manga like Yukarism where lovers reincarnate but change genders...no BL or yuri please 😃

The only one manga I know with both gender-bending and reincarnation is NG Life.

Bokura no Kiseki has those two elements too, but I don't think it has reincarnated lovers.

I think the manga Mana is like that.

Hmmm... all I've got is Gekka no Kimi. The hero's the reincarnation of Hikaru no Genji, and he finds the reincarnation of his lover (forgot the name). There's no gender bender in it though. 😢

[m]Replay quite good.. not sure whether it is a happy ending or not.... you can use the tag reincarnation if you want to find more
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Going Kyaaaa!! constantly at Bishounen

check this

[img]https://i.imgur.com/lHjrfaR.jpg[/img]

Try Ao no Fuuin

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Divine Melody It has gender bender and reincarnation, though not exactly the same coupling.
Saver could also fit.

Nulla in mundo pax sincera
"Always go too far, because that's where you'll find the truth." - Albert Camus

Angel Sanctuary its kind of sad most of the time tho.

NG Life

Alice came to a fork in the road.
"Which road do I take?" she asked.
"Where do you want to go?" responded the Cheshire cat.
"I don't know," Alice answered.
"Then," said the cat, "it doesn't matter."
~Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland

please save my earth

Kinda a spoiler.. but the second oneshot in Yumenara Samenaide definitely fits.