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Don't look so good. "tell a teacher" smurk.

What a stupid advice. Why don't you just tell your mother. At least she probably believes you without even hearing the other person's point of view. Then you can hide behind her when she goes tell the bully's mother and watch as the bully gets scolded by his own mother.
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Man....that was sarcasm...do you think at all? Tell your mother? That only works with kinder-garden children. Most of the parents with kids like that don't really care.

Thanks, you made me laugh (almost).

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There is a guy in my class who i really hate he happens to be one of the most popular people in my year level. Since the start of the year he has been picking on me for no reason i can deduce but i have ignored it as the bullying was relatively petty. Today he said something made a very stupid insult and i pointed it out.
He spat in my face...
Im pretty pissed off right now and i am thinking of doing something in revenge preferably something that he would be unable to figure out who the culprit was.
I am looking for suggestions for the best way to pay back this person or suggestions for how to deal with it.

Also telling the teacher or something is not an option as its pretty obvious what will happen. The teacher will scold him and force him to apologize and nothing else will result. The bullying will just get worse.
>:-(

Obvious plot: build some strength (if you dont have atm), then at the right moment (the moment of the n-th bullying episode), beat him to a pulp, preferably in front of others. Other option, beating him in a place where only the two of you are, this time, with noone to testify against you, you can easily send him to hospital for some months.

This is the only known method apart the haaaaaard work of entering his circle of friends to stop bullies: prove you wont be passive, you wont be a toy he can break at leisure.
With intelligent people, use words: with stupid+aggressive people, use fear.
Consider that youre doing a good thing, youre correcting his behaviour in place of his parents.

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Edit: noticed you said youre "weak": well, a normal punch (preferably open palm) in to the solar plexus will make anyone get on his knees->kick afterwards at your own discretion (=stop when youre tired). Make use of knees or elbows, theyre blunt/sharp instruments given to anyone, weak or strong. If you dont mind going a lil Pulp Fiction, even a light headbutt on the nose does the trick.

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That's known as a "coin".

Oh, thanks. Too much D&D.

ok bro first thing you gota do is tell your parents and teacher that aint gona do a damn thing so hes gona pick on you some more when he does pull out some mace (not medieval mace, pepper spray) and say welcome to the era of technology bich come near me again and itll be something else. no matter how many freinds he got they cant hurt you if they cant see and when the teachers give you sht about using a weapon tell them that this sht has been occurrring for a while and going to the "supperiors" only escalated the situations and did not help you 1 bit, therefore you defended youself in a calm non lethal manner wich garunteed the best rusults for everyone involve including the assailant. problem solved you might get suspended but just make a big controversy on how the school was ignoring the bullying. bottom line if no one helps gota do it yourself just be smart dont get hurt hope my lil rambling helps 😀

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ok bro first thing you gota do is tell your parents and teacher that aint gona do a damn thing so hes gona pick on you some more when he does pull out some mace (not medieval mace, pepper spray) and say welcome to the era of technology bich come near me again and itll be something else. no matter how many freinds he got they cant hurt you if they cant see and when the teachers give you sht about using a weapon tell them that this sht has been occurrring for a while and going to the "supperiors" only escalated the situations and did not help you 1 bit, therefore you defended youself in a calm non lethal manner wich garunteed the best rusults for everyone involve including the assailant. problem solved you might get suspended but just make a big controversy on how the school was ignoring the bullying. bottom line if no one helps gota do it yourself just be smart dont get hurt hope my lil rambling helps 😀

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SNNNIIIIIITCCCCH (Snitch)
They can get suspended for that shit.
Or you can go to the police cause that is harassment.

If the bullying gets worse? Just continue to tell on him.
I did it all through highschool and I SAVED my ass from being whooped plenty-o-times and people just thought it was funny. My friends were still my friends. And people who hated me still hate me.

Good job for punching him though. WIN
If you're in elementary school or middle school bullying can be rough but in high school its just meh.

You're supposed to take care of it yourself. Though if it's boys bullying a girl, then it's different.

Why is it "just meh" in high school? I know two people (not personally) who've tried suicide because of bullying, the other one succeeded, the other one had something wrong with his head from the start so of course he failed something so simple, I don't know where he's now, but apparently he's not crazy anymore (though I doubt it's possible for a human being not to be).

You can't reason with a bully so why should I bother? You CAN'T take care of it yourself and thats why its considered bullying.

And I said its meh in Highschool because High school has so many more people and you are bound to make at LEAST a few friends; and that gives you confidence. Plus you have different classes/lunches ect. so you don't have to see the same people everyday for four years. In elementary school I was stuck with the same bullies in the same class for EIGHT YEARS. You can't get away from that. I wanted to kill myself because of bullying in Elementary school (Catholic School systems in Canada go from kindergarten to grade 8) not high school.

Who CARES if people think you're a snitch? Do you really need approval from people who already hate you?

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Stop being weak and kick his ass.

damn i was trying to be polite but yea thats basically it. Even if u get hurt it will be totally worth it!!

I was bullied from first to eight grade(have no idea how this translates to the USA school standard). They only stopped when I punched one of them. Hard. On the neck. Most satisfying feeling ever.

So, yeah, that work sometimes.

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Don't look so good. "tell a teacher" smurk.

What a stupid advice. Why don't you just tell your mother. At least she probably believes you without even hearing the other person's point of view. Then you can hide behind her when she goes tell the bully's mother and watch as the bully gets scolded by his own mother.
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Man....that was sarcasm...do you think at all? Tell your mother? That only works with kinder-garden children. Most of the parents with kids like that don't really care.

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What a smug wiff of air you present. Perhaps you should learn to phrase your things better if you are going to be smug about it.

Come now, i will give you lessons on how to use sarcasm... 😮

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Never been bullied, growing up I was known for having a huge temper if irked off; would fight several people and be quite vicious doing so. I had a lot of fights when I was younger, with groups of boys older and younger. It does show people where you stand so a lot do not try anything, but it can also lead to you getting in trouble.
It is not so bad when you are young but as you get older you have to realize that the danger and repercussions escalates.

Simple answer is you learn to fight just in case, but you report it. Reporting him shows that there are consequences for his actions. Violence should not be your first resolution, if you get into the habit of that you will only have dealings on the wrong side of the law.

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It sounds like a society in some dystopian novel. Where exactly did you grow up?

Just your typical closed society where xenophobia and a lot of other crap went on. 😛 Just like some of those Eastern European countries which went into "near or total isolation-mode". You can't exactly say that most of them were very friendly to outsiders when they'd started to open up. 🙂

Only differences were that my country had Confucius and other sort of Asian value systems they adopted and abided by. That's all.

Politics-wise, my country might be a bit of a dystopia but it's a not really as bad as living in North Korea. The reports that come out of that place... seriously give me chills.

Don't run away. You don't need to resort to violence, but give away no signs of any emotions you have.

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It sounds like a society in some dystopian novel. Where exactly did you grow up?

Just your typical closed society where xenophobia and a lot of other crap went on. 😛 Just like some of those Eastern European countries which went into "near or total isolation-mode". You can't exactly say that most of them were very friendly to outsiders when they'd started to open up. 🙂

Only differences were that my country had Confucius and other sort of Asian value systems they adopted and abided by. That's all.

Politics-wise, my country might be a bit of a dystopia but it's a not really as bad as living in North Korea. The reports that come out of that place... seriously give me chills.

what country are you talking about? Vietnam? Laos? Malaysia?

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You can't reason with a bully so why should I bother? You CAN'T take care of it yourself and thats why its considered bullying.

If you can't take care of it, doesn't that mean you're too weak or a coward? If you decide you can't handle it yourself and need other person's help, there's no need to justify yourself by saying that there's nothing that can be done. If you're weak (or a coward) then you need another person's help, right? But to think that it was the only way is just lying to yourself.

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And I said its meh in Highschool because High school has so many more people and you are bound to make at LEAST a few friends; and that gives you confidence. Plus you have different classes/lunches ect. so you don't have to see the same people everyday for four years. In elementary school I was stuck with the same bullies in the same class for EIGHT YEARS. You can't get away from that. I wanted to kill myself because of bullying in Elementary school (Catholic School systems in Canada go from kindergarten to grade 8) not high school.

Just because you made friends in high school, it doesn't mean that everyone does. I think you have very limited view of what high school could be like. At many places high school is three years, and you have to have at least some same classes (besides, why gets bullied during a class?). You should consider that there are different kinds of schools and different kinds of peoples and cultures, and not everywhere it's the same as where you went to school.

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Who CARES if people think you're a snitch? Do you really need approval from people who already hate you?

You don't need to justify yourself to others, but you need to be able to accept that it's cowardice. Most of all people need to justify their acts to themselves. I think you should just do what you think is right no matter how hard it feels and you don't need to justify yourself anyone, not even yourself.

Also, if someone hates you, maybe you should ask yourself why they hate you. Even if the reason is stupid, there's always a reason—people don't hate people for no reason (though it's usually a very stupid reason).

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What a smug wiff of air you present. Perhaps you should learn to phrase your things better if you are going to be smug about it.

Perhaps it's just that you want to think I "present smug wiff of air" (whatever that is). Perhaps it's no more smug that you asking me if I think at all. Perhaps there's infinite amount of other possibilities. Perhaps you should think so negatively.

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Come now, i will give you lessons on how to use sarcasm... 😮

I have no desire to learn to use ridiculing sarcasm (the most common one these days), sarcasm to point out faults is good enough for me.

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It sounds like a society in some dystopian novel. Where exactly did you grow up?

Just your typical closed society where xenophobia and a lot of other crap went on. 😛 Just like some of those Eastern European countries which went into "near or total isolation-mode". You can't exactly say that most of them were very friendly to outsiders when they'd started to open up. 🙂

Only differences were that my country had Confucius and other sort of Asian value systems they adopted and abided by. That's all.

Politics-wise, my country might be a bit of a dystopia but it's a not really as bad as living in North Korea. The reports that come out of that place... seriously give me chills.

Oh okay, I think I understand. But wait, Confucius teaches that kind of things? (Sorry, just had to ask it) I can't say much about North Korea because I've never been there, and I don't think I'm going to judge them based on biased reports by people of another society that likely doesn't understand theirs (be it good or bad—North Korea that is).

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Be the better man and......ATTACK HIM!!! seriously the guy needs to respect u, it might be cuz ur silent hes picking on u, nd anyway the guy must have serious issues ¬¬
Good Luck, hope the bullying stops 🙂

@BoxBox: just some country, yeah? 🙂 I want to protect my own privacy. And crap... did I really bring the thread off-topic. -__-;;; Oops! 😛

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@BoxBox: just some country, yeah? 🙂 I want to protect my own privacy. And crap... did I really bring the thread off-topic. -__-;;; Oops! 😛

.....no one is going to find out who you are if you tell them your country....unless it's one of those tiny places where there's only 1000 people.......oh I see. 🤣

Wait....is it Taiwan?[The place that gone rogue from Mainland China lol]

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