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16 years ago
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Quote from akari_mizunashi
For either gender: Have you ever had a "wet dream" or an "erotic dream" about the same sex if you're straight or the opposite sex if you're gay? Or, if you haven't, what would be your reaction if you did?
(For the record, until about a week ago when my friends were telling stories I didn't even know girls did get erotic dreams. And I'm a girl. 😐 )
I haven't had such a dream about the same sex. And my reaction would depend on who the dream was about and how I felt about that person. And if it's a person I don't know... eh, it's just a dream; enjoy it. =)
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16 years ago
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Quote from akari_mizunashi
For either gender: Have you ever had a "wet dream" or an "erotic dream" about the same sex if you're straight or the opposite sex if you're gay? Or, if you haven't, what would be your reaction if you did?
(For the record, until about a week ago when my friends were telling stories I didn't even know girls did get erotic dreams. And I'm a girl. 😐 )
Wet dreams are typically pretty creepy/trippy/not great. It's best not to dwell on them.
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16 years ago
Posts: 107
Quote from akari_mizunashi
For either gender: Have you ever had a "wet dream" or an "erotic dream" about the same sex if you're straight or the opposite sex if you're gay? Or, if you haven't, what would be your reaction if you did?
well at first they involved people. But lately, as in since a year ago, they have just been random. Example: I would be driving a car or maybe in the middle of an roman army duking it out and bam! it'll happen.
So like the previous person above me, i don't dwell on them much. They're just dreams.
btw, do girls experience anything similar to a wet dream?

16 years ago
Posts: 1366
Quote from akari_mizunashi
For either gender: Have you ever had a "wet dream" or an "erotic dream" about the same sex if you're straight or the opposite sex if you're gay? Or, if you haven't, what would be your reaction if you did?
(For the record, until about a week ago when my friends were telling stories I didn't even know girls did get erotic dreams. And I'm a girl. 😐 )
Can't say that I have. Most, if not all of the ones I've experienced were super trippy, and not all that enjoyable, despite the outcome. 😕 <==this was me when I'd wake up.
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16 years ago
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Maybe I should exclude "wet dream" and just say "erotic dream" instead. Nocturnal emissions will always happen if there's buildup, after all.
But maybe the Roman army thing isn't so random. In all those old Greek and Roman picture-vases, the warriors always have huge boners. XD
Apparently girls do get erotic dreams sometimes, but I don't think there's any kind of ejaculation, if that's what you mean. I guess you could wake up all moist...
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16 years ago
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Quote from akari_mizunashi
For either gender: Have you ever had a "wet dream" or an "erotic dream" about the same sex if you're straight or the opposite sex if you're gay? Or, if you haven't, what would be your reaction if you did?
Erotic dreams, occasionally. Nothing freakishly weird, not usually about the person I'm with at that moment- Just random like any other dream, and when I wake up, that's about my reaction.

16 years ago
Posts: 62
Quote from akari_mizunashi
For either gender: Have you ever had a "wet dream" or an "erotic dream" about the same sex if you're straight or the opposite sex if you're gay? Or, if you haven't, what would be your reaction if you did?
(For the record, until about a week ago when my friends were telling stories I didn't even know girls did get erotic dreams. And I'm a girl. 😐 )
I had an erotic dream about my (female) cousin. It was quite realistic and not-trippy but even in the dream it felt kinda... fuzzy? Like I was having a dream about a dream or something. In any case, it was the worst. I felt like puking when I woke up. I'm not even remotely attracted to her. Nor do I think that way about her in real life. It was utterly bizarre. shudders 🤢
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btw, do girls experience anything similar to a wet dream?
Don't think so. Well, at least I haven't.
I'm curious. Do guys actually feel themselves having an orgasm or do they just wake up... damp?
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I had an erotic dream about my (female) cousin. It was quite realistic and not-trippy but even in the dream it felt kinda... fuzzy? Like I was having a dream about a dream or something. In any case, it was the worst. I felt like puking when I woke up. I'm not even remotely attracted to her. Nor do I think that way about her in real life. It was utterly bizarre. shudders 🤢
I've read that oftentimes, when you dream of sex with a certain person, it doesn't have to mean you actually want sex with them. It can symbolize something else. Like, if in the dream, the other person wants to be on top, maybe it means you feel they're, in real life, overbearing towards you.
I'm not saying all sex dreams are symbolic of something else, and that each one means the same thing to each person. But it's happened to me before that I do it with someone I don't like, and when I think about it, I realize something (nonsexual) I was feeling about them that my subconscious brought out in a dream, that just happened to be about sex. So maybe it's the same for you.
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I'm curious. Do guys actually feel themselves having an orgasm or do they just wake up... damp?
Both can happen.

16 years ago
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Quote from Wufu
btw, do girls experience anything similar to a wet dream?
I was told in my sexual psychology class that women have wet dreams too, theirs are just much less noticeable since it's all internal.
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16 years ago
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as always everything goees back to sex...
so long hair on a guy is that good or not... what about facial hair...
i feel that i need to explain why i am asking this for some reason... but i am not going to who wants to read a 100 word post about long hair 😕

16 years ago
Posts: 1005
Quote from nonaware
so long hair on a guy is that good or not... what about facial hair...
i feel that i need to explain why i am asking this for some reason... but i am not going to who wants to read a 100 word post about long hair
I love guys with long hair. Mmm. But it has to be maintained, not just grown out messily and greasy. But not *over *maintained, either.
Facial hair I do not like, but will make some exceptions (other than moustaches. No. Never.)
...Now I want to hear your explanation 🤣
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Quote from nonaware
so long hair on a guy is that good or not... what about facial hair...
i feel that i need to explain why i am asking this for some reason... but i am not going to who wants to read a 100 word post about long hair
I love guys with long hair. Mmm. But it has to be maintained, not just grown out messily and greasy. But not *over *maintained, either.
What about the hair type?
I've got a lot of curly hair and it looked
like a lion mane before I cut it. I never
got any positive comments regarding it.
It was everywhere.

16 years ago
Posts: 135
Quote from Mamsmilk
What about the hair type?
I've got a lot of curly hair and it looked
like a lion mane before I cut it. I never
got any positive comments regarding it.
It was everywhere.
Wow you didnt comments of you curly hair style?
I love the curly hair style. My friend had that style before he changed it......i was really disappointed........
Random Question for both genders:
Guys: Would you break up with someone if they weren't shaved "down there" and also their legs?
Girls: Do you think guys with leg hair is a turn off?
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Random Question for both genders:
Guys: Would you break up with someone if they weren't shaved "down there" and also their legs?
No. I'd rather break up if it was shaved.
Legs... don't care that much.

16 years ago
Posts: 1005
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Quote from Terpsichore
Quote from nonaware
so long hair on a guy is that good or not... what about facial hair...
i feel that i need to explain why i am asking this for some reason... but i am not going to who wants to read a 100 word post about long hair
I love guys with long hair. Mmm. But it has to be maintained, not just grown out messily and greasy. But not *over *maintained, either.
What about the hair type?
I've got a lot of curly hair and it looked
like a lion mane before I cut it. I never
got any positive comments regarding it.
It was everywhere.
You grew it out like a lion's mane: Exactly the problem. Long hair needs to be cut properly to look nice (and maintained, at least a little).
If the hair is cared for, than any hair type is fine. Curly can look really great.
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Girls: Do you think guys with leg hair is a turn off?
Personally I care for less body hair, but I don't care too much, so long as it isn't thick enough to be totally distracting 🤢