Women who want to be men/crossdressing
15 years ago
Posts: 704
You've been reading yaoi too much and ended up equating sex = yaoi, that's why you want to be a guy.
you didn't have this problem before reading yaoi, so you're not transvestite or anything like that, it's temporary.
Just lay your hands off yaoi for a while and go for shoujo smut, then you'll feel like a women again.
don't let fantasy get into your real life sexuality.
15 years ago
Posts: 310
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[quote=maromi12d3]Ok I like to clear the air for a bit but I feel as if I am truly male before reading yaoi but now ever sense I've read yaoi and watch movies I feel really jealous of these love stories presented before my eyes. I adore the mans figure and wish I had the body, the voice the looks. Am I the only one? Please tell me there are other people on this forum who are like me! ;-; Sorry if this looks really weird but I just feel this way u_u...
U r such a wierdo. 😐
there are no weirdos, just people who think there are
Definition of wierdo is:
- A person who is considered strange to other people. This person may do strange things, so this person can be considered a "weirdo".
So are you suggesting that there are no people who do "strange" things? Strange being "out of the ordinary". I would call her actions out of the "ordinary" backed up agaisnt the majourity of people.
I like your anti descrimination act but you can't say wierdo's don't exist. Thats garbage and it should be desposed of. 🤣 Its better to think up a more refined condascending line.[/quote]
That's nice and all but I think their big point is that "weirdo" has a negative connotation. They are not saying that there are no people who go against the norm, rather, they're saying that there is no reason for people to percieve such differences negatively. Normalcy is socially constructed and as long as there is no harm in it, abnormality does not deserve to be judged and criticized in such a rude way.
On topic: If you're not happy in your gender and this began before reading yaoi (which I think you say in your post) then it's understandable that you're jealous of a man's body since it is consistent with your feelings. If you do feel that way, it doesn't harm anyone and it's not something to feel bad about or anything; to each his own. If this only started after reading yaoi, I'd have to agree with Hespia Klarerin.
15 years ago
Posts: 603
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[quote=darcyaglow][quote=maromi12d3]Ok I like to clear the air for a bit but I feel as if I am truly male before reading yaoi but now ever sense I've read yaoi and watch movies I feel really jealous of these love stories presented before my eyes. I adore the mans figure and wish I had the body, the voice the looks. Am I the only one? Please tell me there are other people on this forum who are like me! ;-; Sorry if this looks really weird but I just feel this way u_u...
U r such a wierdo. 😐
there are no weirdos, just people who think there are
Definition of wierdo is:
- A person who is considered strange to other people. This person may do strange things, so this person can be considered a "weirdo".
So are you suggesting that there are no people who do "strange" things? Strange being "out of the ordinary". I would call her actions out of the "ordinary" backed up agaisnt the majourity of people.
I like your anti descrimination act but you can't say wierdo's don't exist. Thats garbage and it should be desposed of. 🤣 Its better to think up a more refined condascending line.[/quote]
That's nice and all but I think their big point is that "weirdo" has a negative connotation. They are not saying that there are no people who go against the norm, rather, they're saying that there is no reason for people to percieve such differences negatively. Normalcy is socially constructed and as long as there is no harm in it, abnormality does not deserve to be judged and criticized in such a rude way.
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I already knew what Shadowsakura was trying to do but thankyou for trying to enlighten me. Although it may be harsh to say, i think its better to be straight forward rather than make up a b*&^%&t philosophy if you cacth my rift...If you wan't to be condascending then make a better job of it.
Hmm, maybe thats just what i feel but nobody likes someone who sprouts nonsense philosophy.
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I believe in letting people do as they wish, as do I myself. Sometimes, of course, what I wish to do is kill them and they do not wish to die. This gives life interest.
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15 years ago
Posts: 2707
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[quote=maromi12d3]Ok I like to clear the air for a bit but I feel as if I am truly male before reading yaoi but now ever sense I've read yaoi and watch movies I feel really jealous of these love stories presented before my eyes. I adore the mans figure and wish I had the body, the voice the looks. Am I the only one? Please tell me there are other people on this forum who are like me! ;-; Sorry if this looks really weird but I just feel this way u_u...
U r such a wierdo. 😐
there are no weirdos, just people who think there are
Definition of wierdo is:
- A person who is considered strange to other people. This person may do strange things, so this person can be considered a "weirdo".[/quote]
15 years ago
Posts: 603
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[quote=darcyaglow][quote=maromi12d3]Ok I like to clear the air for a bit but I feel as if I am truly male before reading yaoi but now ever sense I've read yaoi and watch movies I feel really jealous of these love stories presented before my eyes. I adore the mans figure and wish I had the body, the voice the looks. Am I the only one? Please tell me there are other people on this forum who are like me! ;-; Sorry if this looks really weird but I just feel this way u_u...
U r such a wierdo. 😐
there are no weirdos, just people who think there are
Definition of wierdo is:
- A person who is considered strange to other people. This person may do strange things, so this person can be considered a "weirdo".[/quote][/quote]
ahhh very good, your suggesting its opinionated.
yes, considered. But have you ever thought that strange is "out of the ordinary". Backed up against a "majority" of something, the minoroty is considered strange as a statistic. Meh. so strange does exist and there for wierdo does, even if it is a negative conatation. 😁
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I believe in letting people do as they wish, as do I myself. Sometimes, of course, what I wish to do is kill them and they do not wish to die. This gives life interest.
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15 years ago
Posts: 2707
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[quote=ShadowSakura][quote=darcyaglow][quote=maromi12d3]Ok I like to clear the air for a bit but I feel as if I am truly male before reading yaoi but now ever sense I've read yaoi and watch movies I feel really jealous of these love stories presented before my eyes. I adore the mans figure and wish I had the body, the voice the looks. Am I the only one? Please tell me there are other people on this forum who are like me! ;-; Sorry if this looks really weird but I just feel this way u_u...
U r such a wierdo. 😐
there are no weirdos, just people who think there are
Definition of wierdo is:
- A person who is considered strange to other people. This person may do strange things, so this person can be considered a "weirdo".[/quote][/quote]
ahhh very good, your suggesting its opinionated.
yes, considered. But have you ever thought that strange is "out of the ordinary". Backed up against a "majority" of something, the minoroty is considered strange as a statistic. Meh. so strange does exist and there for wierdo does, even if it is a negative conatation. 😁 [/quote]
i think this needs an own thread -.-" ordinary doesn´t really exist since every human breaks out of the sheme of "ordianry" in some ways. So being not normal is normal. And so weird can´t exist since there is no normal. How should i put it... like "all parents love their children" doesn´t fit since many parents don´t care for them or even dislike them. That would be usually considered as different_/ weird. Put since there are many parents like this it is also normal. Kinda a paradox. So people can´t be considered really as weird, just the people do because they think in their standards. You could only make a real seperation between normal and weird if you knew everything about every person in the world (sorry if it doesn´t make sense, i´m tired)
my english is meeting it´s limits...
15 years ago
Posts: 603
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[quote=fr33noob][quote=ShadowSakura][quote=darcyaglow][quote=maromi12d3]Ok I like to clear the air for a bit but I feel as if I am truly male before reading yaoi but now ever sense I've read yaoi and watch movies I feel really jealous of these love stories presented before my eyes. I adore the mans figure and wish I had the body, the voice the looks. Am I the only one? Please tell me there are other people on this forum who are like me! ;-; Sorry if this looks really weird but I just feel this way u_u...
U r such a wierdo. 😐
there are no weirdos, just people who think there are
Definition of wierdo is:
- A person who is considered strange to other people. This person may do strange things, so this person can be considered a "weirdo".[/quote][/quote]
ahhh very good, your suggesting its opinionated.
yes, considered. But have you ever thought that strange is "out of the ordinary". Backed up against a "majority" of something, the minoroty is considered strange as a statistic. Meh. so strange does exist and there for wierdo does, even if it is a negative conatation. 😁 [/quote]
i think this needs an own thread -.-" ordinary doesn´t really exist since every human breaks out of the sheme of "ordianry" in some ways. So being not normal is normal. And so weird can´t exist since there is no normal. How should i put it... like "all parents love their children" doesn´t fit since many parents don´t care for them or even dislike them. That would be usually considered as different_/ weird. Put since there are many parents like this it is also normal. Kinda a paradox. So people can´t be considered really as weird, just the people do because they think in their standards. You could only make a real seperation between normal and weird if you knew everything about every person in the world (sorry if it doesn´t make sense, i´m tired)
my english is meeting it´s limits...[/quote]
right, right but your little statement was along the lines of wierdo doesn't exist.
By the way I'm not saying that a wierdo is someone who is bad, terrible or a spawn of the devil. All I was getting at is that, as a statistical point, doing "certain" things out of the "ordinary", "ordinary" being the line of majority between a vast amount. Like 6 fingers is wierd compared to 5; therefore its possible to call that person a wierdo even though it is negative because his fingers are "strange".
It's true, not every human is like the other however they are mostly similar. Even the ones who "think" they are not.
You do not have to know everything about a person to assess something wierd about them. I get where your coming from but WIERD does exist.
on topic ("=_=). Yeah, theres nothing wrong with wanting to dress up like a guy. However if you want to atract men, then perhaps a more chic look would be in oder -.-.
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I believe in letting people do as they wish, as do I myself. Sometimes, of course, what I wish to do is kill them and they do not wish to die. This gives life interest.
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15 years ago
Posts: 2707
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[quote=ShadowSakura][quote=fr33noob][quote=ShadowSakura][quote=darcyaglow][quote=maromi12d3]Ok I like to clear the air for a bit but I feel as if I am truly male before reading yaoi but now ever sense I've read yaoi and watch movies I feel really jealous of these love stories presented before my eyes. I adore the mans figure and wish I had the body, the voice the looks. Am I the only one? Please tell me there are other people on this forum who are like me! ;-; Sorry if this looks really weird but I just feel this way u_u...
U r such a wierdo. 😐
there are no weirdos, just people who think there are
Definition of wierdo is:
- A person who is considered strange to other people. This person may do strange things, so this person can be considered a "weirdo".[/quote][/quote]
ahhh very good, your suggesting its opinionated.
yes, considered. But have you ever thought that strange is "out of the ordinary". Backed up against a "majority" of something, the minoroty is considered strange as a statistic. Meh. so strange does exist and there for wierdo does, even if it is a negative conatation. 😁 [/quote]
i think this needs an own thread -.-" ordinary doesn´t really exist since every human breaks out of the sheme of "ordianry" in some ways. So being not normal is normal. And so weird can´t exist since there is no normal. How should i put it... like "all parents love their children" doesn´t fit since many parents don´t care for them or even dislike them. That would be usually considered as different_/ weird. Put since there are many parents like this it is also normal. Kinda a paradox. So people can´t be considered really as weird, just the people do because they think in their standards. You could only make a real seperation between normal and weird if you knew everything about every person in the world (sorry if it doesn´t make sense, i´m tired)
my english is meeting it´s limits...[/quote]
right, right but your little statement was along the lines of wierdo doesn't exist.
By the way I'm not saying that a wierdo is someone who is bad, terrible or a spawn of the devil. All I wasgetting at is that, as a statistical point, doing "certain" things is out of the "ordinary", "ordinary" being the line of majority between a vast amount. Like 6 fingers is wierd compared to 5. Therefore its possible to call that person a wierdo even though it is negative because his fingers are "strange".
It's true, not every human is like the other however they are mostly similar. Even the ones who "think" they are not.
You do not have to know everything about a person to asses something wierd about them. I get where your coming from but WIERD does exist. 🤣 [/quote]
Ah, i can´t put it in words anymore. WIERD may be existing, but WIERDO not since a state can be different from normal, but not a human except those with disorded bodies (but i mean wierdo as different in mind, not in body). In german, we don´t even have a word for wierdo, the ones in the dictionaries have not the same meaning as the english word, but they are just close. But we have a word for wierd. I don´t say that there is no wierd, but i say there are no wierdos since wierd only refers specific states if used, but wierdo would mean that the whole existance of the human would be out of normal. And if you csn´t follow me, i´m sorry, but i really have to sleep now, and a lack of sleep "does my english bad"
14 years ago
Posts: 3
People here are getting a little of topic but it's okay, I will just say this: you will have to define what you want, jealousy can be of anything.For example; i was jealous of a bird flying one day and coming back to the nest, i wanted to be him, but at the same time i don't.
As for if i wanted, one time i wanted to be a man , not because of yaoi, and wanted to crossdress, but i am okay this way.
you can call me someone assexual, and yes I really don't like sex, and female male concepts, I think equally of both male and female bodies.And i don't think you are weird, nobody is and at the same time is weird, it's nature. 😛
