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16 years ago
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Hmmm
To me a Crush is just a step before retarded love, so no I don't have several Crushes, now to LIKE several girls is not out of the question...

16 years ago
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What do you guys think of hugging? Are you comfortable with accepting/giving man-hugs or do you think it's gay,un-masculine, or are you uncomfortable about it?
I'll give a hug to anyone that wants one, regardless of gender.
(guy here)Agreed.
I sometimes feel like giving a hug, but
people are afraid to do it in public. 🙁
Coming from me... lol.
I of course enjoy seeing guys hug.
But let's leave the gay hints- I really see nothing wrong.
Girls hug. So why can't guys?
I like hugs~
Being a girl I get them often.
Public hugs are good to the point where people throw dirty looks at you... .;;
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16 years ago
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Hmmm
To me a Crush is just a step before retarded love, so no I don't have several Crushes, now to LIKE several girls is not out of the question...
LOL, all right. Crushes is a little grade-school. Not really talking about just "like." Maybe I should say people you actively pursue? As in you go out of your way to find out about their interests, flirt with them, hang out with them, etc.
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What do girls think of guys hugging? would you like him more b/c he isn't bent on being 'manly'?
What do you guys think of hugging? Are you comfortable with accepting/giving man-hugs or do you think it's gay,un-masculine, or are you uncomfortable about it?
I don't think it looks gay or un-masculine when guys hug. My brother and his friends even wrestle. They go all out too. 🤣 They grab each other's nipples and twist really hard. I've seen what my brother's chest looks like afterwards. It's not pretty. All yellow and green...
But to be honest, I kinda wonder why girls don't wrestle with their friends. I know we hug each other, but there's no playful fights or roughhousing ever. Although I think in sports teams, a lot of the girls tend to be more physically demonstrative. On my tennis team, we shove each other and pull each other back when we're doing laps. Lots of noogies too.

16 years ago
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Titty-twisters hurt. There is nothing gay about those unfortunately.
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16 years ago
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I like hugs..but only with girls! 🤣
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I like hugs..but only with girls! 🤣
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16 years ago
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Question for the guys (and maybe girls too):
Do you ever have crushes on more than one person at a time, and is that normal for you?
Well I havn't experienced that yet. I've always just had one crush and it becomes the focus of all my attention--as in there's no room for another crush, i'm not a stalker 🤣 Once that fades, then i get another crush later on i guess.
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Question for the guys (and maybe girls too):
Do you ever have crushes on more than one person at a time, and is that normal for you?
I only have one person at a time I would like to like more than as a friend.

16 years ago
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Question for the guys (and maybe girls too):
Do you ever have crushes on more than one person at a time, and is that normal for you?
Well that hasn't happen to me before. But my friend is having that problem rite now. She in love with her old boyfriend, her current boyfriend and her soon-to-be Boyfriend. She is really crazy. What I've learn from MANY years of reading shoujo manga is that If you like more then one person then it means that you don't care about their feelings.
What really pisses me of these days is that the words "I love you" has no more special meaning to it.
Question for Both Genders
How long does it take in a relationship to say "I love you" and If someone does say I love you to early will that harm your relationship?

16 years ago
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what if you met a guy on the forums/online, found out that that guy is around the area where you are from, decide to meet (out of curiosity), felt that it was a bit awkward (i guess from both being shy?), never meet again after that (one has to move away because of college) but still talk to the guy on the forums because there are actually a lot of things in common.
q: what if feelings of 'like' develop but you're not sure because you haven't really 'seen' the person a lot? what happens when you know a relationship isn't going to work (because of distance and future goals) even if you're attracted to that person?
sorry, kind of long.
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16 years ago
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What I've learn from MANY years of reading shoujo manga is that If you like more then one person then it means that you don't care about their feelings.
Shoujo manga is there for the drama. I don't think liking more than one person means that you don't care about their feelings. Maybe that might be the case if you're already dating someone and you're feeling the distance, but can't let go of the person and keep stringing him along. But I really doubt that just being attracted to/considering more than one person and weighing your choices = not caring about their feelings. They're just not the same things.
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Question for Both Genders
How long does it take in a relationship to say "I love you" and If someone does say I love you to early will that harm your relationship?
That depends. Probably a few months after dating. If someone says "I love you" to me too early, I don't think that'll harm our relationship. But most likely I'll be confused by it. I would wonder how this person can "love" me when they don't know me all that well yet.

16 years ago
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Question for Both Genders
How long does it take in a relationship to say "I love you" and If someone does say I love you to early will that harm your relationship?
hmm... for me and my girlfriend we said it after 1 month of dating...some might view it as fast but we had known each other since i was 2 and she was 1 so knowing each other for a longer period of time probably helped us to realize this a bit faster than most.
as for the second part it may harm a relationship. i can see one person saying i love you to the other and be completely smashed because the other is unsure of their feelings.
a Question for the ladies:
How would you feel if you were stronger than your significant other?
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16 years ago
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thanks for replying Raeryn. just wanted to know what one would do in that kind of a situation. i don't think anything will come out of it, just a passing fancy.

16 years ago
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a Question for the ladies:
How would you feel if you were stronger than your significant other?
Mentally or physically?
Mentally. Well. That did happen with my relationship. I liked it 😀
I'd want someone who was on par with me though, so we could have good arguments/debates.
Physically. Well, I'd prefer that he be stronger than me so that he can lift me up. I enjoy being lifted~
But I wouldn't really mind if he were physically weaker. I would be with him for his personality, not how much he can lift haha.
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