This topic is for me - and for anybody else who doesn't know to behave around girls or a specific girl 😛

I actually lack a lot of know-how of social interactions, so any advice is helpful. But my main problem is I don't know how to behave around females! What signals mean what, what behavious is expected of guys - anything helps.

And no, I don't have a crush on anybody, so this is not person specific.

There are times when you will miss what you never had. I wonder how you will find what you so desperately need.

key points eye contact!! that is a must when you are talking to a girl look at her eyes and nod when she is talking you will be surprised on when you do this how girls eyes will light up and there will be a real smile, and confidence (Nut up or shut up) but dont be cocky, if you can tell what kind of humor she likes then try to make her laugh, and dont hijack the conversation to much let her talk, if she is very touchy touchy towards you thats signal that she is into you, smiling, giggling, all good signs as well, body postures like arm crossed i personally think thats a bad sign, now things may be awkward at first but the more you go out and talk the easier it will become, hope this helps 😀

"when i'm sad, i stop being sad and be awesome instead."

• Barney Stinson

Face the fact's, its impossible for men to understand women 😛 one minute they like something the other they hate it. The moment you think you have figured out what the hell she's talking about then you are already to late and she will probably be mad at you for not noticing and being a unsensitive jerk. 😀

Go ahead and gamble and lie. A person who will not tell you seven lies within a hundred yards is useless as a man

Be yourself.
If you are not interesting to the other person, then you aren't.
Don't act what you aren't, since it won't work out
if you are a lie.

-Remain calm and avoid sudden movements.
-Give her plenty of room, allowing her to continue her activities undisturbed. If she changes her behavior, you're too close so back away.
-If you see a girl but the girl doesn't see you, detour quickly and quietly.
-If a girl spots you, try to get her attention while she is still farther away. You want her to know you're human so talk in a normal voice and wave your arms.
-Remember that a standing girl is not always a sign of aggression. Many times, girls will stand to get a better view.
-Throw something onto the ground (like your camera) if the girl pursues you, as she may be distracted by this and allow you to escape.
-Never feed or throw food to a girl.

...Oh, sorry that was for bears. My bad.

"It is those who know little, and not those who know much, who so positively assert that this or that problem will never be solved by science."

Behave normally. Isn't this common knowledge?

Also Mattai wins the thread.

[img]http://i370.photobucket.com/albums/oo143/TurboPhoenix/FireflySig.jpg[/img]

I prefer guys who behave like themselves.
If you seem interesting to some girls, you are. Some just won't like it no matter what way you behave. That's their different preferences.
You want those who are interested in your true self, don't you?
You won't get anywhere living a lie. It won't last.

Don't think about it so hard.

Far as I know, we girls don't speak a secret language or have hidden signals.
Personally, I don't 'expect' certain behaviour, but I appreciate it when a guy acts normally (whatever normal is for him), makes eye contact, and is polite.
Have confidence in yourself ^^

Mattai ftw 😀

Go ahead and gamble and lie. A person who will not tell you seven lies within a hundred yards is useless as a man

Like a ninja.

If the sea were made of Whiskey and I was a duck
I'd swim to the bottom and never come up

if you want sex be a jerk

Like a Boss. lol jk,

first of all, you should be YOURSELF
if they don't like you, then they're not your vibes XD get what i'm saying?

second, be aware that they are GIRLS
you can't talk to girls some jokes that are meant for guys
(uhh like, perverted jokes? LOL)

third, girls can be sensitive so don't try to do something that may hurt them
by asking their appearance (for ex. saying that their clothes doesn't match or talk about their weight XDD, something like that)

fourth, compliment them!
once in a while is not bad right?
..don't compliment them too much though LOL

Lol be myself. I am very blunt but I do not tell perverted joke but I am serious with a sense of humor. Blunt meaning if they ask me my opinon on their clothes I'll bluntly tell what my opinion is. But still that didn't keep the girls away. They keep coming back for more. I don't like being hugged/touched so they try to catch me off guard. But I am playful when it comes to that and they even tried ganging up on me. I guess best way is to be yourself they will observe you for a while then start to make their move if they become interested in you especially the good at heart selective ones.

As said a hundred times before me: be yourself.
Girls in general don't have specific behavior they want, it depends from girl to girl. It really doesn't depend on what sex you are, it depends on your character. Nothing more, nothing less.
If you act like yourself , some girls will appreciate it, some won't . That's just life.

clickI THINK EDWARD CULLEN IS UGLY.click

My problem isn't behaving like myself. My problem is that whenever I see - much less talk to - a pretty girl, my brain functions seem to slow down. Like I said, distracting. 🤢

There are times when you will miss what you never had. I wonder how you will find what you so desperately need.