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I've always wondered, but do guys mostly care about how a girl looks?

Been asked before, I believe.

But, I'll answer.

I wont say I don't care at all, but personality is much more important to me.

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I've always wondered, but do guys mostly care about how a girl looks?

Like the others what matters more to me is a good personality. If she's pretty but has a bad personality, then I won't want to be with her.

I do care about looks too though. I love pretty girls, and I have my specific preferences. But it's not as important, and I would date a girl who is fun to be with and cool, no matter what she looks like.

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i can't remember who said this but this pretty much sums up what i and probably a lot of others think.

good looks may attract my attention but their personality reels me in.

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On another note, I've always wondered on what girls think of when guys 'sag' their pants (when guys purposely wear their pants loose so that some of their boxers show, usually is mostly covered by a long shirt). I always thought of it as ridiculous and bothersome for when you have to run.

I've heard that this fashion actually came from prisons. Prisons are also where the fashion of tattoos came from. but in prison wearing your pants low like this was not just a fashion statement. It was actually an invitation to be "picked up" by another inmate.

So next time you see a guy with sagging pants, whether he knows it or not, he's asking for butt sex 🤣

Tattoos did *not *originate from prisons, nor did the fashion for them. Wherever did you learn that? They've been around for centuries, and have been used for many reasons.

So somehow, I doubt the rumour about baggy pants. I think it's more like a gang fashion that spead to mainstream culture.

i read something like that too, cept it was cuz the prisoner was handcuffed and couldnt pull up his pants when it fell

As if handcuffed, I'm bound to the memories of you...

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i can't remember who said this but this pretty much sums up what i and probably a lot of others think.

good looks may attract my attention but their personality reels me in.

Wow, that describes everything I always say mind if I steal it?

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The tattoos might be wrong. But I'm relatively sure about baggy jeans originating from prisons. I read that in a magazine we got in school.

Here, I especially scanned it for you. 🤣

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I like seeing proof to back up information. Thank you for the scans 😃 "The baggy pants originated in prisons" has now so far been proven true.

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The tattoos might be wrong. But I'm relatively sure about baggy jeans originating from prisons. I read that in a magazine we got in school.

Here, I especially scanned it for you. 🤣

01 and 02.

I like seeing proof to back up information. Thank you for the scans 😃 "The baggy pants originated in prisons" has now so far been proven true.

I like the pictures in the top right showing butt crack. : 🤣

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Lame. I'm genuinely interested.

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Well, dedicating a whole thread to it is a bit much, but asking it as a question in this 135 paged thread doesn't do much harm. It isn't the sole focus of the thread, and the question will be forgotten beneath other questions anyways, so...

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How long does it take in a relationship to say "I love you" and If someone does say I love you to early will that harm your relationship?

I don't think "love" should be said easily to anyone else other than family. People can have different views on what love is. But I think most of the time they just assume lust as love.

I believe love can only be said after a couple have been together for a while and feel the other party is a natural part of their lives - sort of like soul mates and a mature version of committed relationship. I think I said that before on this thread. Those who say love easily to anyone other than a family is not to be trusted. "I like you" is more appropriate when they are just dating.

I am sure some people, esp. younger ones (of course some older ones too) say "I love you" just because they like to act melodramatic. There's probably no specific meaning in this line.

I have never liked most shoujo romance manga since I was very young. But I believe they like to make characters say "I love you" or "love ____ [insert name]" simple because they want their manga appear melodramatic (Let's face it, a lot of shoujo manga of the 80's, 90's and 00's are all like that). It can be one of the worst shoujo cliches and I believe was mentioned in the "worst shoujo cliche" thread. That's also one of the reasons I don't usually read shoujo romance.

But that could be a Japanese cultural thing. Their view on love is different from mine. If so, I can't blame them.

It also annoys me that in some yaoi manga they also say "love" easily or for no reason. 😮

well usually in a shoujo romance the couple turn out to be life partners (meaning they end up marrying, having kids, etc.) and even if they end up breaking up, most of the time the relationship is very serious. So for those scenarios, I don't think "I love you" is an overstatement.

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well usually in a shoujo romance the couple turn out to be life partners (meaning they end up marrying, having kids, etc.) and even if they end up breaking up, most of the time the relationship is very serious. So for those scenarios, I don't think "I love you" is an overstatement.

A lot of them are over-dramatic and unrealistic to the point of being annoying and nonsense. That's why I don't read them. But that's just my taste.

I don't believe you can easily predict whether you will end up getting married even if your attitude is serious when you are dating someone (most people in this world are serious I believe). Serious =/= love. A lot of shoujo characters are only 15, 16. Marriage is even a more distant goal for those at that age. Just look at the 15 year-olds and 16 year-olds around you in real life. I doubt most of them are mature enough to really "love" (many don't even know how to love and realize/appreciate the love from their family members, let alone...). Don't get me wrong, I am not criticising them by saying that. It's just that I think their age should be the stage to learn, grow and experience. Not much of their personality, lifestyle, values and what they really want in life have been established yet. I blame the shoujo mangaka for such unrealistic portrayal of life.

Don't think lust is such a bad thing. Relationships start from lust. They like each other and that's just lust. To be able to grow in to love, it takes time and mutual work and it's not an easy job. I don't think those IRL who don't even know how to love their own family members can take that job. In a lot of shoujo manga, when they haven't done anything to make it become love, or when they just like the othe person - sometimes they haven't even spoken to each other more than once or twice, they say that's "love". 🙄

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if he were to flirt with you
what top reasons would he need for you to say yes?
(Get to know him better)

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It would be more about his tone than words.
-Be nice to me, and be sincere; don't try to change your personality to seem 'cooler'.
-Compliment me on something unique, or in an interesting way
-Tell me about yourself, too!
And make me laugh and smile, or spark my interest with a talent, hobby or interest. Make me want to see more of your personality and learn more about you.

For either gender: Have you ever had a "wet dream" or an "erotic dream" about the same sex if you're straight or the opposite sex if you're gay? Or, if you haven't, what would be your reaction if you did?

(For the record, until about a week ago when my friends were telling stories I didn't even know girls did get erotic dreams. And I'm a girl. 😐 )