Love or Lust

16 years ago
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Relationships are based on love, lust or both. You can have an emotional or just physical attraction to someone. Purely lust driven relationships can be unhealthy but how do you tell the difference? I would like to hear your guys' opinion on this and also your experiences in both types of relationships

16 years ago
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definitely love...
lust will just go away..it will cool down sometime...
but true love will not!! it will last forever!! oh yeah i know...that or im just a romantic... 😳
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A combination of both, I suppose?
It really depends on the individuals
in the relationship, and their priorities.
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16 years ago
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definitely love...
lust will just go away..it will cool down sometime...
but true love will not!! it will last forever!!
This is so not true...If you truly believe this you are in for a world of heartbreak 🙁 I hate this saying a lot, and if it had any truth to it at all then most of human relationships would have no meaning at all. Does that make it any less special, any less true because a relationship didn't last forever? And if it does, is it true love? Certainly not.
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If we're choosing between love that is lustless, and lust that is loveless...is that even possible? If we're talking about relationships, can you be in a "relationship" if you don't lust after them in some way?
Anyway. I think I'd go for love. Because love without lust (a friendship that isn't physical) is the best kind of love, imo. Though that's not easy. When you love someone a lot, it's natural to lust after them. Lust isn't exactly a deviated feeling or something you can separate from love. Hence incestuous relationships and the like.
16 years ago
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Lasting relationships are based on love, being that those two people love everything about each other from their inner and outer beauty down to the flaws that they have. Relationships based on lust is about pure attraction, those relationships burn bright and extinguish fast because their is no real connection besides the purely physical
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16 years ago
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If she's hot, lust.
If she's rich, love (for her bank account)
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If she's hot, lust.
If she's rich, love (for her bank account)
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16 years ago
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ill say both....cuz u need both love and lust.
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16 years ago
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definitely love...
lust will just go away..it will cool down sometime...
but true love will not!! it will last forever!!This is so not true...If you truly believe this you are in for a world of heartbreak 🙁 I hate this saying a lot, and if it had any truth to it at all then most of human relationships would have no meaning at all. Does that make it any less special, any less true because a relationship didn't last forever? And if it does, is it true love? Certainly not.
tsk tskIf we're choosing between love that is lustless, and lust that is loveless...is that even possible? If we're talking about relationships, can you be in a "relationship" if you don't lust after them in some way?
Anyway. I think I'd go for love. Because love without lust (a friendship that isn't physical) is the best kind of love, imo. Though that's not easy. When you love someone a lot, it's natural to lust after them. Lust isn't exactly a deviated feeling or something you can separate from love. Hence incestuous relationships and the like.
yess it is true...
do you see old couples...60 yrs and above... bangin'?
definitely no...because they stop having the ability to do so...and after they lose the ability to do so...they will not worrying about it anymore...spending precious moments is the main priority now...and will you do this only because of lust?? definitely not because..as for me i will not tolerate it i will really go for growing old with the one that i love...not the one i am fantasizing about... so the love is the only thing that remains because lust cools down with age...
<--- thats my observation because i live with my grandparents...
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The sweeter the apple, the higher the branch. The quieter the fart, the nastier the smell.
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16 years ago
Posts: 574
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definitely love...
lust will just go away..it will cool down sometime...
but true love will not!! it will last forever!!This is so not true...If you truly believe this you are in for a world of heartbreak 🙁 I hate this saying a lot, and if it had any truth to it at all then most of human relationships would have no meaning at all. Does that make it any less special, any less true because a relationship didn't last forever? And if it does, is it true love? Certainly not.
tsk tskIf we're choosing between love that is lustless, and lust that is loveless...is that even possible? If we're talking about relationships, can you be in a "relationship" if you don't lust after them in some way?
Anyway. I think I'd go for love. Because love without lust (a friendship that isn't physical) is the best kind of love, imo. Though that's not easy. When you love someone a lot, it's natural to lust after them. Lust isn't exactly a deviated feeling or something you can separate from love. Hence incestuous relationships and the like.
yess it is true...
do you see old couples...60 yrs and above... bangin'?
definitely no...because they stop having the ability to do so...and after they lose the ability to do so...they will not worrying about it anymore...spending precious moments is the main priority now...and will you do this only because of lust?? definitely not because..as for me i will not tolerate it i will really go for growing old with the one that i love...not the one i am fantasizing about... so the love is the only thing that remains because lust cools down with age...
<--- thats my observation because i live with my grandparents...
If you're with someone for a good period time, why leave them? Why leave the comfortable living, the other person? Who wants to be alone? There are plenty of other reasons why older people stay together, and I know it's not always "love." The idea that just because two people stick together for their entire lives because they have true love is BS.
Both. The answer is both.
In a real relationship, both love and lust needs to be present. Lust is what brings to people together and Love, of course, is what keeps them together.
You can love someone with all your heart but if you don't Lust for them, then it may mean that your kind of Love is more of a family-based love or a best friend kind of love. If Lust is also present, then that is what makes it true love. The attraction is both mental and physical, making it a special kind of love, different from any other kind of love.
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16 years ago
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Both. The answer is both.
In a real relationship, both love and lust needs to be present. Lust is what brings to people together and Love, of course, is what keeps them together.
You can love someone with all your heart but if you don't Lust for them, then it may mean that your kind of Love is more of a family-based love or a best friend kind of love. If Lust is also present, then that is what makes it true love. The attraction is both mental and physical, making it a special kind of love, different from any other kind of love.
Second. Can't have one without the other if you want a long and fulfilling relationship.
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16 years ago
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age 18 = lust
lust 79.999% running through my head! 🤨
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