How to Hate Mate

Description

Everyone's twenties are sprinkled with regrets, but Subin's is spent stumbling from one mistake to the next. He gets drunk, comes out of the closet and clumsily confesses his feelings to his straight roommate all in one night.
It takes two years, but he starts to pull his life together. That is, until his old roommate, Hyunwoo, returns from the military.

Original Webtoon:
Ridibooks, Kakaopage, Naver, MrBlue, Bomtoon, Lezhin

Official Translations:
English, Japanese, S.Chinese, T.Chinese, Thai

*Note:

Tapas has a different localization than Lezhin.
The author's notes have not been translated in the English or Japanese official Lezhin releases, it's unknown if Tapas will translate them.
Extra: It was announced that the series will resume for a new season (S2) with Yeongha as Co-Writer*

Type

Manhwa

Related Series

Digitalis (Spin-Off)

Associated Names

Hate Mate

Hate Mate：憎恨伴侣

HateMate

Как ненавидеть друга

ハテマテ

하테마테

Groups Scanlating

Punching Rice

Latest Release(s)

c.19 by Punching Rice 8 years ago

c.18 by Punching Rice 8 years ago

c.17 by Punching Rice 8 years ago

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Status in Country of Origin

68 Chapters + Prologue (Complete)

Season One: (Complete)
S1 Part 1: 20 Chapters (1~20)
S1 Part 2: 22 Chapters + Epilogue (21~42)
Side Story: 7 Chapters
Book: 3 Volumes (Complete)

Season Two: (Complete)
S2: 26 Chapters

Completely Scanlated?

Yes

Anime Start/End Chapter

N/A

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User Rating

Average: 8.2 / 10.0 (95 votes)

Bayesian Average: 7.74 / 10.0

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Last Updated

April 14th, 2025 6:59pm PDT - 2 weeks ago

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Genre

Comedy Drama Mature Shounen Ai Slice of Life Yaoi
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Recommendations

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Author(s)

Artist(s)

Year

Original Publisher

Crack Webtoon

Daum (Expired)

Kakaopage

Lezhin (S1 - Re-uploaded)

Serialized In (magazine)

KakaoPage (Kakao)

Kakao Webtoon (Daum)

Licensed (in English)

Yes

English Publisher

Lezhin US (S1 - Expired)

Tapas (2023)

Activity Stats (vs. other series)

Weekly Pos #619

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Monthly Pos #1462

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3 Month Pos #3055

(-340)

6 Month Pos #4253

(+48)

Year Pos #5178

(+1958)

List Stats

On 133 reading lists

On 173 wish lists

On 200 completed lists

On 16 unfinished lists

On 148 custom lists

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Rollercoaster

by Lady Lu
1 year ago

Rating: 10.0 / 10.0

It was a huge rollercoaster, but it was perfect. The story was very realistic, different from many BL. It showed the good and bad side of being in a relationship. The humor was awesome and the art is just unique, I loved everything❤️

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Season 2 Verdict

by branching_mechanism
1 year ago

Rating: N/A

I can't believe I read through another whole season just for the exact same outcome. I know most readers preferred Jun, but I didn't care a single whit about him (slight pity for his loneliness but as part of a couple? Zero emotional investment from me).

Great & dynamic art, like in season 1, but with a noticeable refinement. Very enjoyable to read, aesthetically. The emotional beats are well executed and often heartrending.

Besides my personal preference re: the romantic interest, it was a good read.

... Last updated 5 months ago

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conflicting ending

by YuriTachikawa
2 years ago

Rating: 9.0 / 10.0

I really enjoyed the story, dare I say it was perfect? And still the ending left me with conflicting feelings. But maybe that's just reality. Not to say that the ending wasn't good, maybe I would just have liked to see how all of them stand in 10 years. As the "interviews" at the end shows, love has many different faces and values, and a couple doesn't necessarily share the same concept of love. And that's what this story is about. Love is sometimes just enough, and when you still hold onto it, it becomes toxic. As with the two MCs. I seriously have never read a story where both of the MCs are toxic ***holes and still lovable, as they really served their purpose.

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I'm gonna go kermit

by Baniita
3 years ago

Rating: N/A

SOMEONE please translate the new season I am DYING over here!!

I can't have it end like it s1. I CAN'T
IF THAT WAS THE ENDING I RATE IT A 3

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OMG the art.

by likalaruku1
4 years ago

Rating: N/A

I was way more into the art than the story or the characters. Well, I did like that it was a more realistic story with realistic relationships, but my god, this art is amazing. The way the clothing & backgrounds are drawn, the way it's colors, often done with texture. I will kill for an art book from Reck.

... Last updated 4 years ago

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Unique

by TehShush
5 years ago

Rating: N/A

I like that this story didn't follow a lot of the same tropes as other ones I've read. The characters were very human, not always likeable and realistically portrayed. It was an interesting take on a one-sided love story, bittersweet most of the time. Another reviewer said it felt unresolved at the end, but I quite liked that things worked out the way they did and that life continued for the characters in such a realistic format. The art was not my favorite style, but I got used to it quickly enough and it remained consistently well drawn from beginning to end.

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I don't know about this one..

by ohgu59
6 years ago

Rating: 7.0 / 10.0

Hmm.. I wanted to give it a better review, but I just felt like nothing was resolved at the ending. I feel like the only things saving it from being a 5 are probably the nice/unique art and how funny it was at times. Also, the side characters were bomb. The story however... I don't even know what the author was trying to achieve with this one.

I know that Jun is wonderful for Subin, and this was supposed to be the 'right' ending.. but every time the author brings Hyunwoo back into Subin's life I feel like theres something there that the both of them are just suppressing to get by.. I mean come on, Subin spent so much of his life deeply in love with Hyunwoo, and all because of Hyunwoo's inability to talk and a bunch of misunderstandings they fall apart? And just for some guy who Subin's been mooching off of for a couple months? I don't get it. Plus, why couldn't she end the webtoon without Hyunwoo coming back to try and ruin Jun and Subin? It didn't even look like Subin was going to stop Hyunwoo from kissing him! So now it feels like two people who were in love are unable to reconcile because they won't talk to each other like normal human beings, and Jun is on the side dealing with being in love with someone who doesn't love him the same.. I'm sure majority of people are happy with how things turned out because yes Hyunwoo was a real bitch, but I just can't see it that simply. Subin and Hyunwoo could've just talked things out seriously and gone their separate ways so that Jun doesn't have to be on edge all the time or they could have just dissolved all the misunderstandings and admit they are in love with each other. It's such a shame that she decided to end it this way.

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misleading tags

by swimmerzo
7 years ago

Rating: N/A

just wanna say that "straight seme" is a misleading tag because the "seme" of the relationship isnt the straight guy its someone else? which btw im v pleased by. not a stereotypical i make my straight friend gay, but instead we work over this and survive it and i fall in love with someone who is the right sexuality

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