does anyone know of a manga that is like ouran highschool host club, lovely complex, perfect girl evolution, Othello, Akuma to Love Song, or any GREAT manga that doesnt include the following.........

not to many girls/boys falling in love with the main character and that they all have a special time being with the main character(moe kare, to love-ru, etc. its not that i dont like them, its just that im getting tired of seeing the same thing happen over and over again.oh and im a negima fan though, somehow. and i do read love ru, in specific chapters.), ONLY if they have to get to spend a special time with the main character that im not intrested in...
oh and conceited main characters is a NO. or main characters that are dumb(personality) yet are so popular......mainly a main character that gets everything.
cutie cutie main characters too...please i want a strong lead. not some character thats alway about to or will cry and blame herself for everything...i want something that would be unique... not boring and has a lot of chapters......
its better if the main character goes through difficult times. i like "a diamond underneath the ruble as its being formed to its beautiful self" yeah~ 😀

Special A
Nodame Cantabile HIGHLY SUGGESTED!!!
Tenshi Ja Nai! sure... 😛
Mars HIGHLY SUGGESTED
Paradise Kiss SUGGESTED!! 😛

(I only skimmed ur huge paragraph, sorry if i got something wrong)

Oh, but in Para Kiss, Yukari cries a lot sort of. But I guess it all fits in.
Try these:

Gokinjo Monogatari
Tenshi Nanka Ja Nai
Guru Guru Pon-chan
Ageha 100%
Cheon Gi Dot Com (manwha)
Chocolate Cosmos
H20
Koibana! Koiseyo Hanabi
Mademoiselle Butterfly
Suki Nante Ienai
Venus Capriccio

yeah, ditto. sorry if i get something wrong because i only briefly
read your ohsodescriptive paragraph.

🤣 its alright if you guys skimmed, i wouldnt read all that too if it were me. i just felt like typing all that. i think i was asking too much....though i dont regret it. 😀 thanks for your suggestions! hope theres more!!!