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personally, i wouldn't want to shave down there all the time, it must itch like hell! and then the stubbles shudder
You're right - shaving bald does itch like hell. (And yes, you can get razor burn down there just like on the face or underarms.)
That's if you don't shave it properly. If you shave every day, and use LOTS of alcohol, and a CLEAN SHARP blade, there won't be a problem.
I'm talking about for every area.
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personally, i wouldn't want to shave down there all the time, it must itch like hell! and then the stubbles shudder
Or you could just wax- and voila problem solved! (as far as having to do it all the time) 😃

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personally, i wouldn't want to shave down there all the time, it must itch like hell! and then the stubbles shudder
Or you could just wax- and voila problem solved! (as far as having to do it all the time) 😃
OMG, OW. Just thinking of that makes me think of the scene from The 40-year-old Virgin when he's having his chest waxed. That scene was a one-shot opportunity and those were legitimate reactions. I honestly can't imagine wanting to do that to myself.
And yeah, I know that you can shave any area properly without getting razor burn, but I figure more people will probably not do it the right way than will, thus mentioning it. =)
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OMG, OW. Just thinking of that makes me think of the scene from The 40-year-old Virgin when he's having his chest waxed. That scene was a one-shot opportunity and those were legitimate reactions. I honestly can't imagine wanting to do that to myself.
It's honestly not that bad --
I mean The 40 Y/O Virgin might have been a one-shot but it was also still an exaggerated reaction. There wouldn't be as much bang for buck if he just went 'Eech. That hurt a bit.' Or maybe he's just a big pansy. 🤣
But really, it's not that bad, it's not like rolling in clean bedsheets good, but it's no where near the worst pain in the world.
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personally, i wouldn't want to shave down there all the time, it must itch like hell! and then the stubbles shudder
You're right - shaving bald does itch like hell. (And yes, you can get razor burn down there just like on the face or underarms.)
That's if you don't shave it properly. If you shave every day, and use LOTS of alcohol, and a CLEAN SHARP blade, there won't be a problem.
I'm talking about for every area.
Hmm..useful...ought to try it..

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[quote=Browine]Guys: Would you break up with someone if they weren't shaved "down there" and also their legs?
Break up? No... I just wouldn't fuck.
This happened to me before. I don't mind hair, but a bush is unacceptable. I told her to clean it up and call me tomorrow.
She did just that.
thats tough. on your part
yeah. bushes are fuckin disgusting. dont even wanna think about it
well i dont really have a problem with bush...i mean yea if it were extreme and all over th place and came our pretty far from the body then yes i could see myself getting a little...disgusted, but if its not extreme i dont mind it at all
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Is it creepy that I like to dress up my girlfriends? Usually in a sexual way, but can also be nonsexual.
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Liking the new avatar Raeryn.
If there's a party, and there's dancing going on, what's the preferred way for a guy to ask for a dance from a girl? Roles can be reversed, although I certainly am more interested in the male asks female situation, since men on the whole probably don't care.
I ask because I was at a party for Halloween (one of those drunken college parties with loud music), and it was fascinating to observe the way the men and women interacted.
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and this is why I'm weird. I should become an anthropologist.
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Is it creepy that I like to dress up my girlfriends? Usually in a sexual way, but can also be nonsexual.
naw, not creepy. sounds like fun.
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If there's a party, and there's dancing going on, what's the preferred way for a guy to ask for a dance from a girl?
how strange... i can't remember a single instance of someone actually asking. you'd just dance close to someone, smile and see if they approve. or, if they're not dancing, offer your hand and if they take it pull them on the dancefloor. but if you have to use words, keep it simple. "hi, would you like to dance with me?" no need to complicate things, imo. of course you could also try the "why is a beautiful girl like you not dancing" approach, but few men can pull that off without sounding slimy. XD

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how strange... i can't remember a single instance of someone actually asking. you'd just dance close to someone, smile and see if they approve. or, if they're not dancing, offer your hand and if they take it pull them on the dancefloor. but if you have to use words, keep it simple. "hi, would you like to dance with me?" no need to complicate things, imo. of course you could also try the "why is a beautiful girl like you not dancing" approach, but few men can pull that off without sounding slimy. XD
That's more like what I meant. Assenting to an unspoken request, although I did see people ask as well.
This also brings me another question that is related that I sort of noticed but didn't think too much about:
If you're dancing with a guy, and for whatever reason you don't want or can't dance with him anymore (have to leave, he's being smarmy, is a bad dancer, whatever), how do you seperate yourself? just leave, politely wait till the end of a song, say as much and go, or what?
Again, gender roles can be reversed for the sake of discussion.
Party psycology is fascinating, and this is making me sound like a creep, even to myself. 🤣
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What makes women so persistent? Why do they always have to win in an argument?I don't think this is just the women. If you look at the boards here, both men and women get into and argument they always HAVE to win. They just do it differently. If men HAVE to win, they fistfight. If women HAVE to win, they bicker. As for me? I just walk away before it even starts---you can never change the mind of a stubborn person, that I've learned.
therefore because a man can not fistfight with woman, without going to prison, he will lose every argument they have with each other.
haha i so totally agree with that.
this isnt really to the opposite sex, its for girls ( and srry if this is repeat)
why do u say that a guy is hot? what are your definitions of hot? and when u do recognize him as hot, do u like fawn over him?
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If you're dancing with a guy, and for whatever reason you don't want or can't dance with him anymore (have to leave, he's being smarmy, is a bad dancer, whatever), how do you seperate yourself? just leave, politely wait till the end of a song, say as much and go, or what?
I would pretty much just tilt my head in the direction of the bar and say I was going to go get a drink. ^^
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If you're dancing with a guy, and for whatever reason you don't want or can't dance with him anymore (have to leave, he's being smarmy, is a bad dancer, whatever), how do you seperate yourself? just leave, politely wait till the end of a song, say as much and go, or what?
Again, gender roles can be reversed for the sake of discussion.
i can only answer for girls, and where i live girls dance together a lot. so if there's a guy they don't want to dance with (anymore), they'll just sort of edge away while dancing and start dancing with their friends. you don't have to say goodbye, except maybe with a smile, you'd just show your lack of interest in further contact.

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why do u say that a guy is hot? what are your definitions of hot? and when u do recognize him as hot, do u like fawn over him? 😕
What a girl considers 'hot' is going to be different per person, so there is no 'definition' per say, though it is typically only a physical description and has nothing to do with personality or emotional basis.
My personal physical definition usually has dark, well-trimmed hair, blue or very light-colored eyes, nice skin, and a toned but not overly-muscular body. But that's not what everyone likes.
As for do I fawn over him? No, that's just not in my nature. I don't fawn over celebrities I like either (and I'm certain they're thankful for that). =)
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