So as the title says I am looking for a romance between a servant/butler and hime/young lady of an important family or of some status. I would like the male lead to have fallen in love first and then possibly decided to hide it (doesnt have to but that would be nice) the female lead would then fall in love with him after. Like one of those romances where a girl is looking for love and then realizes that the person she is looking for has been next to her the whole time. Thanks for any suggestions

While I breathe, I hope

Well... I wanna say Youko x Boku SS. It doesn't fit perfect to your description, but it's not too far off.

Hm... Perhaps Inu x Boku SS?

Edit: Bleh someone beat me to it.

If you don't mind short stories, Edo Karuta #4, Tsuki no Waltz, Ojousama no Untenshu, Souai Metaphysica.

A long one could be Evyione, she's a princess, and he's a royal guard.

Arakure is similar to what you want.

Toraware no Minoue - edited to add this one, it is also similar

Maybe Mei-chan no shitsuji...it's not that awesome and the female lead is really childish, but you might want to try it out anyways.

Oh my goodness so many! Thank you all - the mangas look soo good, I cant wait to read them

While I breathe, I hope

I second Tsuki no Waltz by MITSUKI Kako, Youko x Boku SS by FUJIWARA Cocoa and ISHIHARA Keiko's Ojousama no Untenshu.

The only well-fitting series that comes to my mind is Renai Demo Classic by SHIMADA Chie. Butler/ Tutor with a younger lady to serve.

Although it is not about a butler, the master-servant relationship in SAKURA Roku's short series Flowernoid no Shuufukushi might be to your liking.

If you are fine with one-shots, I'd recommend the first story in Babel no Tegami by ASAHINA Shouko and Soleil (ICHINOSE Kaoru). Former tells a bittersweet story about the love between a butler and his mistress, and the latter is a sweet one 🙂

[color=#8A795D]"Stories are what death thinks he puts an end to.
He can't understand that they end in him, but they don't end with him."

• Ursula K. Le Guin, Gifts[/color]

To be savoured:

• Blood Alone by TAKANO Masayuki
• Otoyomegatari by MORI Kaoru
• Gangsta. by Kohske
• Seishun Kouryakuhon by AKIZUKI Sorata

I would definitely recommend the daughter of the albert house wishes for ruin.
Both the manga and the light novel are amazing, with dinamic characters and dialogue especially between marry(the main character) and Addie(her butler since childhood who is deeply in love with her)