There is a guy in my class who i really hate he happens to be one of the most popular people in my year level. Since the start of the year he has been picking on me for no reason i can deduce but i have ignored it as the bullying was relatively petty. Today he said something made a very stupid insult and i pointed it out.
He spat in my face...
Im pretty pissed off right now and i am thinking of doing something in revenge preferably something that he would be unable to figure out who the culprit was.
I am looking for suggestions for the best way to pay back this person or suggestions for how to deal with it.

Also telling the teacher or something is not an option as its pretty obvious what will happen. The teacher will scold him and force him to apologize and nothing else will result. The bullying will just get worse.

:-(

Since I have never been bullied i don't exactly know what the right thing to do would be though I know that telling your teacher isn't something you should do because well it doesn't resolve much plus well its all about something happening between students and should be resolved by students so good decision in that aspect. Anyways if someone did spit on my face I would just scrap him out right there and then, I am guessing you are a guy...?? So if someone spat on my face I would just scrap him out right there and then, doesn't matter whether I lose or not but when someone spits on your face you try to beat the shit out of him!! As long as you get a few hits on him while still losing he probably won't bully you again because he would know that bullying you=a certain amount of pain. I guess the reasonable thing to do would be to talk it out with him but if someone spat on my face I wouldn't give a shit about his reasons. If you do something where he doesn't know who the culpit is I don't think he will stop bullying you.

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the problem was
A) im really weak i probably would have been headlocked or something
B) He did it when we were doing PE in the weights room (compulsory course) and it was the 2nd room with only 3-4 ppl and no teacher

hmm and the other people stood there? Basically if you do something which results in his humiliation, yes there will be some self satisfaction on your part BUT the problem won't be solved, it will probably not stop him from bullying you. If you don't want to fight or don't think you can land a few hits on him, then what about your mates? Have you talked to them about this problem?

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Stop being weak and kick his ass.

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Stop being weak and kick his ass.

damn i was trying to be polite but yea thats basically it. Even if u get hurt it will be totally worth it!!

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My sisters and brother used to help me out. If you don't have that option and don't think telling your parents would help you might have to fight him. Maybe aim for his balls or something and get in a cheap hit. Though..I dunno what kind of person he is. That might make him want revenge. 😔

The other people in the room were pretty much either not paying attention or didn't care i only transfered to the school this year so im still making friends. I only have 2 friends in my class at the moment and the only suggestion they could make was just to avoid him as much as possible.

I dont want to get into a fight with him because im pretty sure him and his "cronies" will be able to do much more than my few friends and i don't think attacking him directly will fix nothing unless we manage to beat them which is highly unlikely T-T

Im hoping that violence isn't my only option but from what people are saying it seems it's the only option T-T
Im considering doing something cheap like kicking him in the balls like Whatever suggested but i dont know if that would cause more problems...

_<.....That might feel good..revenge-wise. But I dunno. Especially if he has other guys w/ him and stuff. It could lead to a bigger mess. If it's really serious you should probably tell someone.

Throw a rock at his window

Depends on the bully I guess. Violence might not be the right course of action (specially if you're that weak as you say you are, you should work on that, btw.) as he'll most likely want to 'preserve' his image and that would involve him harassing you even more. Ignoring is probably the best option.

Or you could grow balls (you could even carry a baseball bat and hit/break something (not someone), that can look like making a statement), but that would probably make your school life a bit hellish for some time. It would be a good thing in the long run, though. Think of it as gaining life experience. And don't forget, there's life after school.

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Find out his weak points and stab them hard, really hard. Unless you're really good at attacking + defending, aim for a "killing blow".

Screw him over from behind the back and then make him be penalized for something that could have him suspended from school(temporarily or permanently). After all, he's likely screwed over many others and if you don't take care of the problem, it could get far worse. You don't want to end up being forced to obtain drugs, guns and goodness knows what, do you? It could be things like hacking into the school network, activities that are in severe violation of the school rules or even criminal juvenile law and so on.

If you want to do things even more cruelly, make sure that someone else becomes the fall guy and preferably, perhaps it could be one of that guy's cronies.

And make sure you don't get caught for doing it. 😛

I don't think revenge is a good idea. If you do it openly, he will start bullying you even more and you will regret it. If you want to do it "that he would be unable to figure out who the culprit was"... sorry, but only cowards do such things. And it won't solve your problem.

Being bullied is basically a question of attitude. I'm a girl, I'm quite weak, I had good grades at school - but I've never been bullied in my life. And my friend, who was good at sports etc was bullied a lot. I was wondering - what was the difference? Once I asked one of the bullies why they never tried beating me up, and he said that I look like a person who wouldn't accept such things being done to her. And he was probably right - if someone spat in my face I would become furious. Some boy did it when I was three or four years old and I threw a handful of sand in his eyes. He regretted it.

So, if you are bullied, you probably look like a person who accepts being bullied. You just have to show that you won't put up with this any longer. You have to get angry and show him that he won't like you when you are angry 😉 And I'm not talking about simple shouting and waving hands, I'm talking about real fury.

Oh, and don't kick him in the balls. Cheap tricks are cowardly and would probably make him bully you even more.

One of my teachers in highschool told us a story once about when he was in school. He was the only white kid, so on "kill haole day" they'd beat him up. So, he kicked the toughest of them in the nuts. I forget the end, but they either became friends, he stopped getting beat up, or both. Regardless, they stopped beating him up.
Personally, in P.E, there was this one kid who was kinda annoying. Just generally being an asshole. One day, we were running, he was mimicking me, and I punched him in the side of the jaw. If the teacher saw she didn't care, the kid just sorta laughed and shrugged it off. After that he stopped bothering me. and since you mentioned being weak, so am I, but it didn't seem to make much of a difference.
Hope either of those was helpful. (although I should probly mention I went to highschool in Hawaii [so did my teacher] and things work sorta differently here)

bro seriously violence is the best option, you gotta scrap it out with him seriously, yes you will probably get hurt but atleast he will get some pain back and as someone said if you just accept being bullied nothing will change and things like throwing rocks at his windows or doing things where he doesn't know who did it won't solve the problem. Maybe you should do some weights training build up your confidence and then scrap it out. Or if you are really smart you could go all psychological, find out his weak points, and slowly chip away at him but that is quite unrealistic unless you are really into getting revenge and making him pay as much as possible. Seriously just man up, next time he bullies you don't just retort verbally, do something physical, grap a pole, or something and hit him at the stomach or legs not the balls though and not the head, don't wanna potentially kill him. I hope you can solve this problem bro and I think you can only do this by manning up.

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