i'm looking for a manga/novel about reincarnating with memories intact
best if action/adventure like Mushoku Tensei (Novel) or Re:Monster but a romance type like Hajimari no Niina is good too
NO yaoi, shounen ai, or hentai

All choices are made in fear,
What you fear more is the only difference.
Positive decisions are made in fear negative consequences,
Negitive decisions are made in fear of positive decisions not giving the outcome you want.
Embarrassment is the fear of people knowing your real thoughts.
Greed is the fear of having too little.

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Maybe ng life
It has reincarnation and some people have there memories from the past

http://bato.to/forums/topic/19625-where-can-i-find-recommendations/?p=1337836

Kyuuketsu Yuugi

"The great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude." - from Self-Reliance by Ralph Waldo Emerson

Oyayubihime Infinity is a romance series about reincarnation:
http://www.mangaupdates.com/series.html?id=4078

You might also like Please Save My Earth:
http://www.mangaupdates.com/series.html?id=1245

another somwhat similar thread: www.mangaupdates.com/showtopic.php?tid=47618 Another set of memories helping him become stronger.

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0_o??

Whats up with the O_o?

Try these:

MU Another set of memories helping him become stronger

MAL Another set of memories helping him become stronger

DO NOT RECOMMEND: 4-Koma, Gender Bender, Lolicon, Shounen Ai, Yaoi, Cheating, Netorare or Rape.

Bokura no Kiseki

First of this type that I've read, as far as I can remember right now.

It's very good. And it's actually a reverse of Re Monster/Mushoku Tensei.