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@boxbox : I guess you;re right, it is about opinions. So i'm going to stop trying to argue my point since it's useless. So before it starts escalating from opinions to a fight, i'm gonna drop out of this discussion Dx.
Oh and as for my opinion on who's fairer, i would go with 2D characters <3 LOL

oh jesus, lol, you're not that kid from Japan that married the online 2-D character in a game are you? 🤣

I hope i'm not... but hey, who here doesn't like 2D characters? I mean, real people created them in a way that they are like us but without the detrimental flaws.

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I've met weak and strong of both sorts in relatively equal amounts.

This pretty much sums up my opinion.

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@boxbox : I guess you;re right, it is about opinions. So i'm going to stop trying to argue my point since it's useless. So before it starts escalating from opinions to a fight, i'm gonna drop out of this discussion Dx.
Oh and as for my opinion on who's fairer, i would go with 2D characters <3 LOL

oh jesus, lol, you're not that kid from Japan that married the online 2-D character in a game are you? 🤣

I hope i'm not... but hey, who here doesn't like 2D characters? I mean, real people created them in a way that they are like us but without the detrimental flaws.

I like real people better, lol, it's the flaws the define a person. If we are all perfect, it be very very boring indeed. In fact, I probably go nuts. 🤣

Maybe that's why girls like bad boys, and not the class president with the neat shirt and tie and perfect gpa. 🤣 Then again, those bad boys are usually the one with more sex appeal. hmmm hard to say what really is going on. I was never a girl and I don't think I want to be one.

Gay book discussion thread

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this is not about cannibalism...please get back on topic

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I think it is exactly the topic. I see nothing wrong.

@boxbox : hey hey don't underestimate the suit and tie, i've had my fair share of teenage love and my closet is full dress shirts and pants. Sometimes it's just easier to not deal with those flaws; just a personal preference.

Don't we have to first have to establish just what 'fair' is and how (and by whom) it's judged?

According to the dictionary 'fair' would be the more elegant, honest, trustworthy, pure-hearted and unbiased.
Since the world can't be viewed in just black and white, things can't be classified as 'good' or 'evil', 'honest' and 'dishonest'. It all depends on interpretation and intention. Sometimes it's crueler to be honest than to tell lie, though again this depends on interpretation and intention.
So does for example: being able to remain friendly with someone you dislike, make you more 'fair'?

On to the next point: Who does the judging and how?

Since it's mostly a matter of personal opinion and experience the only one to judge is yourself... Which makes it all the more pointless since the experiences you've had and the environment you're in are different for the person next to you (let alone someone on the other side of the world).
If you only have female friends and/or all males around you are dicks, you most likely view the females as the fairer sex. Of course, you could also just be 'deceiving' yourself... Wanting something to be pure or denying what you see.

Let me even go one step further and ask: What is this 'gender'?
Are you talking about the physical, or the mental?
Take into account that not everyone is purely 'male' or 'female' of body and even more aren't so in mind... To some the 'difference' doesn't even matter (like me).

So to summarise: It's an opinion, a personal one at that. One that is subject to culture, environment and personal experiences. So even though you could share an opinion with some else, it doesn't make it a truth.

When I read the question from the OP, I thought the "fair" that's being discussed is physical fairness, or attractiveness, complexion, etc... As in "Mirror, mirror on the wall, who is the fairest of them all?"

If that's the case then I have to say females.

If the subject is actually about attitudes/personality, then I say there is no difference between genders.

I think genders differ in their grounds of being "fairer". The greatest of women can be kind, warm, and motherly, while the worst of women can be resentful, two-faced, and downright B-chy. the greatest of men can be chivalrous, just, and fatherly, while the worst of men can be violent, stubborn, and a total d-ck.

Women hold grudges a lot more than men do, and a lot longer too.
Men tend to act more immature or are more difficult to have a serious conversation with.
Ultimately, you're going to find exceptions and differences between these two genders, but these "stereotypes" and generalizations exist for a reason, because it works the majority of the time.

So who is fairer? Depends on what aspect you're looking at. If you want a friend you can be serious with, a woman is a good choice, but remember that if you cross her, she can hold a grudge. If you want a buddy-buddy shits and giggles of a time, than a man is a good choice, but remember it may be hard getting an aristotle from a joker

some people in both. it all really matters about if you are lucky or not when you are conceived. its mostly in your genes unless you have an horrible mishap that happened to you or decided to have surgery in order to become more 'fairer'

D'oh!

This is why we read mangas...