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17 years ago
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It's not really the way I act or dress. It's probably because of my somewhat introvert, quite, personality combined with oversensitivity and some of my ideals and thinking that makes me....feminine. Dear God I hope I'm not astray. That would be terrible.
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17 years ago
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Liking someone of the same sex isn't terrible or weird or wrong... at least that's what I think.
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See Ares, I'm doomed too. I happen to like all the subjects, so I'm very randomly versed in far too many things. It seems that I'm far too much of a geek.
Aw, you can never be too geek for a romantic relationship! 🤣 Can you? I <3 geeks~

17 years ago
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well if she's arrogant about it then ya, but thats just a personality thing.
Would arrogant fall under the super-confident category....?
I can never tell a difference 😛
no i like confidence. arrogance would be when she considers herself above most guys (and girls) rather than just being really sure of herself around them which is cool.

17 years ago
Posts: 385
Why Uggs? Seriously, I've asked this so many times and I've yet to get a satisfactory answer.

17 years ago
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Hey, maybe lamb will join us, I heard he understand the ladies quite well, as being a famous ladies' man himself.
Really? Where did you get your info from?...
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17 years ago
Posts: 510
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Why Uggs? Seriously, I've asked this so many times and I've yet to get a satisfactory answer.
My mom wants a pair 'cause they're supposed to be really warm. At my school the spoiled princess type wore 'em, and I guess it became a fashion statement or something. I really don't get Uggs+mini skirt, 'cause that seems counter-productive, but I guess someone thought it looked cool and it spread from there. I guess it's just different looks appeal to different people.

17 years ago
Posts: 1850
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Why Uggs? Seriously, I've asked this so many times and I've yet to get a satisfactory answer.
I guess maybe they're comfortable & warm? ...No wait, that can't be it, we're talking about fashion here. 🤣
I think they're pretty ugly & from what I've seen have lousy traction on the soles - if I'm going to wear something big & clunky, I'm darn well going to get traction along with warmth, because falling on your ass on the ice is not fun. >:-(
Sorry, no real answer here, but then I don't understand most fashion stuff anyway.
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17 years ago
Posts: 107
whoa most of the questions here are for females, are most people here male or is it that females know all about males >.<.
Well anyways, I never knew that the boots are called Uggs, thought they were just called fluffy boots or something 🤣 .

17 years ago
Posts: 1591
y is it that its fine for a guy to sleep with lots of girls , but if a girl does the same thing they're considered a slut?
As if handcuffed, I'm bound to the memories of you...
17 years ago
Posts: 107
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y is it that its fine for a guy to sleep with lots of girls , but if a girl does the same thing they're considered a slut?
eh? I've never heard of that before. . .To me (i'm a guy), i don't think it's weird if i hear that a girl sleeps with other girls. I mean i slept in the same bed as my male friend but that was a sleep-over and he got a cold afterwards in the morning because the windows were open and i was the one near the window! 🤣

17 years ago
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y is it that its fine for a guy to sleep with lots of girls , but if a girl does the same thing they're considered a slut?
eh? I've never heard of that before. . .To me (i'm a guy), i don't think it's weird if i hear that a girl sleeps with other girls. I mean i slept in the same bed as my male friend but that was a sleep-over and he got a cold afterwards in the morning because the windows were open and i was the one near the window! 🤣
i meant it as in if a guy has sex with a girl....>_> and a girl having sex with a guy...(this is still PG ritee??)
As if handcuffed, I'm bound to the memories of you...

17 years ago
Posts: 481
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y is it that its fine for a guy to sleep with lots of girls , but if a girl does the same thing they're considered a slut?
eh? I've never heard of that before. . .To me (i'm a guy), i don't think it's weird if i hear that a girl sleeps with other girls. I mean i slept in the same bed as my male friend but that was a sleep-over and he got a cold afterwards in the morning because the windows were open and i was the one near the window! 🤣
Erm... i think you got the wrong idea... he meant if a girl sleeps with many guys...
Erm i have no idea why, i guess they are just seen as "Loose" and in our generation its "Cool" for guys to do that? thats the best answer i can come up with.
ED: I'll add a question.
How do you know if a girl likes you?

17 years ago
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y is it that its fine for a guy to sleep with lots of girls , but if a girl does the same thing they're considered a slut?
eh? I've never heard of that before. . .To me (i'm a guy), i don't think it's weird if i hear that a girl sleeps with other girls. I mean i slept in the same bed as my male friend but that was a sleep-over and he got a cold afterwards in the morning because the windows were open and i was the one near the window! 🤣
Erm... i think you got the wrong idea... he meant if a girl sleeps with many guys...
Erm i have no idea why, i guess they are just seen as "Loose" and in our generation its "Cool" for guys to do that? thats the best answer i can come up with.
damn double standards T-T
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17 years ago
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whoa most of the questions here are for females, are most people here male or is it that females know all about males >.<.
Well anyways, I never knew that the boots are called Uggs, thought they were just called fluffy boots or something 🤣 .
Probably both, I'd rant about how guys in general (and yes I'm a dude) are easier to understand then most women, but frankly woman are pretty easy to understand aswell (for the most part).
Oh, and Tachu simple answer is there is no definative way to tell if a girl likes you, just go on gut instinct (hasn't failed me yet)(btw since im a guy mby I shouldn't be answering this question?). If I had to think about all the stuff that could tip you off besides that, try paying attention to what they say, trust me most of the time there will be some major hints in either the subjects they direct the conversation to, how they talk to you, or the way they respond to what you say (for example if they seem amused by stuff you say, that lets face it guys, just isn't funny).
At the end of the day, who really cares though? I mean unless your interested in the person it is fairly irrelivent, and if you are intested just ask them out, no point spending forever trying to figure out if they like you (Trust me even if you do get rejected, it is a hell of a lot better then brooding over if they like you or not)
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17 years ago
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Oh My God......that sounds like me! I'm the train wreck, ultra-sensitive, codependent, completely lacking in social skills, and borderline creepy and I whine a lot......Tell me oh great Soothsayer, tell me, will I ever find love?
Hm. I've known several guys who were oversensitive, and they seem to cycle through girlfriends a lot...
This one guy I knew, every time a girl broke up with him, he'd rant to me about how heartbroken he was, and then a week later, he'd hook up with another girl =.=;;
Needless to say, I was a bit =.=+
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Actually, since I've gotten comments on this a few times, one for the guys: Would any of you not date a girl 'cause she's smarter than you/better than you at lots of things?
I really wonder about that too... I'm a physics major, so whenever I visit home, I get excited and tell my mom about all this amazing stuff I learn from school. But she tells me to stop talking about it or else I'll never get married because guys don't like girls being "smarter" than them? (I'm not smart at all though! >.<! I just like the subject!)
Oh. Although I did know a few guys who had a bit of an inferiority complex because their girlfriends seemed to figure out things faster than them. They tried not to show it, but they were kinda bummed on the inside...
Oh and Tachu, I can't help you there >.< I'm pretty dense about those things too. My best friends liked to lead on guys even though they had no interest in them. So even though they it seems like they like you, they might not actually have any interest?