Having a baby..

17 years ago
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Children scare me actually.....dunno why?
me too. i was at the gym and i suddenly looked behind me and there was this kid pressed up against the glass staring at me. i was like shit!
a freind of mine had just had a child and at the moment he only gets 2 hours of sleep!! thats enought to put me off! also, im too lazy and just get by taking care of myself, let alone someone else 😔

17 years ago
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Quote from Kittycat101
Children scare me actually.....dunno why?
me too. i was at the gym and i suddenly looked behind me and there was this kid pressed up against the glass staring at me. i was like shit!
a freind of mine had just had a child and at the moment he only gets 2 hours of sleep!! thats enought to put me off! also, im too lazy and just get by taking care of myself, let alone someone else 😔
🤣 I love kids. They're awesome. But having a boy would be awesome. I've been around guys most my life so that might be the reason why. But, also, little boys just crack me up. Most of my buddies that have kids have boys.. and they are the cutest damn things ever. Not to mention hilarious. Even at 3 years old, they're total boob grabbing, motorboating ladies men. 🤣 Sadly, I'd probably teach my kid that too. 😐
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17 years ago
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Children scare me too. I'm usually afraid I will step on them or something. Same goes for the LPs.

17 years ago
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Getting married or having a baby are not really To-Do-list in my life..but I personally believe that giving birth and breastfeeding are the most natural thing in the world.
My aunt has loads of children and I once asked how it feels to constantly Giving Birth to loads of children! And she simply replied "It hurts a lot but once you see the Baby, all your pains will 'magically' go away"
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17 years ago
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how come theres no "both" choice... i want both~
altho nowadays children annoy me.... maybe cuz i have to deal with them so often these days... >.<
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My aunt has loads of children and I once asked how it feels to constantly Giving Birth to loads of children! And she simply replied "It hurts a lot but once you see the Baby, all your pains will 'magically' go away"
Yeah, that's what people I've talked to told me. I'm afraid of giving birth, too but I'm sure I'll feel the same way as those mothers. 🙂
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17 years ago
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Don't really like children, and I don't really have any hope of ever finding anyone for me. But if that would ever happen and we'd want to get kids, I'd probably want a girl.
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Sure, other's kids can be cute, but personally I would not want to have kids... Seems like you stop living your own life and only live for your children. Not to mention that our world is already overpopulated... I'm not sure I would want to bring children into this world with global warming, wars, famines, aids, etc.
Edit: If I by any chance I decided to have a baby though, I would never want to have a natural birth. It seems to hurt like hell and I've also heard that most women excretes during it...
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17 years ago
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Getting married or having a baby are not really To-Do-list in my life..but I personally believe that giving birth and breastfeeding are the most natural thing in the world.
My aunt has loads of children and I once asked how it feels to constantly Giving Birth to loads of children! And she simply replied "It hurts a lot but once you see the Baby, all your pains will 'magically' go away"
That't a lie! 🤣 All you get is more pain, and more pain and more pain until they grow up and get a family and a good job. It's a never ending pain.
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this is not about cannibalism...please get back on topic
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I think it is exactly the topic. I see nothing wrong.
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Getting married or having a baby are not really To-Do-list in my life..but I personally believe that giving birth and breastfeeding are the most natural thing in the world.
My aunt has loads of children and I once asked how it feels to constantly Giving Birth to loads of children! And she simply replied "It hurts a lot but once you see the Baby, all your pains will 'magically' go away"
That't a lie! 🤣 All you get is more pain, and more pain and more pain until they grow up and get a family and a good job. It's a never ending pain.
Expected way of answering from somebody who really does not
have any children. Women that have never given birth
are usually afraid of it, but I've never ever met a woman
who never wants to have more kids due to the birthing.

17 years ago
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I want children and I want a career in physics research ;_;

17 years ago
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I can't answer for the pain involved in natural childbirth because mine were born by planned c-section (never even went into labor) but I do know women who have done it more than once (my mom twice, my step-mom three times) so it can't be too terrible for everyone.
However...sleep deprivation DOES cause memory loss, and the first weeks/months with a baby definitely involve sleep deprivation, so maybe we all just forget...? 🤣
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17 years ago
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Getting married or having a baby are not really To-Do-list in my life..but I personally believe that giving birth and breastfeeding are the most natural thing in the world.
My aunt has loads of children and I once asked how it feels to constantly Giving Birth to loads of children! And she simply replied [i]"It hurts a lot but once you see the Baby, all your pains will 'magically' go away"[/i]
That't a lie! 🤣 All you get is more pain, and more pain and more pain until they grow up and get a family and a good job. It's a never ending pain.
Expected way of answering from somebody who really does not
have any children. Women that have never given birth
are usually afraid of it, but I've never ever met a woman
who never wants to have more kids due to the birthing.
hahaha, I'm a guy and you are a guy. So you can't say anything about my comment. 🤣
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this is not about cannibalism...please get back on topic
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I think it is exactly the topic. I see nothing wrong.

17 years ago
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[quote=Hermit-chan]Getting married or having a baby are not really To-Do-list in my life..but I personally believe that giving birth and breastfeeding are the most natural thing in the world.
My aunt has loads of children and I once asked how it feels to constantly Giving Birth to loads of children! And she simply replied [i]"It hurts a lot but once you see the Baby, all your pains will 'magically' go away"[/i]
That't a lie! 🤣 All you get is more pain, and more pain and more pain until they grow up and get a family and a good job. It's a never ending pain.
Expected way of answering from somebody who really does not
have any children. Women that have never given birth
are usually afraid of it, but I've never ever met a woman
who never wants to have more kids due to the birthing.
hahaha, I'm a guy and you are a guy. So you can't say anything about my comment. 🤣 [/quote]
it is not about being a girl or a guy. it is about observations. and i second mams.

17 years ago
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[quote=Savantsage][quote=Hermit-chan]Getting married or having a baby are not really To-Do-list in my life..but I personally believe that giving birth and breastfeeding are the most natural thing in the world.
My aunt has loads of children and I once asked how it feels to constantly Giving Birth to loads of children! And she simply replied [i]"It hurts a lot but once you see the Baby, all your pains will 'magically' go away"[/i]
That't a lie! 🤣 All you get is more pain, and more pain and more pain until they grow up and get a family and a good job. It's a never ending pain.
Expected way of answering from somebody who really does not
have any children. Women that have never given birth
are usually afraid of it, but I've never ever met a woman
who never wants to have more kids due to the birthing.
hahaha, I'm a guy and you are a guy. So you can't say anything about my comment. 🤣 [/quote]
it is not about being a girl or a guy. it is about observations. and i second mams. [/quote]
well according to mamsmilk, he said my comment is expected from somebody who really does not have any children.....women that have never given bith...etc..etc
So his argument is based on that fact that I never had children or given birth. If that's his only argument, then I just pointed out the flaw. And I never said he was wrong, I just said he can't criticize me for making that comment because he himself never given birth either. Well maybe only to turds. 🤣
But I'll never let my love experince that sort of thing. We'll adopt a kid and raise him/her like our own. Or maybe 2 or 3 😀
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this is not about cannibalism...please get back on topic
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I think it is exactly the topic. I see nothing wrong.