Basically I want a cooking or perhaps bartending
No Shoujo, Yaoi, Yuri

All time fav cooking manga is Bambino!
Others;
Shokugeki no Soma
Hell's Kitchen
Addicted To Curry
Yakitate!! Japan
Nobunaga no Chef
Bartender

Dropped:
Toriko

Chuuka Ichiban!
(they don't have many chapters translated, but the anime was really good)

Mix Vegetable
I just love every komura ayumi manga, this was really good!
It's shoujo, but for the most part, it feels like a shoujo-shounen mix

Cooking Papa

Considering your excluded demographics, I'd recommend Shinya Shokudou by ABE Yaro. It centres around "The Late Night Diner", a restaurant which doesn't have a menu but serves customers according to their wishes, a bit like Bartender. However, don't expected there to be any recipes or extended plot points, it's an episodic food manga after all. The art might not please everyone, but I found its simplicity to be strangely charming.

If you happen to be a bit more open-minded towards other demographics, I'd suggest you try Kinou Nani Tabeta? by YOSHINAGA Fumi. I normally don't read Shounen-ai, either, but this one is such a casual and cooking-based slice of life series, that I didn't mind the genre at all. Besides, the recipes are very tasty 😉

Hatsukoi Lunch Box by KODAKA Nao and SHIORI is another very light-hearted possibility which I'd only recommend for its snack recipes.

[color=#8A795D]"Stories are what death thinks he puts an end to.
He can't understand that they end in him, but they don't end with him."

• Ursula K. Le Guin, Gifts[/color]

To be savoured:

• Blood Alone by TAKANO Masayuki
• Otoyomegatari by MORI Kaoru
• Gangsta. by Kohske
• Seishun Kouryakuhon by AKIZUKI Sorata

Chuuka Ichiban! and its sequel, Shin Chuuka Ichiban!

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Oishii Kankei
Mister Ajikko

I read so much mangas, I'm too lazy to watch anime! 😛 😛 😛

Manga I'm loving ATM: Heart no Kuni no Alice

Nobunaga no chef
Cooking papa

Since you put in bartending try Kami no Shizuku. It's about wine, but has the same feel as Bartender.

I read Cooking Papa & liked it. Laid back & fun.
I Read Chuuka Ichiban quite a bit ago but I dont remember much. I will most likely reread.
As for demographics, it will be probably very low priority.
Thanks for the great suggestions!