or the terrorists we fight today... forcing others to believe in what you believe in as a cult is what communism is all about... we're democracy/republic, as in a the country of USA, so everyone should have their own freedom of deciding things that revolves around them... period.

I don't think you understand the mechanics behind communism and democracy at all. Not all people here are from USA you know...
I guess there's even people from 'evil communist' countries here...

And everybody was just trying to state their opinion, all the posts started with a version of I've got no right to judge others...

--> xombiecrop : yea i do... communists feed their people with the government's moralities, democracy or more of america ... doesnt or more of shouldnt be...
---> bedob : well, than that would apply towards me as well, right? im just stating my opinion on this as well, what think about the self righteous people nowadays who thinks they're the ones making the rules... so my responce was to this thread was people should mind their own business, and everyone should have their own choices as long as they dont break any laws


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[quote=bluegreenangel]every human being should have the authority of their own human rights to their own decisions... thats why we hear "mind you own f***ing business" alot...

if there were goody goody two shoes/self righteous people trying to seed their beliefs into other people's minds, theyre no better than communism or the terrorists we fight today... forcing others to believe in what you believe in as a cult is what communism is all about... we're democracy/republic, as in a the country of USA, so everyone should have their own freedom of deciding things that revolves around them... period.

I don't think you understand the mechanics behind communism and democracy at all. Not all people here are from USA you know...
I guess there's even people from 'evil communist' countries here...

And everybody was just trying to state their opinion, all the posts started with a version of I've got no right to judge others...

--> xombiecrop : yea i do... communists feed their people with the government's moralities, democracy or more of america ... doesnt or more of shouldnt be...
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What you describe isn't communism but stalinism and it's completly different,
Communism is a socioeconomic structure and political ideology that promotes the establishment of an egalitarian, classless society based on common ownership of the means of production and property in general.
(it's not that bad in fact).

well for the polyamory thing:
i'm against it and i don't approve of it even for the other around me. I don't say that i will tell them to stop but i will not say "it's alright do what you want with how many you want". It's the same as casual sex, it's just fooling around with two girl and even if they say they love you it's not really true or else they would not partage you with an other girl.

for JohnGalt's post there's two possibility, that's a troll or he's a moron, i mean if my wife (if i ever have one that is) ever ask me that then... it's over, it would just mean that she ask me if she can cheat on me, man wtf is that, your wife asked you if she could cheat on you and you say yes, she must really love you 🤣 . For me it would mean at least a big discussion and at the very worst the end of the relationship, but i will never agree to kind of relationship.


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