Dating by Race nowadays
17 years ago
Posts: 320
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I don't know, does that sound racist to you? 🙄
ummm... 😕 .... ok... your point is?
look friend, if you have a certain race preference, tell it to the thread not me...., i wouldnt understand nor would i care.... you have youre ship u want to keep it floating, i have my own too,,, so lets at the very least stop blasting cannon balls at each other, and leave each other's boats alone...
cool?
It's not that you don't like black girls that he (or she, I don't know xD ) is pointing out, it's the fact that you made a generalization about them. You pretty much said that black girls like partying and hanging out in loud places. I for one know that is not true at all. I've met quite a few black girls that like chilling at home, watching a movie or playing video games. And from experience, black girls don't like going clubbing or hanging out in loud places any more than white, hispanic, or asian women.
As for your view of attraction, it's really not that bad. It's fair.
nice straight hair - matter of taste, more power to you
nice body - who doesn't
beautiful face - who doesn't
good personality - who doesn't
silimar hobbies - it tends to work out better if you share the same hobbies
moral values - same as above
dont have STDs - I don't know, that seems a little strange, grant it STDs are bad, but I think it's strange that that's one of the things you take into account, but hey whatever floats your boat
dress styles - good for outer appearance
skinny
sporty/personal skills (music, dance, or cooking)
I'm a little confused in the way you said that black girls are lacking in most of these traits. Most of them you could chalk up to personal preference (straight hair, nice body, beautiful face, similar hobbies, moral values, dress style, skinny, sporty/personal skills). Like you definition of a nice body may be different to someone else, so that's no big deal. However, I find it kind of strange to think that black girls are lacking in good personality, or that they lack in not having STDs (whoa double negative). I'm not calling you racist or anything remotely close to that. But I can see how someone can see otherwise. I've done plenty of things that I didn't twice about only to learn that it was offensive to a certain group. It happens.

17 years ago
Posts: 71
I think he missed the offensive nature of his post I did try to point it out to him by saying..
@bluegreenangel - Just a tip but generalising a group of people from a certain race is never the best way to not sound racist, just so you know 😉
But, yes, to sum it up your post basically said black girls have STD's, bad personalities, are all money hungry, like partying and loud places, lack morals, are fat and don't play sports or have any "personal skills".
It did sound a little racist but more than that it sounded a whole lot stupid 😃
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17 years ago
Posts: 115
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Quote from kuraruka
I don't know, does that sound racist to you? 🙄
ummm... 😕 .... ok... your point is?
look friend, if you have a certain race preference, tell it to the thread not me...., i wouldnt understand nor would i care.... you have youre ship u want to keep it floating, i have my own too,,, so lets at the very least stop blasting cannon balls at each other, and leave each other's boats alone...
cool?
Apparently ad-libbing your post and throwing it back at you was so very subtle that you managed to miss the point entirely. I'll try making it simpler for you.
I was being sarcastic when I took your post and applied it to asian women. I could care less what your tastes in women are (though I'm somewhat inclined to think of them as reflective of the general level of intelligence you've displayed). I don't have a 'boat' I'm trying to defend, although you certainly did shoot the first 'cannonball', to use your metaphor.
No, my problem is with you basically saying this:
"I don't mean to sound racist, guys, but I like women who are physically attractive and intelligent, have good personalities, upstanding morals and personal skills of some kind, aren't fat, and don't have STDs. So I'm not attracted to black girls, since they don't meet any of these qualifications. But seriously guys, I'm not racist, everyone has their goods and bads."
Honestly, I'm offended far more by your wanton stupidity than by your bigotry towards the women of my race, or anything else for that matter. If you're still scratching your head, try re-reading the posts above mine, they spelled it out pretty well.
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17 years ago
Posts: 53
i hate this topics couse im always late 🙁 ( and when i get here to say something i dont have a clue what are the ppl writing right now
Race? Well i would say i like girls from Venecuela they seam to be beutiful 🙂
17 years ago
Posts: 370
Quote from kuraruka
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Quote from kuraruka
I don't know, does that sound racist to you? 🙄
ummm... 😕 .... ok... your point is?
look friend, if you have a certain race preference, tell it to the thread not me...., i wouldnt understand nor would i care.... you have youre ship u want to keep it floating, i have my own too,,, so lets at the very least stop blasting cannon balls at each other, and leave each other's boats alone...
cool?
Apparently ad-libbing your post and throwing it back at you was so very subtle that you managed to miss the point entirely. I'll try making it simpler for you.
I was being sarcastic when I took your post and applied it to asian women. I could care less what your tastes in women are (though I'm somewhat inclined to think of them as reflective of the general level of intelligence you've displayed). I don't have a 'boat' I'm trying to defend, although you certainly did shoot the first 'cannonball', to use your metaphor.
No, my problem is with you basically saying this:
"I don't mean to sound racist, guys, but I like women who are physically attractive and intelligent, have good personalities, upstanding morals and personal skills of some kind, aren't fat, and don't have STDs. So I'm not attracted to black girls, since they don't meet any of these qualifications. But seriously guys, I'm not racist, everyone has their goods and bads."
Honestly, I'm offended far more by your wanton stupidity than by your bigotry towards the women of my race, or anything else for that matter. If you're still scratching your head, try re-reading the posts above mine, they spelled it out pretty well.
YES, i know you were being sarcastic... u dont have to tell me that at all... jesus christ... im mad, cause you wouldnt leave me alone... so lets leave each other alone?? what happened to "freedom of speech", u wanna say whats truly in youre mind about my race, i dont care... this is a thread.... and you also misunderstood something... wen i listed those traits, IM VERY AWARE not all black girls are like that, though i did mean, they majority of them in MY opinion lacked most of them,, but thats just an OPINION, its justa preference,,
who knows partying and stuff can be a good think towards other people,
curly hair can be attractive towards certain people
hobbys differs from people to people just saying usually i dont share hobbies with blacks girls
personality i prefer shy, calm, and smart... some people prefer outgoing, energetic....
who wants STDS?? its not a stereotype, its a fact... look at the statistics.... dont blame me, i didnt give the majority of african american people these sickness... its just an extra caution u gatta take for safety before you go out with someone.... bigger risk...
skinny is just preference, some people prefer alittle chubbier, kind of like hillary duff kinda fat, i dont know
dress is actually preferenced by race by majorities, so thats something everyone has their own taste.....
if youre asking if i hate african american girls.... answer is no.... i dont mind befriending them, go hang out sometime.... but just not look at them as a attraction type or a dating sense of people, thats all, not a hate speech
so chill, k?

17 years ago
Posts: 71
Honestly, I'm like two weeks late, but, whatever the post above mine is just so retarded I couldn't let it pass. It's not so much the obvious, rude blanket stereotyping and prejudice based on what is obviously a painfully limited personal experience. I've seen enough prejudice now to not be shocked by it.
It's the obliviousness that's shocking! I don't know what's worse... being willfully ignorant or being totally unaware of your ignorance.
Or, maybe in the dictionary you're using (I'm just guessing that English isn't your first language) some wierd typo took place and the definition of "Opinion" and "Prejudice" got mixed up.
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17 years ago
Posts: 438
Hey, I think that a lot of preferences are based on what you grow up around. Proximity breeds attraction and friendship is a basic psychological principle. I grew up around mainly asian and white families and thus developed more of a liking towards them. I do not, however share a dislike towards any particular race and would be comfortable dating any person no matter their ethnicity as long as they were the right person for me. Based on my ex's though, most of my friends claim that I have Yellow fever 🤣

16 years ago
Posts: 115
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YES, i know you were being sarcastic... u dont have to tell me that at all... jesus christ... im mad, cause you wouldnt leave me alone... so lets leave each other alone?? what happened to "freedom of speech",
You really aren't too smart, are you?
What happened to freedom of speech? You tell me, genius. When did I infringe upon your freedom of speech or tell you that you couldn't say something? Your freedom of speech allows you to say what you've said, and mine allows me to read what you've said and tell you that it's fucking stupid and that you're an incorrigible, bigoted moron.
u wanna say whats truly in youre mind about my race, i dont care... this is a thread....
You claim to have understood my sarcasm, and then follow that claim with a statement that clearly indicates you didn't. There was nothing in my mind about your race, other than perhaps that you're a pitiful specimen of it and humanity in general.
and you also misunderstood something... wen i listed those traits, IM VERY AWARE not all black girls are like that, though i did mean, they majority of them in MY opinion lacked most of them,, but thats just an OPINION, its justa preference,,
Sigh. No, what you've said is an assertion. "I don't find black girls attractive" would be an opinion, or a preference. Had that been the extent of what you said, I wouldn't have given two shits, let alone bothered to reply. "Here is a list of traits I find attractive; [all or most] black girls do not possess these traits" is a generalization and an assertion. You're stating what you believe to be a fact.
who knows partying and stuff can be a good think towards other people,
curly hair can be attractive towards certain people
hobbys differs from people to people just saying usually i dont share hobbies with blacks girls
personality i prefer shy, calm, and smart... some people prefer outgoing, energetic....
Yes, yes, we're all familiar with Yamato Nadeshiko.
who wants STDS?? its not a stereotype, its a fact... look at the statistics.... dont blame me, i didnt give the majority of african american people these sickness... its just an extra caution u gatta take for safety before you go out with someone.... bigger risk...
Really? Do enlighten me with these statistics showing that a majority of African Americans have STD's.
skinny is just preference, some people prefer alittle chubbier, kind of like hillary duff kinda fat, i dont know
dress is actually preferenced by race by majorities, so thats something everyone has their own taste.....
...Please tell me English isn't your first language.
if youre asking if i hate african american girls.... answer is no.... i dont mind befriending them, go hang out sometime.... but just not look at them as a attraction type or a dating sense of people, thats all, not a hate speech
so chill, k?
No.
I wouldn't particularly care if you did hate black girls. Let me reiterate. Your opinions and preferences, like you, are worthless and inconsequential in my eyes. I could care less. It's your assertions and your insults that spur me to hold this conversation with you.
Why should I chill? You insult my race every other post while insisting that your assertions are just opinions, hiding behind freedom of speech (which technically does not exist here on a private forum), and that I should just take all of this in stride. Sorry, no dice. I doubt you would be genuinely willing to do the same were our positions reversed, were I telling you that Asian women are ugly, unintelligent, fat and disease-ridden - and if you would, I pity you all the more. And if I'm to be chastised for excessive flaming, so be it.
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16 years ago
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i only got one word "WOW" as i go runnin my eyes thru this thread. i read jus a few post and replies. seriasly we sure got a lot of smart and clever people that put a lot thinking into this sorter matter. 😀 everyone has strong points and opinions.
well from my tip. my opinion would be. i think interacial is the future. its all natural. everyone got their personal interest. all sorter personalities vary in races. and so be it. if ur fated to like some1 of different race then let it be 😀
well i grew up in a black community so for me its natural. Ive dated black and chinese. dunno much whites or hispanics so cant refer to them.. but i dont see the trouble of mixing race. i am chinese/taiwanese. i was born and bred in South Africa. maybe thats the reason why it makes me see interacial marriage as a normal thing. but i would love to experience whites and hispanic since its never occured before. ^^x
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16 years ago
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You know, there should be a rule where you can't make threads that have topics like race, religion, & politics, because people will misinterpret other people's opinions when they're typed over the internet...
As for me, I welcome any woman from any race that wants to go with me. But if she's a bitch (And most of you should know what my definition of "bitch" is. I've typed it about 5 or 6 times on this site), then she'd better head the other way before she receives a splitting headache from an axe. 🤣
Just kidding. I'd go for the legs first. 😀
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16 years ago
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I'd goes for the legs first. 😀
The most sensible thing I've seen on this thread.
Who gives a damn about color.... it's all about the legs. 😃
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16 years ago
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As for me, I welcome anybody of any race who wishes to date me. I have no preference to race, but I do have a thing for a person's face like their smile, their eyes, and their hairstyle besides their personality.
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16 years ago
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I'm an Irish Singaporean with an Indian dad and a Chinese mom, so I have no problems with interracial marriages.
My parents wouldn't object to whoever I marry except for religion as he HAS to be a Muslim. 😐
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16 years ago
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I'm white (european + native american backgrounds) and I'm not more inclined to date any particular ethnicity. If we get along well and make each other happy, that's all that matters to me.
(just a side-note, I find those who are multi-racial to be some of the most beautiful people. however, that can't compensate for a sucky personality, so the above still holds true)