Nice topic.
It happened to me twice, but those unfortunate events were my luck.
The first memorable time was a few years ago while I was an exchange student. There was this girl who was very friendly with me and she knew I liked that particular quiet guy and even tried to help me by involving us both in a school event, and then a few weeks later I saw them kissing right in front of the school...I felt like she made fun of me and indeed she didn't have a good reputation to start with... in the end he was really similar to that girl, and I realized my perception of his personality was completely wrong. So it's my win.
Then again last year I met this funny guy at a course, who was weekly hanging out with some friends of mine. My friend was introduced to him by our common friend and they started going out like after 2 days. I wasn't really mad at her because she didn't know about my crush and I never told her, but of course I was a little disappointed. They broke up after 3 months because apparently he likes to fool around and he was tired of her already 🤢 I would have been sad for my friend. if she didn't lie telling me she was the one who dumped him and that she actually was unsure about their relationship from the start. That kinda pissed me off, like the fact that she kept quiet about getting a boyfriend and about the break up, and someone else told me. We're not that close anyway, so I pretty much ignore her when we're with our other friends.

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I'd say that guys would go and take the girl they
have a crush on before any other d00d gets in the
way.

Although, in a community like this,
while I am doing the former, the rest of
the guys are prolly weeping how ronery
they are and doing chemistry/physics/math
homework. :,D

..you can take the girl you want cause you have a lot of self confidence, and the looks, not everyone has that O_O~
just saying.

Self confidence is worth more than the looks, and it doesn't hurt to be a smooth talker

It sucks that I don't have the confidence nor the smooth talkiness(and this is the most suckiest thing ever) >.<
at least I'm not hideous =P
well,at least I don't think I am >.>
That is a minimum of self-confidence I guess, but not enough by far =P

btw, I've seen butt ugly guys get hot girls simply because they had the guts to go for it
aaaaaaaaaaand usually guys don't get subtle hints that the girls try to pass, so when they go for it is by the means of sheer courage, not because they realize that the girl was flirting =P

PS: My pic is readily available at the "post your pic here...if you're brave enough"(or something like it) topic on the last page, so if you wanna reinforce my self-confidence or bash at it be my guest 🤣

This is so true! You can get really far with sheer self-confidence, and guys truly have a hard time getting those subtle messages that girls may try to convey. Of course one should always think "what bad could possibly happen from me telling him/her", but naturally that is simply too agonizing for some. Sometimes I like to play with thoughts thinking what could have happened. Usually that kind of thinking is just depressing though. But self-assured approach is the most appealing quality, at least when approaching women. Dunno about women approaching men, I get the feeling that women with strong personalities are sometimes intimidating? 🤣 Of course it depend on the person. More self-confidence and no more will your crushes be snatched my someone else! 😉

I'll hug your problems away.

This is a tip for the guys in here that don't have self confidence.

Want to talk with your crush? then get experience first.

How?
Just go and talk with the first cute girl you see, don't think about it, just go... and don't get nervous, you don't know the girl and she doesn't know you, so if she tells you to disappear, then no harm done (you gain more experience with defeat than with success), and if the conversation keeps going, then that is much better, because you earn some experience points and self confidence points.

Think life is a RPG game, and you really can't fight your crush with a lvl 1 character.

A few things you all need to keep in mind, DON'T try this in a group of girls, dealing with a group of girls requires a lot more strategy and you will easily fail, if you don't know how to do it; remember lone and bored girls are more willing to talk with strangers than a group of gossip girls >_>

Remember this: If you talk with a girl, you may fail, or you may win... if you don't, then you will fail, because you never tried to win.

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this is a negative

but here is the thing,
i am a womanizer it took me a while to realize it but sadly, its true

so every girl my friends will tell me they like, i will try to persue in getting them, even if they seriously like them.basically i will talk to any girl who is a 7.5 and up.

🙁
i neeeeeeeeeeeeddd heelllllppppp

why because i am the president of the student council of course

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This is a tip for the guys in here that don't have self confidence.

Want to talk with your crush? then get experience first.

How?
Just go and talk with the first cute girl you see, don't think about it, just go... and don't get nervous, you don't know the girl and she doesn't know you, so if she tells you to disappear, then no harm done (you gain more experience with defeat than with success), and if the conversation keeps going, then that is much better, because you earn some experience points and self confidence points.

Think life is a RPG game, and you really can't fight your crush with a lvl 1 character.

A few things you all need to keep in mind, DON'T try this in a group of girls, dealing with a group of girls requires a lot more strategy and you will easily fail, if you don't know how to do it; remember lone and bored girls are more willing to talk with strangers than a group of gossip girls >_>

Remember this: If you talk with a girl, you may fail, or you may win... if you don't, then you will fail, because you never tried to win.

That's a no-brainer.

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[quote=Mamsmilk]I'd say that guys would go and take the girl they
have a crush on before any other d00d gets in the
way.

Although, in a community like this,
while I am doing the former, the rest of
the guys are prolly weeping how ronery
they are and doing chemistry/physics/math
homework. :,D

..you can take the girl you want cause you have a lot of self confidence, and the looks, not everyone has that O_O~
just saying.

Self confidence is worth more than the looks, and it doesn't hurt to be a smooth talker

It sucks that I don't have the confidence nor the smooth talkiness(and this is the most suckiest thing ever) >.<
at least I'm not hideous =P
well,at least I don't think I am >.>
That is a minimum of self-confidence I guess, but not enough by far =P

btw, I've seen butt ugly guys get hot girls simply because they had the guts to go for it
aaaaaaaaaaand usually guys don't get subtle hints that the girls try to pass, so when they go for it is by the means of sheer courage, not because they realize that the girl was flirting =P

PS: My pic is readily available at the "post your pic here...if you're brave enough"(or something like it) topic on the last page, so if you wanna reinforce my self-confidence or bash at it be my guest 🤣

This is so true! You can get really far with sheer self-confidence, and guys truly have a hard time getting those subtle messages that girls may try to convey. Of course one should always think "what bad could possibly happen from me telling him/her", but naturally that is simply too agonizing for some. Sometimes I like to play with thoughts thinking what could have happened. Usually that kind of thinking is just depressing though. But self-assured approach is the most appealing quality, at least when approaching women. Dunno about women approaching men, I get the feeling that women with strong personalities are sometimes intimidating? 🤣 Of course it depend on the person. More self-confidence and no more will your crushes be snatched my someone else! 😉 [/quote]

As for women approaching men...
Most men don't mind if you simply tackle them to a wall and kiss them(instead of kiss it should be a word for "agressive kiss", but english is not my native language and I don't know if it even exists), in fact I'm fairly certain that if that were to happen in a public space, like a bar or a night club, he would high five his friends later =P
I know I would XD

PS: but I'd say that the most you can expect out of doing this(by "this" I mean the tackle situation, not approaching the guy, a regular approach can lead to more than that imho) is a one night stand

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this is a negative

but here is the thing,
i am a womanizer it took me a while to realize it but sadly, its true

so every girl my friends will tell me they like, i will try to persue in getting them, even if they seriously like them.basically i will talk to any girl who is a 7.5 and up.

🙁      

i neeeeeeeeeeeeddd heelllllppppp

I'm surprised you still have friends ô.o
I would have punched you in the face a looooooong time ago

Yes. BUt it didnt matter my crush would always act s if i was his girlfriend instead it was funny but my friend still dated him.
At times other people got confused. I didnt care who he went out with as long as i could talk to him like normal it was fine with me 😀 , but i guess you could say i was a bit sad.

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this is a negative

but here is the thing,
i am a womanizer it took me a while to realize it but sadly, its true

so every girl my friends will tell me they like, i will try to persue in getting them, even if they seriously like them.basically i will talk to any girl who is a 7.5 and up.

🙁      

i neeeeeeeeeeeeddd heelllllppppp

I'm surprised you still have friends ô.o
I would have punched you in the face a looooooong time ago

i could tell u were spanish from ur reply.
but yeh i know it sounds wrong

i lied to get attention haha

i dont chase females my friends like. 😛

why because i am the president of the student council of course

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Yeah, it's not her fault though. I use to have a crunchy exoskeleton and therefore let no one in on my emotional state (I still do to an extent,) and thus never even told her I liked the guy. Funny thing is, they dated for a couple of months, 3 years later my friend posts a picture on facebook with him in it, plus his boyfriend. Poetic justice for my own laissez faire policies.

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this is a negative

but here is the thing,
i am a womanizer it took me a while to realize it but sadly, its true

so every girl my friends will tell me they like, i will try to persue in getting them, even if they seriously like them.basically i will talk to any girl who is a 7.5 and up.

 🙁       

i neeeeeeeeeeeeddd heelllllppppp

I'm surprised you still have friends ô.o
I would have punched you in the face a looooooong time ago

i could tell u were spanish from ur reply.
but yeh i know it sounds wrong

i lied to get attention haha

i dont chase females my friends like. 😛

Sorry but you're 100% wrong.

I'm not spanish nor do I speak spanish.

I'm from Brazil and hence I speak portuguese =P

And lying to get attention is pretty childish thing to do ô.o