im looking for a yaoi/shounen-ai or yuri/shojo-ai(prefered but never found one) where other people learn about the relationship of the main couple.

my ideal situations would be either coming out to them or getting caught making out- or just reading the mood and being like "hey... um.. are you two... "

i couldnt find very many manga with situations like this by searching for tags-- despite knowing of several that fit the criteria but werent on the list (be it from lack of tagging or technically not fitting the discription) i dont really care about the specifics and technicalities- just that someone in the friends or family finds out about the situation be it on accident or on purpose.

no horror, mecha, harem, smut(rape, prostitution, sex friends, etc), or tragedy.

I also prefer cute/girly art and character- and cant stand manly couples or generic shoujo art.
examples of my favorite yaoi/yuri authors would be yamamoto kotetsuko, junko, homerun ken, yuzuya haruhi, takarai rihito, and fujitani youko

Tight Rope has a continuation of Doushiyoumo Nai Keredo in which the father finds out about the relationship between one of his employees and his son. I'm not sure if you would like it since the art isn't exactly cute. It does have some of those elements to it though.

Dou imo nara nai (I can't seem to link it here, anyways..)
The seme's father was rather suspicious of his son's doing. A very protective dad actually. One time he saw his son and the uke making out and went into rampage. He even installed camera and such around the house 😀 haha. Check it out it's pretty good and the art is gorgeous.

I want to be naughty! is good too, school president and this delinquent uke had it going on, Vice president (who is always with the School Pres.) is always so suspicious of them both, and doesn't want the uke going near the School Pres because he knows what they're doing behind doors 😉 But in the end the Vice Pres fell in love with the delinquent's friend, and they were even doing IT in school corridors and trying not to get caught. Seriously check it out- the plot is funny and beautiful art!

I have a lot but this is the good ones that I can remember ~ I'll come back if I have more 😀

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Off the top of my head, there's Yoneda Kou's Doushitemo Furetakunai, Asou Kai's Sono Mama De and Fujiyama Hyouta's Dear Green: Hitomi no Ounowa. I can think of a few others, but the art style might not be to your liking, for example, Kunieda Saika's Mirai no Kioku.

I quite like BL manga that involves coming out, there really should be a tag for this 🙂

Junjou, the parents find about the relationship and try to break them off.
I'll edit more later, that's the only one on top of my head right now 😀

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K n e e l .... This is the difference between your and my eye-level.
Rai from Noblesse

first one that came to mind was 1K Apartment no Koi.

Doukyuusei (NAKAMURA Asumiko) also has this.

uhhh...my mind is blanking D:

and i agree! there should totally be a tag on this! it's so sweet when they're all secretive and their friends are like "LOL we knew the entire time" <3 keeping an eye on this thread ;D

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