SUI? Sex under the influence? For the first time?

17 years ago
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Yeah Ares, just because someone has some underhanded fuckery in their background, doesn't invalidate the good parts of them.
People are all different varieties of hypocrite, it's just a matter of understanding how to deal with their bad sides.
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17 years ago
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I know a Guy in my year at school who has never had sex with a sober Girl... He has taken advantage of many drunk Girls, one of which have ended up crying over it 😔 .
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17 years ago
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I know a Guy in my year at school who has never had sex with a sober Girl... He has taken advantage of many drunk Girls, one of which have ended up crying over it 😔 .
Yeah...you know that doing that to a girl under the influence of alcohol is considered a crime. The girl could get the guy arrested.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Types_of_rape#Drug_facilitated_date_rape
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17 years ago
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Yeah...you know that doing that to a girl under the influence of alcohol is considered a crime. The girl could get the guy arrested.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Types_of_rape#Drug_facilitated_date_rape
I think 99% of them didn't mind (pretty sure they go to the party for sex) but I don't really know about the one who was upset. I think its not that she had sex, but its that she had it with him (he used to have friends at my school but as the years have gone on he just lost all of them, mainly because he doesn't care about the feelings of even his closest friends). >:-( I just think she was to ashamed to admit it...
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17 years ago
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Yeah...you know that doing that to a girl under the influence of alcohol is considered a crime. The girl could get the guy arrested.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Types_of_rape#Drug_facilitated_date_rapeI think 99% of them didn't mind (pretty sure they go to the party for sex) but I don't really know about the one who was upset. I think its not that she had sex, but its that she had it with him (he used to have friends at my school but as the years have gone on he just lost all of them, mainly because he doesn't care about the feelings of even his closest friends). >:-( I just think she was to ashamed to admit it...
The problem is, she could if she would. So it's not really a good idea to do that while one or both of you are drunk. It's one of those just-to-be-safe kind of thing. That's one of the first thing I learned about this topic in school.
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17 years ago
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The problem is, she could if she would. So it's not really a good idea to do that while one or both of you are drunk. It's one of those just-to-be-safe kind of thing. That's one of the first thing I learned about this topic in school.
Yeah I know. It basicly (as you said) is rape if the person didn't have control over their choices due to the alchol.
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lol ok. so my teacher only got it slightly wrong.
@ares, i guess you dont have much faith in people, right? personally, i like getting close to my friends. maybe partly coz they are not the type to do really wild/insane/disgusting stuff [i actually sometimes wish they were a bit MORE wild :/] but also i have plenty of bad stuff about me, so we just have to... accept each others faults? gah, sounds like an after school special.
well, you get what i mean. i guess i just have more faith in people. 🙂
They disappoint me when I get close to them. They reveal a lot of their bad characteristics I really do not want to know.
everyone has bad crap about them! altho since all the girls i know are pretty much goodey-two-shoes and i dont know many guys [i go to an all girls skl] i probs have more bad stuff about me than they have....
not the point! lol. i guess you just have to accept the crap and look on the bright side of them. tho i guess that can be hard... but we always try! .... right?
btw ares, u a guy or girl?
He's a guy. 😀 Btw, you sure like to post in the 18+ section. 🤣
I won't ever have sex under influence, because I don't drink. Period. 😛
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17 years ago
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Yeah, sex under influence is bad, and all that. But for some girls (I know few) alcohol was something that helped them to relax. They stopped being so self-conscious and had a good time. But then, they trusted their partners and didn't have one-night stands.
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17 years ago
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He's a guy. 😀 Btw, you sure like to post in the 18+ section. 🤣
I won't ever have sex under influence, because I don't drink. Period. 😛
What's with all the question of whether I'm a guy or not, I'm a guy. Can't you tell by my style of typing?
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Did you know that 85% of all statistics are made up on the spot?
Of course I just made this one up, (the irony is the joke here) but still whoever you got these "statistics" from probably made it up to ease their guilt from doing it someone else. 🤣
But the fact of the matter is, Having sex with a female that's drunk is wrong no matter what the circumstances. I had it happen to me, when a drunk girl begged me to have sex with her, and I refused. They will thank you in the mournin for not taking advantage of them.
Moral of the story:
"No means NO, Maybe means NO... and sometimes YES means NO"
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17 years ago
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Quote from ares6
What's with all the question of whether I'm a guy or not, I'm a guy. Can't you tell by my style of typing?
Maybe because you sound like a bitter woman? Esp. in this thread imo. And I've never met a bitter man before so that would make me suggest you're a female, too. And wherever does it show in your typing that you're male? 😕 No offence, of course(:
But to the topic — I had been drinking before my first time, too, and I don't regret it. It helped me relax much more and hide the fact that I wasn't really sure what I should be doing to help him push through. I really don't understand what the big deal with this virginity (and savouring it) is - I mean, I wouldn't want the man/woman that I finally end up with to start teaching me how to have sex. I would prefer to pleasure him/her with all the techniques I know.
But anyways, I don't mind a little alcohol if it helps to overcome the shyness at first, but doing it only when drunk there can really be no love in it.
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17 years ago
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The band Sublime with "DATE RAPE"
http://youtube.com/watch?v=1WBttO4UzSw 🤣
"if it wasnt for date rape... i would never get laid" 😁
EDIT:It's allways quite disturbing for me if i see people that change personalitys if they are drunk... when i'm drunk I'm still the same person... only i little bit quiter because i cant coordinate myself that well when i'm totally drunk^^
I also think that it is BS if you say that girls dont know what they do if they drunk... you maybe behave different but you can still think... and if you dont whant it and dont get forced to do IT just say NO... 😐

17 years ago
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i was under the influence when i lost my virginity, i would think the percentage of girls being under the influence would be a smaller amount but i feel as though it would be at least 20% to 30% but watevs