Go and get married already!
16 years ago
Posts: 1310
They bug me a little, but they want me to get a steady relationship more than anything, after all I am still young O.o
I have mixed feelings about Marriage, I don't think is important, actually I label it as a waste of time, however, I often do pointless and time wasting stuff when I have a GF 🙂
16 years ago
Posts: 1650
Eh? I'm not of marriageable age yet, am only 17, so not yet. Plus, they encourage me to marry after I'm done with school, which means after I get a Ph.D, which means I'll probably be about 27-28 around then. Parents (relatives on other side of the world, and therefore will never have any say in my life) have no issues with relationships at all (not that I've even had any), but encourage me to get into a steady relationship one of these years.
Maybe I should stop being so pyro and strange and stop scaring guys away from me. Oh well. Bursting out in evil laughter is far too much fun.
16 years ago
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not really since i am only 18.
16 years ago
Posts: 306
I'm 23, but everyone on my mother's side thinks I'm overdue. What is "overdue" or "past the expiration date" for girls in her culture is "in their prime" for men. On my father's side, they just suspect me of fooling around.
Guess, I'm stuck in between a rock and a hard place. Recently, I've got to the point where, whenever I see any relatives when I'm out with friends, I just duck into a corner. Or if I get caught, I just mentally fold in my ears.
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16 years ago
Posts: 1310
Well... Girls have a time limit... after the Thirty so years (depends on the women) is dangerous to have children and the time normally runs out before the fifty's on the other hand guys don't have this problem ^_^
That is why families often say a girl in her 27/34 is reaching her due date, not to mention is harder to find guys willing to marry when you reach that age O.o
is math, the less liked science of the world >_>
16 years ago
Posts: 306
Thanks, Chaos, that sure makes me feel better >.>;;;
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16 years ago
Posts: 259
Haha! I get you! [even tho I'm too young to get married]
My sister: You should get a boyfriend already.
Me: I'm only interested in 2D characters!~ [from Hayate the Combat Butler XD].
My sister: Shut up with the anime already!
Me: I don't wanna get married or get a boyfriend! My only interest is in anime and manga!
My mom: EVERYONE GETS MARRIES SOMEONE.
Me: Nope, I'm marrying my stash of manga and anime. 😀
16 years ago
Posts: 1310
Lol
Sorry about that 🙂
Let me think... something to make you feel better... Oh yeah!!!... You aren't even close of your due date 😛 so you should take it easy, relax and enjoy the ride that is life, don't grab the first guy that says he likes you, take your time to pick, as a woman is your right to flat out refuse and destroy the feelings of guys (however, If you do it too much you will become famous for it and no one will ever want to fall for you)
16 years ago
Posts: 90
Quote from kizku
there's a joke in germany going something like this:
when i was younger, i hated going to weddings. aunts and grandmotherly acquaintances prickled my side, laughed and said: you're next
they stopped this rubbish when i started doing the same on funerals
ot: no, not really. it'll probably start when i finish my education
Bwahahahaha, that's hilarious!
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16 years ago
Posts: 24
Yeah, I get bugged about it, a little. I'm 25, so it's not too surprising. On the other hand, I've been told to go on dates (with the eventual hope of finding a gf) the past 10 years ...
I'm still a student. Even if I finish my studies at age 30/31 (with a PhD in hand, I hope) and am not married, it wouldn't be too bad because the biological clock issue is a little less urgent for men. Because of the people I interact with, marriage is a somewhat common topic. It is a little surprising to find out how many former classmates are now married and have children.
That's a good joke, btw.
16 years ago
Posts: 306
Quote from Chaoswind
you should take it easy, relax and enjoy the ride that is life, don't grab the first guy that says he likes you, take your time to pick,
Too late for that. xD But thanks. I LOL'ed.
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16 years ago
Posts: 57
my family likes to nag about marriage...
😐
A lot.
I'm still young and in school but the entire maternal side of my family thinks there's something wrong with me because I'm not married
(They have this weird tradition of getting married and/or pregnant at 16 🤢 )
...
they're all nuts anyway
antidisestablishmentarianism...
And I know what it means, too
😀
16 years ago
Posts: 75
My mother is against marriage and families altogether. She'd rather we travel the world, sleep around with exciting guys and make lots of money before we die... rich, alone and probably quite worn out. At least that's the impression I've got. And dad couldn't care less either way I think.
I'm the youngest of the lot so the rest of my relatives are more focused on asking my sis when she'll marry... Possibly my brother too since he's currently the only one with a steady partner. But still, the oldest is the one that has to be married first, it seems. And we all ignore them. We marry if we want to marry, we don't if we don't want to and we make our own choices in life.
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16 years ago
Posts: 16
Hmm.. in my case I get pressured from all sides my parents say do want you want, but you basicially know its code for we expect you to eventually get married, my grandma is like you should get a boyfriend but first you have to change a few things about yourself (like what?), and pretty much most of my friends are like I feel sorry for you and you will probably change your mind. But I doubt that I will, after all even though I am pretty young I intend to focus completely on my career in the future.
16 years ago
Posts: 522
My father wants me to get married very soon. But it doesn't bother me. I can't imagine that a woman would pick me...because I am a cold and emotionless bastard. I'm unable to love or feel love. Furthermore, I don't care about the people around me. Marriage would be a big mistake in my case.
