Hi, I want to to read something with quite a lot of explicit scenes but I am tired of those stereotypical stories where the male/seme is handsome and manly and often quite dickish and manipulative but at the end everything is forgiven because he somewhat likes the female/uke protagonist, the later being often kind of submissive, always blushing and ends up tolerating almost everything the other does because that's how he expresses his love !

So I want something with : no dubious consent, where the sex is not a result of one pressuring the other, blackmailing them, borderline raping them or something like that. No excessive possessiveness where almost every other being around the main couple seems like a possible threat. Preferably no love triangles. No incest. It can possibly be something a bit kinky/hardcore/strange, as long as it's really consensual I don't mind. If the main couple challenges the male/seme=dominant, manly and possessive & female/uke=meek, submissive and often less experienced types of stereotype that's even better.

I am ok with every genre (shoujo, josei, seinen, yaoi, yuri or even hentai if the scenario is really good) even if I am mainly looking for hetero couples (I already know quite a few BL that fits the description but if you have some lesser known / newer suggestions that would be welcomed as well)

EDIT : I'm also ok with less explicit work if it's charged with sensual, sexual tension like Fujiyama-san wa Shishunki or Kannou sensei

Nana to Kaoru and its side story Nana to Kaoru (Arashi) don't have any sexual content but rather very suggestive bondage scenes. It's clear that the two MCs really love and respect each other. The ending to the main series is kinda rushed, but if you read Arashi afterwards you'll get a much more satisfying ending.

You can try Natsu no Zenjitsu, and also Kannou Sensei. This last one doesn't have any scenes like you want yet, but I'm pretty sure it won't take long, considering the point the story is in.

Umibe no Onnanoko might fit. Although the relationship between both main chars is dubious, nothing is done without consent.

Yes, you're worthy!

Thanks for your replies, I think I have already began to read Nana to Kaoru and Natsu no zenjitsu in the past and I did enjoy it but never read it until the end so I think I'll re-read them again.
Umibe no Onnanoko definitively picked my interest but it being an Asano Inio with the psychological tag I think I'll save it for a rainy week-end night.
I've just finished all the translated chapters of Kannou Sensei and I have to say, that's exactly the type of work I wished for. One of the best things I've read lately, I really really enjoy it so a big thanks for that !

Any other suggestions are welcomed,
Thanks again !

Don't have explicit scenes, but it's very realistic: try "wotakoi: love is hard for otaku" (They also just recently released an anime adaptation.)

I am already reading wotakoi and I like it but I'm looking for something a bit more sensual/sexual. The sensual M, Following Namsoo to the Bathhouse, Pornographer are good examples of titles I have enjoyed recently

I think that Hiyoko Brand - Okusama wa Joshikousei can fit most, if not all, of your criteria.