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Trusting After Lying

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The Gorilla Killa™
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15 years ago
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Ok, let's say that someone you trust (Be it a friend, parent, sibling, relative, partner, spouse or whatever) lied to you about something important and you found out about it. What would you do?


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15 years ago
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Add some more boost to the fishiness gauge and ignore if for now.


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15 years ago
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I forgive (after a loooong while,) but i never forget.
and believe , it takes a lot of time to get me to forgie you, if it was serious.


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I would let it go, but I will remember.


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15 years ago
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I never forget nor do I ever actually forgive (if it was a big lie).
But I let it go and move on.


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15 years ago
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Depends what they lied about.


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15 years ago
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I'd forgive, but be a bit more wary next time.


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15 years ago
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Depends on the lie and why. If they did it out of misguided concern then I would have no trouble forgiving them. Same if they were just protecting themselves with lies. However If they did it deliberately to help themselves or worse, to intentionally leave me in the dark, that's something else entirely. If it was family or a close friend I would talk through it, make sure we could move past it even if I would never really forget and it would always have an influence on how I treated/saw them affterwards. However if it was an acquaintance I would talk about it but likely have very little to do with them afterwards.

Basically it all depends on the circumstances.


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15 years ago
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Overall I'll eventually get over it, but I'll be taking their words with several packets of salt from then on.


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15 years ago
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I would remember and be a bit more cautious.

And this might only apply for me. When i notice lies, i don't rat them out straight away most times. I let it carry on for a while and sometimes i don't even mention i noticed it.

It gives me better perspective of the person sometimes.


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15 years ago
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Usually I'd forgive, but of course I would want to know why was that person lying.
It's hard to trust someone who has lied about something important without any good reason.


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15 years ago
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id forgive the person, but i will let that person know that our relationship will never be the same ever again


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I'd forgive, but not before making them feel guilty about it.


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Quote from fr33noob

I would remember and be a bit more cautious.

And this might only apply for me. When i notice lies, i don't rat them out straight away most times. I let it carry on for a while and sometimes i don't even mention i noticed it.

It gives me better perspective of the person sometimes.

lol i do this as well.


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My sister pulled this on me and I forgave her pretty quickly but she and I both know that I won't forget so easily. Trust is built up over time and a lie is like a giant reset button that takes you back to the beginning. They have to earn back your trust all over again and it takes awhile to really trust wholeheartedly like you used to.


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