Go and get married already!
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if it fails, ima be a monk. wait... phailed.
hey, in case, let me join you in monkhood! And i think we should at least learn shaolin practices: a cool monk is better than a normal one 🤣
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That's known as a "coin".
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16 years ago
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I'm Indian and im getting married as soon as i turn 21 and its already been arranged i guess i dont really have nothing to worry about but i hope that my fiance is a really nice girl
Isn't that hard for you though? Not knowing who your wife will be? i've always tried to understand arranged marriages.
No. Heck my family doesn't even know I've ever dated.
dude is your family like mega traditional and rich because those are the only types that force those kinda arranged marriage. the typical arranged marriage is more like an omai you go to a marriage broker he shows you pictures of single men/women you guys then set up a meeting see how you like the other person and if your parents like them. if dont like them you can always say no; not that you always can because of honor, tradition, and parents. but even thats kinda going down these days for things are getting incredibly modern with the internet and all.
anyways my advice for you is atleast talk to the girl once through the phone or something.
anyways im too young to be married so i dont feel the pressure yet but i probebly will in about 8 years when im 24.
i had a revelation the other week, that if i was to marry as long as she could cook and was nice, and not like my mother i'd worship her, it may sound a bit sexist but i realized being sexist is better then eating frozen food and premade stuff day in and day out.
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16 years ago
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Wanted to add: I want to find a partner for life and fall in love, but I'd rather not get married.
My mother does not want me to get married either. My grandmother wants to be old enough to be there to witness my wedding.
I am 21 and had never gotten into a relationship with any girl. I am focused on getting my major and a solid understanding in four different areas of Math/Science/Engineering. My failure as a genius made me act like a jerk to girls that expressed some romantic interest in me when I was still in high school. I made a really, really awful remark to a girl that tried to make me feel emotionally better.
My grandmother bugs me about getting married whenever I come home for a break off from school. Being in the emotional state I was in, I do not think any relationships will work well. I feel sorry for her for not pursuing this at all.
I've never discussed marriage with my parents.
Though, I don't need it anyway. I can still have
a woman without it.
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People always ask me about boys though >__< it's not like I keep a bunch of them at once... 😔
You keep them as pets in your cat's cage, no? 🤣

16 years ago
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Not really.
My family however always asks if I have a boyfriend. In all honesty though my family always worries about the females getting knocked up before actually going to college its been a recent trend in my family...
My family usually doesn't bother asking me, they usually just ask about my sister's long-term boyfriend and then change the topic to politics or the weather or where my globe-trotting grandparents are.

16 years ago
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yeah, my parents were kind of like this, specially my mom. always nagging me about marriage and such. man, those endless discussion were driving me nuts. no wonder I am still single. I am not saying that I don't like marriage but it is just not my thing. I am more relaxed to be free and on my own. I am happier this way and it seems it will be like this for the rest of my life. ^__^
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16 years ago
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I've never discussed marriage with my parents.
Though, I don't need it anyway. I can still have
a woman without it.Quote from amaranthine
People always ask me about boys though >__< it's not like I keep a bunch of them at once... 😔
You keep them as pets in your cat's cage, no? 🤣
Your parents are prolly scared just thinking about what kind of woman you'll pick as a bride! O_O
Pshaw, my cat has his own room... kitty >>> boys!
We even have a matching scarf 🤣
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i had a revelation the other week, that if i was to marry as long as she could cook and was nice, and not like my mother i'd worship her, it may sound a bit sexist but i realized being sexist is better then eating frozen food and premade stuff day in and day out.
Remember there is always an option: YOU cook ^^'
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I need a die with 2 sides.
That's known as a "coin".
Oh, thanks. Too much D&D.

16 years ago
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i had a revelation the other week, that if i was to marry as long as she could cook and was nice, and not like my mother i'd worship her, it may sound a bit sexist but i realized being sexist is better then eating frozen food and premade stuff day in and day out.
Remember there is always an option: YOU cook ^^'
That's one of the reasons why I don't cook~ 🤣

16 years ago
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My grammy is pretty set on me getting married. She married young, my mum and uncles married young... so I guess she thinks I should marry young. Even tries to set me up every time I come home. 🤢 Which I do everything to avoid if possible... or I'll go and wear something like sweatpants so I'll look like a grunge and they'll leave me the hell alone. 🤣 Doesn't always work... but eh. Though, I at least have my grandda and my uncles on my side... cause I'm their only girl, so they're pretty overprotective and kind of have a complex towards me and aren't ready to let me go yet.
But, I think it all narrows down to wanting grandkids... and hoping like my mom I'll have a female as well (my mum and I are the only females born in the family)... but I keep telling her that I don't need to get married if she wants a grandchild that badly... just need a sperm donor. 🤣 (She doesn't really care for that reply too much. 🤢 )
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16 years ago
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i had a revelation the other week, that if i was to marry as long as she could cook and was nice, and not like my mother i'd worship her, it may sound a bit sexist but i realized being sexist is better then eating frozen food and premade stuff day in and day out.
LOL
That's the kind of partner I want. Some chef to make me whatever I want XD.
(I'm a pretty picky eater)
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16 years ago
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i had a revelation the other week, that if i was to marry as long as she could cook and was nice, and not like my mother i'd worship her, it may sound a bit sexist but i realized being sexist is better then eating frozen food and premade stuff day in and day out.
LOL
That's the kind of partner I want. Some chef to make me whatever I want XD.
(I'm a pretty picky eater)
Picky eaters are a turnoff. >.> Mainly because I eat everything.

16 years ago
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i had a revelation the other week, that if i was to marry as long as she could cook and was nice, and not like my mother i'd worship her, it may sound a bit sexist but i realized being sexist is better then eating frozen food and premade stuff day in and day out.
LOL
That's the kind of partner I want. Some chef to make me whatever I want XD.
(I'm a pretty picky eater)Picky eaters are a turnoff. >.> Mainly because I eat everything.
You can eat the stuff the other doesn't want. That way everybody will be content. 😁
Hrodulf and Bjornolfr, you will not be forgotten.
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16 years ago
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hhmm I never get that from relatives... My Dad has from time to time brought up the topic but that was to tell me to fuck around and have lots of fun while I am young and leave settling down till later. Advice I intend to follow 🙂