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As for do I fawn over him? No, that's just not in my nature. I don't fawn over celebrities I like either (and I'm certain they're thankful for that). =)

You mean you don't have a shrine to Johnny Depp in your closet? I thought I was the only one.

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As for do I fawn over him? No, that's just not in my nature. I don't fawn over celebrities I like either (and I'm certain they're thankful for that). =) You mean you don't have a shrine to Johnny Depp in your closet? I thought I was the only one.

mumbles I took it down when I moved out of my parents' house... OK? Are you happy now? =P

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

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how strange... i can't remember a single instance of someone actually asking. you'd just dance close to someone, smile and see if they approve. or, if they're not dancing, offer your hand and if they take it pull them on the dancefloor. but if you have to use words, keep it simple. "hi, would you like to dance with me?" no need to complicate things, imo. of course you could also try the "why is a beautiful girl like you not dancing" approach, but few men can pull that off without sounding slimy. XD

That's more like what I meant. Assenting to an unspoken request, although I did see people ask as well.

This also brings me another question that is related that I sort of noticed but didn't think too much about:

If you're dancing with a guy, and for whatever reason you don't want or can't dance with him anymore (have to leave, he's being smarmy, is a bad dancer, whatever), how do you seperate yourself? just leave, politely wait till the end of a song, say as much and go, or what?

Again, gender roles can be reversed for the sake of discussion.

Party psycology is fascinating, and this is making me sound like a creep, even to myself. 🤣

Damn, things were I live are way different XD

Usually the bar area and the dancefloor are really separated, in different floors for instance, so you wouldn't find anyone sitting around close to the dance floor, so the "or, if they're not dancing, offer your hand and if they take it pull them on the dancefloor."wouldn't work, except on rare occasions. the "i can't remember a single instance of someone actually asking. you'd just dance close to someone, smile and see if they approve. " part is kinda the only way in that situation thou, that or flirting verbally with the girl, don't know if it's the same for you, but there's about only one reason a guy would try to dance with a girl in a nightclub around here, 'cause he wants to make out with her, and if things go well, then who knows what might happen XD

seriously thought, I've seen some pretty disturbing things on a dancefloor >.>

As for leaving the guy I'd say that the best way is to make certain of your absolute lack of interest, as guys can be quite pushy, and if you're explicit in your lack of interest and the guy is STILL being pushy, than it gives opportunity to someone to go and rescue you(like I've done more times that I'd like to recall. seriously, if the girl doesn't want anything back off dudes, although, I still haven't had to physically harm anyone to make them back off, but I'm not a small guy, so that's no wonder.)

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As for do I fawn over him? No, that's just not in my nature. I don't fawn over celebrities I like either (and I'm certain they're thankful for that). =) You mean you don't have a shrine to Johnny Depp in your closet? I thought I was the only one.

mumbles I took it down when I moved out of my parents' house... OK? Are you happy now? =P

This reminds me of my youth.. Haha, what a silly girl I was, with all my Johnny Depp posters and whatnot.

...Which has nothing to do with the Gerard Butler pictures that replaced them XP

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this isnt really to the opposite sex, its for girls ( and srry if this is repeat)
why do u say that a guy is hot? what are your definitions of hot? and when u do recognize him as hot, do u like fawn over him?
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Bishonen are hot. Although some are just girly. I prefer cute guys. Cute, shy, little yandere guys with violet eyes.

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Bishonen are hot. Although some are just girly. I prefer cute guys. Cute, shy, little yandere guys with violet eyes.

Let it not be said that men are the only of the two genders that are attracted to vulnerable personalities. Although 'yandere' and shy is sort of oxymoronical isn't it? Or maybe me definition of a yandere isn't up to snuff. I'm not big on japanese personality types.

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You know it's like the phrase, 'it's always the quiet ones'

...that drag you into their secret torture basement, dismember you, upholster their sofa with your skin, and feed your organs to the cat.

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You know it's like the phrase, 'it's always the quiet ones'

...that drag you into their secret torture basement, dismember you, upholster their sofa with your skin, and feed your organs to the cat.

Hey, they're supposed to be protecting me with their yandereness not killing me. umm but I do have to admit bdsm wouldn't be too bad <------- is probably completely missing the point

why do u say that a guy is hot? what are your definitions of hot? and when u do recognize him as hot, do u like fawn over him?

Only when you want to lick him all over, is a guy hot.

I say "hot, I wanna lick him" and move on with my day.

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For guys: How far are you willing to go to get a girl.

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For guys: How far are you willing to go to get a girl.

Depends on the girl.
I wouldn't waste too much effort on something
that is unreachable though.

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For guys: How far are you willing to go to get a girl.

Depends on the girl.
I wouldn't waste too much effort on something
that is unreachable though.

Agree with the unreachable thing, or generally with people who I would consider as abit loose (I know judging a girl to be loose based on the lack of clothing she wear is prejudice but if you wear that little amount of clothing what do you want me to think?).

There normally is a threshold at which I stop which, starts around the part when money becomes involved, then it becomes either complicated for me or I end up regretting things. So when help becomes in any form of borrowing or asking for money that is when I normally get abit edgy. But apart from that I'm willing to help with most problems, since I have a lot of spare time (basically since I stopped playing games excessively I have a lot of spare time), so for me time really isn't an issue.

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For guys: How far are you willing to go to get a girl.

Bout as far as I go for any girl.
There's plenty of them out there.

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why do u say that a guy is hot? what are your definitions of hot? and when u do recognize him as hot, do u like fawn over him?

Fuzzy warm feeling...

My thoughts?
He's hot.
He'd be hotter in handcuffs.
/endthought