Quote from rare__hunter

question for girls?
why do girls ask questions during sex? like if u love them? and is the answer always yes or do they want something else?! What are they looking for?

I wouldnt know since I myself am a virgin, but because perhaps we dont want to feel like sluts?

lol i was wondering what would u want to hear replywise?

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I don't know.......if I were a guy and you ask me what kind of girl would I want. I would answer: "the kind of girl that knows my heart, for I don't care if she isn't pretty"

I knew a guy who could have penned those words, and well he was a train wreck. He was ultra-sensitive, codependent, completely lacking in social skills, and borderline creepy. Being his friend was hard enough, I pitied his girlfriend-listening to him whine about that break up and never finding love again was a form of torture.

On some level, I think there's gotta be physical attraction-though granted you could end up more attracted or less attracted to someone as you get to know 'em. I think "knowing the heart" or whatever is just part of the whole getting to know somebody process.

Actually, since I've gotten comments on this a few times, one for the guys: Would any of you not date a girl 'cause she's smarter than you/better than you at lots of things?

Actually, since I've gotten comments on this a few times, one for the guys: Would any of you not date a girl 'cause she's smarter than you/better than you at lots of things?[/quote]

hell no, having a smarter prettier girlfriend is alsome. it might just be hard to impress her or u have to put a lot more thought into her presents and stuff

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I don't know.......if I were a guy and you ask me what kind of girl would I want. I would answer: "the kind of girl that knows my heart, for I don't care if she isn't pretty"

I knew a guy who could have penned those words, and well he was a train wreck. He was ultra-sensitive, codependent, completely lacking in social skills, and borderline creepy. Being his friend was hard enough, I pitied his girlfriend-listening to him whine about that break up and never finding love again was a form of torture.

On some level, I think there's gotta be physical attraction-though granted you could end up more attracted or less attracted to someone as you get to know 'em. I think "knowing the heart" or whatever is just part of the whole getting to know somebody process.

Actually, since I've gotten comments on this a few times, one for the guys: Would any of you not date a girl 'cause she's smarter than you/better than you at lots of things?

Oh My God......that sounds like me! I'm the train wreck, ultra-sensitive, codependent, completely lacking in social skills, and borderline creepy and I whine a lot......Tell me oh great Soothsayer, tell me, will I ever find love?

[color=green]Life, what would it be without so much wrongs and rights?
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[color=red]Star Trek XI http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rZiR-NETDr0[/color]

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Actually, since I've gotten comments on this a few times, one for the guys: Would any of you not date a girl 'cause she's smarter than you/better than you at lots of things?

well if she's arrogant about it then ya, but thats just a personality thing.

If she's really good at a lot of things, i would just be proud that i'm going out with her, but i know there are some guys who are hypersensitive about that type of thing, so i know it happens.

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well if she's arrogant about it then ya, but thats just a personality thing.

Would arrogant fall under the super-confident category....?

I can never tell a difference 😛

rare__hunter, you are obviously new...Do not double (or triple post in your case, or make more than 1 post in a row)

A just ruler amongst tyrants

yea sry don't use forums alot. i ll keep that in mind

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Oh My God......that sounds like me! I'm the train wreck, ultra-sensitive, codependent, completely lacking in social skills, and borderline creepy and I whine a lot......Tell me oh great Soothsayer, tell me, will I ever find love?

laughs Yes, 'cause you obviously don't take yourself too seriously and you seem to actually have some sense. Or some girl will think that you are totally "shoujo hero"ish and fall madly in love with you.

Would arrogant fall under the super-confident category....?

Or just plain knowing things? Like answers to obscure trivia or random scientific theory.

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Oh My God......that sounds like me! I'm the train wreck, ultra-sensitive, codependent, completely lacking in social skills, and borderline creepy and I whine a lot......Tell me oh great Soothsayer, tell me, will I ever find love?

laughs Yes, 'cause you obviously don't take yourself too seriously and you seem to actually have some sense. Or some girl will think that you are totally "shoujo hero"ish and fall madly in love with you.

Girls.....nahh.....didn't get any confession. I got one from a guy.....and he had some really really really disturbing issues. I do wonder, is there such a person whom I could live with, tolerate and understand.

Hey, maybe lamb will join us, I heard he understand the ladies quite well, as being a famous ladies' man himself.

[color=green]Life, what would it be without so much wrongs and rights?
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[color=red]Star Trek XI http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rZiR-NETDr0[/color]

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Would arrogant fall under the super-confident category....?

Or just plain knowing things? Like answers to obscure trivia or random scientific theory.

Like my dad. But thats a bit annoying, so ... i dont think anyone would want that in a lover.... =.=;

Or not? 😮

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I do wonder, is there such a person whom I could live with, tolerate and understand.

I think something like 90% of the human population wonders that.

dont think anyone would want that in a lover....

See Ares, I'm doomed too. I happen to like all the subjects, so I'm very randomly versed in far too many things. It seems that I'm far too much of a geek.

I don't think that's the issue with me.....rather.....a lot of people say I gave off this aura of being gay.....

[color=green]Life, what would it be without so much wrongs and rights?
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[color=red]Star Trek XI http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rZiR-NETDr0[/color]

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I don't think that's the issue with me.....rather.....a lot of people say I gave off this aura of being gay.....

I'd blame the avatar. 😉

I have a friend (different one) who we always joke about being gay 'cause he hits all the stereotypes, but nobody takes it seriously. Any reason why you seem to get it?
shrugs Aside from my bro, most people are really surprised to learn I'm bi* so I've learned to not really pay attention to other peoples readings on those sorts of things.
*Granted, the whole belonging to a strict religious denom is why they tend to be thrown off, but shrugs