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How do you deal with anger (at someone)?

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How do you react, most of the time?
I become angry at the person without telling them why.
I straight up say I'm not pleased and tell them why in a rough manner.
I straight up say I'm not pleased and tell them why in a "polite" manner.
I start acting differently than I am, hoping they notice that something is bothering me.
I start making double-sided/sarcastic remarks that I use to express my anger.
I act like there's nothing wrong and go along with my business (even though I'm angry inside).
I blatantly ignore them.
I stop hanging out with them for a while.
All of them (depends on the situation)
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3:34 pm, Mar 5 2010
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This thread reminded me of something I wanted to make months ago. D: But forgot about, obviously. I don't really know who I'm referring to since there are different categories. So, just answer to the one you feel like.

- parents
- siblings
- love interest
- good friends
- normal friends
- acquaintances
- strangers

I think I do them all, bwaha. o.o *doesn't know what to pick*

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3:37 pm, Mar 5 2010
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It varies, usually I will just try to ignore them or act as if I'm angry or something. Most of the time I just let it go and forget about it, since I find it kinda pointless to be angry at someone else. laugh

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Mad With a Hat

3:38 pm, Mar 5 2010
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Apart from strangers, I try to talk some sense into them.
If that doesn't work, well, I usually just stop talking to them for a while.

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3:43 pm, Mar 5 2010
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i usualy never get angry
i get dissapointed but not angry

and i usualy just ignore them till i realize that all they did was being human and that i cant ask to much from their kind

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3:46 pm, Mar 5 2010
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If sb annoy me, I try my best to keep my emotions inside, showing it out is not always the good choice. It depends who that person is, I will find ways to react.
If I barely know them or just being with them from time to time, I do not have to hold my tongue, I can feel free to "kick" them then bigrazz. Not all of them can know what I mean right away bigrazzbigrazzbigrazz.
But if those are my friends or even close friends, I have to consider their feelings and choose the safest way to let them know how I feel.

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3:53 pm, Mar 5 2010
Posts: 1437 depends on who it is and what im feeling at the moment...
but i voted "hope they'll notice this time"

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4:00 pm, Mar 5 2010
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I've done all of them (except the first one) before but it usually depends on who I'm talking to.

With the people that I frequently argue with: "I straight up say I'm not pleased and tell them why in a rough manner."

Strangers, people I've just met: "I straight up say I'm not pleased and tell them why in a "polite" manner."

"I start acting differently than I am, hoping they notice that something is bothering me." Happens depending on my mood usually, or when I don't feel like arguing.

This usually happens when I'm feeling something else along with anger, like seriously hurt or confused: "I start making double-sided/sarcastic remarks that I use to express my anger."

I never act like there's nothing wrong and go along with my business. That's something I've never been able to do.

And I have blatantly ignored people before, but that's a whole new level and it only happens when someone really makes me too mad to express myself.

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Sam the Eagle

4:11 pm, Mar 5 2010
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I have used everyone except number 4. I have what you would call a "surly" demeanor, so if I acted differently, they would probably ask why I was so happy. I used to use number 1, but I just tell people why I'm angry now.

Post #361595
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4:16 pm, Mar 5 2010
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Most of the time, I keep my anger inside and deal with it on my own, without the other person knowing.
There is no reason to be an ass simply because I don't like what they do or who they are.
Provocation is something different, of course. But I rarely get angry at others, reason saves me almost always.
If the significant other is involved, I try communication.

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5:09 pm, Mar 5 2010
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I get reaalllyyyy sarcastic.
With my parents... customers....

Customers don't take much to drive me up the wall.
My mom bugs me when she yells.
My Dad bugs me when he complains.
My brother bugs me when he won't get out of the damn bathroom! mad

Friends are different though.
If it's my guy friends I'll tell them straight up (my preferred method)
If it's my girl friends I end up hiding my anger till I explode. Or I tell them at a later date.
Girls tend to get super offended when you tell them you're mad at them and then they won't forgive you for a long time even when it isn't worth it.
That's why I prefer guy friends. But all they do is talk about sex...

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5:13 pm, Mar 5 2010
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3, 6, and 7, depending on who I'm with. 7 is reserved for friends/acquaintances; 6 is for family members, and 3 for people I don't know very well.

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5:44 pm, Mar 5 2010
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I either ignore the person or I start making comments while taking to them to hurt their feelings as well. If it is a person who I don't know or care about, like strangers, I am a lot more direct with the insults. I normally ignore people when I get angry.

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Post #361617

5:49 pm, Mar 5 2010
Posts: 153

If I'm at home I go to the kitchen and search for chocolate. If I'm outside I just keep it to myself. I rarely get angry anyway.

Post #361625
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6:45 pm, Mar 5 2010
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i get really quiet will avoid people altogether

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6:47 pm, Mar 5 2010
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I do it the healthy way, I suppress it all for years until one day, I explode, very much so like Mt Vesuvius.

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