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I was thinking 'awkward' in the sense of not knowing what to do in bed.

Well i never really thought about that and hoped that my belief of "when you love them that much and get to that stage, instinct takes over" is true.

That's more or less true. But instinct doesn't meant that 'awkward' won't happen anyway. You just grin and go with it. =)

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

waaah!! my belief has been shattered!!!!! >.< lol jk
Well I'll find out when that moment happens.

I had a question but i can't seem to remember it. . .
I'll post it later when iremember
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I was thinking 'awkward' in the sense of not knowing what to do in bed.

Would be a Turn on for me and I would find it adorable and rather cute, if you are in a relationship.

If you are some stud that sleeps with 3 girls every day I suppose it would be a pretty turnoff as you would only want "high performance" sex.

But its super cute in a relationship
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If you are some stud that sleeps with 3 girls every day I suppose it would be a pretty turnoff as you would only want "high performance" sex.

I think a partner with no experience is better than one who sleeps around too much... The 'stud' type is a total turn-off.

I've never wanted a relationship just for sex. Doubt I ever will.

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[quote=Browine]Guys: Would you break up with someone if they weren't shaved "down there" and also their legs?

Break up? No... I just wouldn't fuck.

This happened to me before. I don't mind hair, but a bush is unacceptable. I told her to clean it up and call me tomorrow.

She did just that.

thats tough. on your part
yeah. bushes are fuckin disgusting. dont even wanna think about it

I hope you guys are willing to practice what you preach. Girls don't necessarily want to deal with that either. Please, for goodness sake, trim!
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Amen to that sister...

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so long hair on a guy is that good or not... what about facial hair...

Light bristles on the face or maybe 3 days or less of unshaven-ness is acceptable and even sexy..leg hair is tolerable....dont like it but I can stand it...

.. But I do dislike chest hair though...some guys have lots of it, and they think its great to show it off....naah..I think a clean guy's chest is nice.. hmm ... 🙄 ... 🤣

...hair on the arms too......not too sexy..

..and someone asked about inexperience- for a guy or girl? on a guy's part, I would say experience can be a downer or up, every girl is different and if the guy gets cocky enough to think, he can use the same formula on every girl and skip some parts, he is a total turn off compared to an inexperienced guy...inexperienced guys can be very confused and very conscious so even the slightest word could make them retire to their shell- so thats a bit downer on that part to..I would say, it is better if both sides are compatible and aware of each other and really in love with each other so they can pay rightful attention to each other...

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I would say, it is better if both sides are compatible and aware of each other and really in love with each other so they can pay rightful attention to each other...

**General Question: **Do you personally need to feel (or believe that you should feel) "really in love" before having sex? Or is it something that you find happens during to process of falling in love? Or maybe love never enters into having sex at all...

Love before lust has always been my belief.

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Love before lust has always been my belief.

^ No alcohol

Booze overdrives Love and Lust takes over

Really, if all guys succumbed to lust that easily then most of us would be rapist...

Let me ask you all a question?

What do you think is love?

Wanting to be with one person only?
Doing stupid things for someone for no apparent reason?
Feeling happy, just because your special someone is also smiling?

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Love before lust has always been my belief.

^ No alcohol

Booze overdrives Love and Lust takes over

I hardly drink at all. Only been drunk once in my life.

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What do you think is love?

When you would sacrifice something important to you for that sake of something else, even when the result doesn't effect you positively. How much love you have is dependent on how important what your sacrificing is.

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What do you think is love?

To put it simply, I think it's when you are a better person all around for having been with whom you consider to be your most important person.

Aw, I have to agree with that one. Nicely put into words 😃

Do you think that you were lucky
to be born a woman?
Sometimes I really wish I was one.
I am not really interested in Gucci boots
or fashion or kids or gardens, but sometimes
I can only sigh when I have those mandatory
things I must do as a man and can't abuse
any belief of me being frail.

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Guys: Would you break up with someone if they weren't shaved "down there" and also their legs?

Break up? No... I just wouldn't fuck.

This happened to me before. I don't mind hair, but a bush is unacceptable. I told her to clean it up and call me tomorrow.

She did just that.

thats tough. on your part
yeah. bushes are fuckin disgusting. dont even wanna think about it

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er what.

i like bushes to be trimmed - there's an aestetic appeal there, as well as practical reasons. but i don't see what's supposed to be disgusting about hair between the legs. it's the difference between a woman and a prepubescent girl (or man and prepubescent boy, just the same). personally, i wouldn't want to shave down there all the time, it must itch like hell! and then the stubbles shudder naw, really, there are enaugh guys who don't mind if you're a real woman instead of a barbie doll. oh and legs... unshaved looks bad to me with skirts or shorts, otherwise i don't notice the difference much.

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**General Question: **Do you personally need to feel (or believe that you should feel) "really in love" before having sex?

no, i don't think love is necessary, but both parties should agree on that. no use in having a nice one-night stand if the other person was madly in love with you and you were looking for no strings attached... 😁

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personally, i wouldn't want to shave down there all the time, it must itch like hell! and then the stubbles shudder

You're right - shaving bald does itch like hell. (And yes, you can get razor burn down there just like on the face or underarms.) However, one can trim pubic hair short to get rid of the bushiness and stubble-feeling without having to shave bald. I had a bush until the first guy I was with. He politely suggested that I should try trimming (after also politely "dealing with it" the first night), which I did, and I haven't been able to stand it since if my hair gets too long. I can't stand shaving bald though.

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**General Question: **Do you personally need to feel (or believe that you should feel) "really in love" before having sex?

For me personally, the answer is yes. To each his own on that one, though.
Have you ever seen the movie Clerks, where Dante's girlfriend is talking about the difference in giving blowjobs vs. sex? That was always my opinion. (And my "number" doesn't quite match hers, but I was close.... 😛 )

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."