THe title says it all but please no smut/boyxboy
P.S can it be shoujo and it dosen't have to be gender bender (supernatral is fine 😛 )

click a lot of threads mentioned.

Sorry, I misread your request.
But you can try : genderbender+romance+shoujo

Hrodulf and Bjornolfr, you will not be forgotten.
[img]http://i411.photobucket.com/albums/pp199/SyberAngelGabrielle/couplesig.jpg[/img]
[color=black]And if the world were black and white,
you would be my rainbow in shades of grey.[/color]

Click 'n Play!

If I had a fantasy self, it'd be a tentacle monster.

At the moment I can only think of Operation Liberate Men.
It's a good manhwa....and although the way the chapters are...it might confuse you.

"Beware How You Take Hope From Another Man."

Destination Heaven Chronicles is all that comes to mind, but I see you're already reading that.

If you've ever thought or said "Nice Guys finish last" and really meant it, then you should probably read this LJ post by DivaLion. It's incredibly insightful whether you're male or female.

From a bumper sticker I like:
"If you're gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair."

Manhwa: Gender Bender + Romance = Search Engine.

Those are all the titles with your preference in the entire MU database.

These threads might help as well: 01, 02, 03, 04.

I'd personally recommend~ (:
Legend Of Nereid
Chiro Star Project
Sarasah
Saver