do u believe in love at first sight?

17 years ago
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I believe in lust at first sight, love at first sight is a nonsense.
You can be attracted to someone soon as you see them, but that is not love.
If that was love at first sight, i'd be falling in love in women behinds on a daily basis 😐i want to agree with you with all my heart^^
There is no love at first sight for the likes of us...only lusting...
i wanna agree with you one more time^^

17 years ago
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I believe in love at first sight, it also happen that i look a girl and i lust about her but i know the difference.
I have fallen in love 4 time in my life and 3 were love at first sight but the number of time i had a feeling of lust from seeing a girl one time i don't count it, it's something that happen all the time.so you just look at a girl and then say "oh this girl is beautiful, i am in love with her.." what about her personality? Doesn't personality matter for you?
No i look at a girl and then i don't think anymore 😲
For the personality thing it's quite hard to answer, i care about the personality but when you fall in love at first sight it's because of the ways you see the other person, i take an exemple :
a day i was in a pub with my father and i see a girl, she wasn't beautiful but the way she was told me about her personality (a tiny bit of course), she wasn't a gloomy girl, she liked to party, drink alcohol, she was open-minded and didn't care about physical aspect or where you're from. these are thing you found at first sight and this is what made me fall for her, afterward you learn about the other aspect of her personality when you speak with her but it's too late you already fallen for here the first time you looked at her.
Also choosing someone because you have a type of girl and you think only the girl who are like this are good for you, it's as if you don't care about personality, you're stuck with you're perfect girl and don't care about the other
you will never find her so for me i don't care about the personality as much as most of the people.
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17 years ago
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There's no such thing as love at first sight. The feeling that most of us confuse for love is lust. Now, that's not to say that two people can't meet, be extremely attracted to each other, and after spending a lot of time together, they end up falling in love. I'm sure that happens a lot because it's very hard to start a relationship when the the parties don't find each other attractive. However, to think that you saw someone and fell in love with them right at that moment is nonsense. I think the first moment you meet can be the beginning of love, but it won't become love unless you spend time together.
As everyone else said, it's most likely lust. I suppose if I ever did fall in love/lust at first sight, I'd believe it was love... Then again I'm not that shojoey
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17 years ago
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no i dont cause to me you cant fall in love with someone on just how they look like
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17 years ago
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well i do believe in it but thats just because i like believing in crazy things and people tell me that im a real romanticists but anyways i would like to find a girl i would fall in love with at first sight
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17 years ago
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Not love at first sight, attracted to at first sight.
yes i beleive in it.....but u should get to know the person b4 shouting out "I love you!!!"
So basically to vanquish the world of evil you must have mega sex with a girl then your soul is taken...yes

17 years ago
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Yes, but I don't trust my own instincts
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17 years ago
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yes i beleive in it.....but u should get to know the person b4 shouting out "I love you!!!"
"I love you" is a sentence that can change people life so you must always think about it twice before saying it.
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17 years ago
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yes i beleive in it.....but u should get to know the person b4 shouting out "I love you!!!"
"I love you" is a sentence that can change people life so you must always think about it twice before saying it.
Too many people use it so casually today. I have a sister that has told every single one of her boyrfriends that she loves them and I think her longest relationship might have been 6 months max. I can understand telling someone you love them and meaning it in a platonic way, but if you're dating someone and say that, then I think you should be clear on exactly how you love them.
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17 years ago
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yes i beleive in it.....but u should get to know the person b4 shouting out "I love you!!!"
"I love you" is a sentence that can change people life so you must always think about it twice before saying it.
Too many people use it so casually today. I have a sister that has told every single one of her boyrfriends that she loves them and I think her longest relationship might have been 6 months max. I can understand telling someone you love them and meaning it in a platonic way, but if you're dating someone and say that, then I think you should be clear on exactly how you love them.
i have the same kind of sister she really like to say "je t'aime" to her boyfriend and i find it quite funny since they broke up and get back together all the time. 🤣
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17 years ago
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...maybe, never experienced it or known anyone's experienced love at first sight
but then again, i've had hate at first sight....

17 years ago
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No. But I have seen people, where I've thought "wow, I wouldn't mind getting to know them."
That's the closest I can think of.