I'm looking for a yaoi where both parties are attending and all boys school they can either be aware that their gay or not doesn't matter but would prefer one where you don't know who will be uke...not required though.

There's the Gakuen Heaven (HIGURI You) story and doujins (though you'll figure out who the uke is). The same is true for Junk!Boys.

Men's Kou is shounen-ai.

Edited to correct the Gakuen Heaven link.

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

I'll give this a bump.

What I'm really looking for are shounen-ai stories with younger boys in prestigious European-style boarding schools. Stuff like Thomas no Shinzou, Kaze to Ki no Uta, and Barairo no Hoo no Koro. Stories set in less-presitigious all-boy schools like Doukyuusei (NAKAMURA Asumiko) are fine too.

Hmm... La Esperanca comes to mind for you, akari.

@liria i think the Gakuen Heaven your talking about is Gakuen Heaven - Calling You by HIGURI You ritee??
cuz the one u linked is about a male teacher in a all girls skol according to the summary.

As if handcuffed, I'm bound to the memories of you...

Quote from sweet despair

@liria i think the Gakuen Heaven your talking about is Gakuen Heaven - Calling You by HIGURI You ritee??
cuz the one u linked is about a male teacher in a all girls skol according to the summary.

Yep, you're right. I linked the wrong one at first. I fixed it in the original post too. Thanks. =)

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

In God's Arms would suit you. As would the very, very fun if extremely light shounen-ai series, Here is Greenwood.