I remember replying to this thread. When I read my post, I was just like... Uh... Who was I talking about? And then I remembered...

I still like him... But... It's April now, and I'm going to graduate and it's just... Nothing will happen...

God. I've liked him since 7th grade. Jesus Christ... >___>;;;

I think (I hope) no one knows I like him... Though, I did used to say how much I hate him... And now I'm just like... "I like him and all.. But he's such a jackass!"

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Kind of I guess. I wouldn't call it love though. I rarely have romantic interests in people and when I do it doesn't last long.

Ugh. >.>

Hmm... I had a one sided love from 1st to 7th grade. I told him that I liked him but he gave no response. (This was when I was in 1st grade) After that we were still friends until about 7th grade when our class was separated. After this we kind of stopped talking. Three years later I started going out with a guy who turned out to be his cousin!! Weird huh?

well I only had one two-sided love -_- and that was more of a crush... I've had crushes on more guys than I can count but never really took action... I don't know if I've loved anyone before I don't think so because you would know right? Well I'm still young anything can happen 🙄 (almost 18)

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I guess I have a one-sided love right now, since I started really liking this one boy, it's only been about a year, so it's not as long as the others that have posted. but I really like him, and of course he hasn't even realized. I feel all messed up when he's with this one girl, and there like always together....I don't want to ask anyone if they're going out, 'cuz then they'll probably know I like him, and I don't want that.....but I really hope that they're not going out, man I'm mean, I hope they're just friends

I've never really had a one sided love. I have never really loved someone. Sure, maybe the people I see they are admirable and people I could fall in love with. But, I have this habit of criticizing everything, I want perfection when I know it's impossible. I have loved people for their one trait, but never as a whole.

And even if I know that I could love this person, I supress these feelings. It's so easy for me to turn a blind eye to them. I know love can be painful, and being the coward I am, I am afraid to love.

But I suppose that has to do with my cold personality. It's life I guess.

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i like a guy 2 years younger.. which isnt that much of a difference if you think about it.. and i thought for a while that he liked me back.. but know i'm getting the feeling that he only likes me as his friend. and it should probably stay that way. (im in 11th grade, and hes in 9th..)

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just enough to make us dangerous."

Because the world needs more babies in trenchcoats.

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Dunno. I've only had one crush before. I was in Kindergarten. Looking back on it, he might have liked me, or thought I was a dope (I still don't know which one.). I don't remember. Doesn't matter anyway, though.

Does the walker choose the path, or the path the walker?

Well, I liked this one guy for a few years, then another, then one more (beginning of last year) then I realized that CRUSHES SUCK!!!!! so I gave up and I havent had one since. 🙂

not worrying about guys has made life easier...so far...

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Ahhh...one-sided loves. The story of my life.

...mostly because I never confess. ^^;

Same with me...
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TT__TT

I had a one-sided love for a little over eight or so years... Thinking about it now still wrenches my heart...

He was one of my very best friends/classmates/neighbours and we used to play together all the time, this was way back in the third grade before I even knew the meaning of love~
I don't know when it started, but at one point, I discovered that I was thinking about him all the time and I came to accept that I'd fallen in love shocking revelation
Weird as it was to me I kept it to myself, since I wasn't sure how to express such feelings...
So we continued to play together as normal, and all was well and good... until he moved away... he moved away several times around the neighbourhood actually, each time a little further away... everytime he moved I cried a little.. but he never moved far enough to go to a different school~ yay!
Even so, because he moved, he was too far away for me (a little girl with over protective parents) to play with... and so we drifted apart, juuust a little... we were still in the same class and we still played together at school, so I was happy
After graduating from elementary school, however, we drifted more and more... In middle school we had no classes together and hardly saw each other... so although we were still on good terms with each other we weren't as close...
We each made new friends and eventually through friends of friends we all became a close-knit circle of friends and started hanging out again... Though, within this circle many started developing crushes on one another... (thinking back it was somewhat chaotic, but anyways) Somehow I became the go to person for relationship advice... for some of the guys and the girls... <why me, who knows?>... I didn't particularly mind... though that made it hard for me to find some one to talk to about my feelings (what about me?! TT___TT<---inner thoughts) well at that time I didn't think that, but I should have...
It was mostly the girls who came to me for advice... and well it turns out that apparently my first love was very popular... (who would've thunk it D=)...
Popular as he was, he went through many short-lasting relationships... (not saying none were long-lasting or that he's a player or anything)... but over quite some time, he went out with many different girls... most of which included my very close friends... it hurt a lot every time they came to me for advice.. and each time I buried my feelings for my first love a little bit deeper...
Because he had gone out with my friends, I couldn't find the right time to confess to him.. and tried harder to just relinquish my feelings 🤢 ... i tried
But I continued to have feelings for him through high school, even as he became more and more distant as he became more and more popular... he was still incredibly nice to me, just we didn't hang out together anymore... it was more bittersweet than painful...
Eventually I found it in myself to talk to one of my friends about it, and I told her how I felt about him (it was refreshing lol xD)... but even so.. I never had the courage to act on my feelings... especially since I hardly had the chance to see him...
Some time later, my friend who I talked to came to me and told me that she liked my first love and that he liked her back... and she asked me if it was okay if they went out...

@#$$#%#^ <--- 😕 ??

I said it was okay with me, since they both liked each other and turned off my brain~.... 😀
Okay no, seriously I was hurt beyond words but sent them off seemingly happily...
(was I happy? maybe... about 0.1% : 99.9% mixed feelings)

At that point I was angry with myself and decidedly etched into my mind that "first loves are never fruitful"-"so dismiss all feelings NOW!"

If only the heart could controlled so easily..... xD

Even so, I tried to think rationally about it... It was a long one-sided love.. was it love? or just a disillusioned crush... I liked him for a long time.. till just about the end of high school where I re-evaluated my feelings and realized that as time passed and we drifted the person i loved has changed into some one very different... eventually i realized i should probably stop loving the boy of my past...

(I think i was happy enough with that conclusion to move on)

but even now i wonder, if i'm truly over him...

either way i'll probably remember him forever, as a friend and as my first love... probably

---edit OMFG thats so long?!! O_O... lol ^^' i'm so sorry

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..... Ummm how do you confirm you like someone?

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..... Ummm how do you confirm you like someone?

I'd say there are many different kinds of liking someone
and that as long as that person is special to you, it can lead to truly loving them

confirming it... probably would be best to compare time you think about them, how special they are compared to other important and special things...

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Story of my life, and when they did have feelings for me, something bad happened and we got separated.

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Story of my life, and when they did have feelings for me, something bad happened and we got separated.

That happened alot to me also, so I just gave up on trying to love other people.

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..... Ummm how do you confirm you like someone?

I'd say there are many different kinds of liking someone
and that as long as that person is special to you, it can lead to truly loving them

confirming it... probably would be best to compare time you think about them, how special they are compared to other important and special things...

True, Just that I always think of everyone equally so i can be a critic 😛
But seriously thinking things through over and over really not my style i'm a straight forward guy and i know it is something that quite important. Just how do i differentiate between admired or this person is really fun or someone who is really close or similar!!! it just get confusing so i just befriend them and be kind to all 🤢

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