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16 years ago
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Is there anybody who thinks it is vice versa?
Girls liking guys kissing?
I love shonen-ai and yaoi, but for some reason my boyxboy obsession doesn't relate to real life. 😕 So I don't particularly get excited over real guys kissing. 😐

16 years ago
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I prefer not to see other people kissing in public, no matter they are same sex or hetero, male or female. 😐
16 years ago
Posts: 107
Since I'm kinda bored with the current set of questions here's a new one to keep the flow going.
What do girls think of guys hugging? would you like him more b/c he isn't bent on being 'manly'?
What do you guys think of hugging? Are you comfortable with accepting/giving man-hugs or do you think it's gay,un-masculine, or are you uncomfortable about it?
I (a guy) think that hugs are awesome and manly and the world needs more hugs and that it shows that people care about one another.

16 years ago
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I'm not into hugging anyone. Period. Chalk it up to my family just not being into physical contact. So its not really a matter of whether I like hugging or not But I don't. Is it unmasculine to hug? I don't think so, but it just ain't my thing.
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16 years ago
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16 years ago
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Quote from Wufu
What do girls think of guys hugging? would you like him more b/c he isn't bent on being 'manly'?
I'm ok with whatever people are comfortable with...guys hugging is fine, but I know some people just aren't "touchers" and aren't comfortable hugging.
Now, if a guy won't hug another guy JUST because he's worried someone will think he's gay, THAT would make me like him less. 😃
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16 years ago
Posts: 539
Quote from Wufu
What do girls think of guys hugging?
It's even better when guys are open-minded and don't mind on how it may look like. People have a need of touching (geez I'm quoting 99F).
Hugging is good. (I wish I had more of it...) It's interesting how such quite simple act feels so great.

16 years ago
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Quote from Wufu
What do girls think of guys hugging? would you like him more b/c he isn't bent on being 'manly'?
Indifferent to me, and won't make me question his manly-ness.
What does bother me is men who deliberately avoid hugging or touching other men because they are afraid to be viewed as gay. That is much more unmanly.

16 years ago
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I like guys who are comfortable enough with themselves to be able to express their feelings with hugs. Nothing wrong with that.
Also agreed that avoiding hugs for the sake of "not wanting to appear to be gay" is insufficient reasoning, and I will instantly mentally label you as insecure.
Avoiding hugs for other reasons, such as you just weren't raised to show affection like that, is perfectly acceptable and I wouldn't hold it against you. (Though if it's a neurosis, I might avoid you. =) )
If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.
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16 years ago
Posts: 1310
Hugging a girl feels nice 🙂
Hugging a guy feels... I dunno, I have never done it... don't get me wrong, IF the occasion allows it, then I would do it, but I don't hug ANYONE for no reason, and shit there aren't many reasons to hug a guy >_>

16 years ago
Posts: 135
I like hugs from a man it feels nice and warm.
Question for the guys
Why do you guys like low riding your pants SO LOW. I really dont want to see your underwear when you move around.
Do you like girl asking the guy out or the other way around?
Question For Guys who Dated
Okay most couples in my school are most in a corner somewhere and VERY quiet and when i pass by them they are holding hands and doing nothing. I was wondering dont you guys get bored of doing that?
Quote from Browine
Question for the guys
Why do you guys like low riding your pants SO LOW. I really dont want to see your underwear when you move around.
It's the inability to wear anything right, such as failing to
put your cap on properly. I myself prefer a suit and a tie.
Also, I like it when the girl has balls to ask one out.
I really don't want to go through all that chivarly crap.

16 years ago
Posts: 1310
Quote from Browine
I like hugs from a man it feels nice and warm.
Question for the guys
Do you like girl asking the guy out or the other way around?Question For Guys who Dated
Okay most couples in my school are most in a corner somewhere and VERY quiet and when i pass by them they are holding hands and doing nothing. I was wondering dont you guys get bored of doing that?
I like both, I think picking a place for a date is always a challenge to see how much you know the other.
To me, when you pick, is not about the place you like, is about the place the other one would like (keeping in mind that you have to like it as well)
You other question has a simple answer:
Love is stupid >_<
However, when I did/do that, I always talk or move my hands around... just holding them and staying quiet, is too stupid... at least to the levels of love that I have experienced...