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16 years ago
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I don't like guys who treat me bad.
I never dated one, and I didn't marry one either. =)
If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.
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16 years ago
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My best guess is because dudes like that tend to give off more self-confidence then men that care. And according to all of those self-help books and high-school lectures, people like people with self-confidence!
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16 years ago
Posts: 367
Someone once told me that women who are psychologically unhealthy keep dating the abusive type. I never liked the term 'psychologically unhealthy' it just sounds like they're borderline retarded or something.
Don't know where I heard this from but I think it was my Sister lol. (She was divorced from a rather abusing husband 2 years ago, bless her 😃 )
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16 years ago
Posts: 53
its just a simple game of cat and mouse
if you always get attention when your ignored by that one person you just try to catch their eye
simple as that so its completely on the person themselves not everyone can be describe as such
though from what ive seen just about 80% of the sane people are either people who want attention and people who dont and that where they usually attract each other opposites attract?
however you want to call it just my theory on that
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16 years ago
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opposites attract... but do they ever work out? do you know couples who seem like polar opposites who are actually happy together?

16 years ago
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opposites attract... but do they ever work out? do you know couples who seem like polar opposites who are actually happy together?
My grand parents are polar opposites and they have been married for 57years. They do argue about twice a day though lol. I think they just learned to tolerate each other.
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16 years ago
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opposites attract... but do they ever work out? do you know couples who seem like polar opposites who are actually happy together?
From my own experience, no. Especially when it comes down to long-term basic differences of opinion, such as how to raise children, where to retire, and how to live day to day.
My parents are a prime example of this.
15 years ago
Posts: 130
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The James Bond kind of bastard guys are
more likely to have
offsprings that are born leaders, conceited,
ruthless, determined and so on. Although
we dislike such characteristics, they
are not the characteristics of a servant
or a peon. We dislike them just because
we don't want to be the ones holding
the lesser seats in the hierarchy. In pack
animals like humans, such matriarch/patriarch
characteristics are desired by built-in mechanisms.
All species aim to create the strongest,
most fitting offsprings possible.
It's nothing really romantic. Just
the embedded sexuality.
That's why the bad guys tend to win
over the nice guys. We aim to have
a triumphant genepool.Your automed parts are against you if
you are looking for a person who cares
about you for a long time.
That's why the dicks tend to win over the pussies.

15 years ago
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That's why the dicks tend to win over the pussies.
That use to be true, nowadays the girls got smarter. They learned from their moms. Rather than finding a hairless ape looking douchebag whose going to become an abusive son of a bitch in 10 years, they find a nice educated responsible man with a plan for a future. Douchebags are only good for one night stand. They are like toys. But a real responsible man, that's what you want for someone to spend the rest of your life with.
Another theory is that woman use to want muscle, big strong man as mates for protection and safety. But our society changed and so did women's taste. They now prefer the more refined and sensitive man who isn't a hairless ape that farts and burps all day with a beer bottle every 10 minute.
After all, real courage and character is on the inside.
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15 years ago
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The James Bond kind of bastard guys are
more likely to have
offsprings...
That's a poor example.
He had his balls busted.
Having children may prove difficult.

15 years ago
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The James Bond kind of bastard guys are
more likely to have
offsprings...That's a poor example.
He had his balls busted.
Having children may prove difficult.
lol, the kind of men woman go for is Jean Luc Picard! 😲 He's bold, sophisticated, romantic, and sexy!
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15 years ago
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The James Bond kind of bastard guys are
more likely to have
offsprings...That's a poor example.
He had his balls busted.
Having children may prove difficult.lol, the kind of men woman go for is Jean Luc Picard! 😲 He's bold, sophisticated, romantic, and sexy!
Sophisticated? I think not. 🤣
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15 years ago
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[quote=Mamsmilk]The James Bond kind of bastard guys are
more likely to have
offsprings...That's a poor example.
He had his balls busted.
Having children may prove difficult.lol, the kind of men woman go for is Jean Luc Picard! 😲 He's bold, sophisticated, romantic, and sexy!
Sophisticated? I think not. 🤣
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fg_cwI1Xj4M[/quote]
The ending was epic!
Picard: "your wife won't let you?"
The other guy whose name I forgot: "no, I'm not maried"
Picard: "Girldfriend then?"
The other guy:"No, I don't have one."
Picard: "Ever watch Star Trek?"
The other guy: "No"
Picard: "Good Lord...." 😲
But seriously, I think a lot of women and men would go for Picard.....even more so in his younger days.
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But seriously, I think a lot of women and men would go for Picard.....even more so in his younger days.
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thats David Tristan Birkin, isnt it?

15 years ago
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Yes, and we shall never see him in the media again. 😔
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