I'm Indian and im getting married as soon as i turn 21 and its already been arranged i guess i dont really have nothing to worry about but i hope that my fiance is a really nice girl

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I get pressure to get a girlfriend, but i'm not old enough to pressure to marry.

Same here.
Well, in my case It's a boyfriend.

But my sister isn't lucky at all, my parents said that they probably put an advertisement in the newspaper LOL
Poor Onee-chan!!!

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I think I am more opposite. I am ready to marry [although I'm a bit young at 20], but I do not think my parents want me to marry my current boyfriend, even though we have been dating for 3.5 years.

On the other hand, I remember they always asked my sister and her boyfriend when they were going to getting married, and then when they finally got married, my parents asked when they were going to have children. Now my sister is pregnant! So, she kind of got all the nagging.

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I'm Indian and im getting married as soon as i turn 21 and its already been arranged i guess i dont really have nothing to worry about but i hope that my fiance is a really nice girl

Isn't that hard for you though? Not knowing who your wife will be? i've always tried to understand arranged marriages.

No. Heck my family doesn't even know I've ever dated.

No pressure to marry yet, but my parents are really after me to start dating. And I want to find a great guy, marry not long out of college and start a family before I'm 25 (or at least 30) but since I'm 20 and single with no prospects, I don't think that's going to happen. And it's not like I'm the only one drawing up useless plans like that; my mom started doing it for me the other day, too (let's see...when you get back at school, if you start dating him by the spring break, when you graduate, it'll be just over three years; wait a year after college and then get married...etc.).
Although, as far as race or whatnot goes, they don't really care (shoot, my first boyfriend was not only black but also had a completely different religion [although, if it had gotten serious, they might have had an issue with the religious differences]). Although, my mom did tell me that if I end up with a "black man" I better explain my grandparents and extended family to him before bringing him home. Not that any of them are racist, there just aren't ANY African Americans where they live and they'd say things that might sound racist without meaning to. So, as long as I marry a good, Christian boy, I'm okay.

I am a breath of insanity in a world of chaos.

Me: Performing Random Acts of Klutziness for over 30 years.

Not really, since I'm under aged. Also because my parents forbid any dating till I'm 18, but apparently I'm going to have a arranged marriage anyway as soon as I'm legal with someone I never met before. 🤣

But it's okay cause I'm going to divorce him right away~ 8-)

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Nope, never got bugged about that. Not when I was in HS, not in college, not when I became a single mom at 24, and not since. 😀

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Nope, as a matter of fact, my parents forbade me from getting married at 18. I was the one to break the family tradition of doing so, however they forgot to tell my brother and he did. I'm still not being pushed into one, probably because everyone is on their second marriage & I've yet to have my first!

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I'm Indian and im getting married as soon as i turn 21 and its already been arranged i guess i dont really have nothing to worry about but i hope that my fiance is a really nice girl

Wow... that's quite a load to suddenly pack on at 21 in my opinion. Especially when you don't really know the woman you're gonna spend the rest of your life with.

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I'm Indian and im getting married as soon as i turn 21 and its already been arranged i guess i dont really have nothing to worry about but i hope that my fiance is a really nice girl

Wow... that's quite a load to suddenly pack on at 21 in my opinion. Especially when you don't really know the woman you're gonna spend the rest of your life with.

being forced to marry someone we dont even know is actually a form of psycophysical violence. I hope he'll be a darn lucky man at the moment of uncovering the veil 🤣 I really wish you luck, "forced brides/husbands" out there.

'sides, im 29 but noone ever bugged me about marrying: they know me, i'm difficult to deal with and im perfectly fine when im on my own. If i had the possibility, i'd like to marry, but i dont really think it'll happen soon(lol).

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That's known as a "coin".

Oh, thanks. Too much D&D.

My Grandma tells me to go after a nice rich Chinese girl.
My Mom tells me I'm too young to date.
My Dad tells me as long as the girl's Chinese.
My friends tell me to go and lose your virginity already...

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I agree. i'd rather NOT get married, or rather fall in love at all. So dating and getting boyfriends is pointless to me since i dont plan or want anything to do with Love or marriage. My first Love really hurt me and it took me a year to finally completely get over it. Love isnt just all fun and games its really scary actually im scared to love someone again. I just dont want to be betrayed again so i think ill just become the cat lady cept ill have Siberian white tigers! 😛
P.s.irionically all my friends are girls and my few guy friends are gay XD

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my mom don't really care if i'm married or not. as long as i am happy living like that.

well, after numerous time going in and out of relationship, with only one outcome, i decided this is my last time trying.

if it fails, ima be a monk. wait... phailed.

i bet 50$ i'll never get marry.

bets still open

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Naahhh man!

I'm only 16! I'm haven't even considering getting married.

Let me live my life first please 🤣

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I'm Indian and im getting married as soon as i turn 21 and its already been arranged i guess i dont really have nothing to worry about but i hope that my fiance is a really nice girl

Isn't that hard for you though? Not knowing who your wife will be? i've always tried to understand arranged marriages.

I can't imagined being in a situation where our lives are being arranged by parents.. I wish you all the best in life Singhyd. How old are you now?

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