"Just Friends"
17 years ago
Posts: 437
I have always had a boundary line that no one can cross, so for the last 17 years of my life I never had a boyfriend. <3
My guy-friends know that I'm not interested in a relationship so they sorta look at me as a guy, who is a bit girly from time to time.
And well, I try to not get really lose to them since I know I can misinterpret being nice with something else.
But yeah, luckly my friends aren't boyfriend material, and some of them are already taken so its not a problem with me. =3 It actually relieves me a bit when they get a girlfriend. XD
"Beware How You Take Hope From Another Man."
17 years ago
Posts: 2708
I would! Or I would try to think about the chances of us breaking up.
I go away and suddenly the spammers are the mods. Okay, I can adjust to that, but... Gorath?! And what's up with Mam's not being the top poster?
210 days until I'm legal, Indy!
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17 years ago
Posts: 1901
It takes about five minutes. I'm unavailable anyways.
17 years ago
Posts: 2708
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It takes about five minutes. I'm unavailable anyways.
I think we're supposed to assume we're single, Shaggie. 😀
I go away and suddenly the spammers are the mods. Okay, I can adjust to that, but... Gorath?! And what's up with Mam's not being the top poster?
210 days until I'm legal, Indy!
ZombieKing ihas been challenged! Now it's between him, Blissful_wulf and Mamsmilk. And maybe Dr. Love.
17 years ago
Posts: 1762
I don't think there's a time limit for me. There's always the option to change my mind and put him in the "possibilities" category. All of my bfs have been my friends first and only one was immediately classified as "future bf". So, I guess there's always hope for any of my guy friends.
17 years ago
Posts: 3229
For me, I ask a woman that I know well if she wanted to go out somewhere as friends and see where it builds from there. If she declines, then I'll see her as just a friend from then on until she changes her mind.
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17 years ago
Posts: 2342
If I'm close friends with the girl there is always the option. Though if she were to make the fist move I may react to it without really liking the person enough. My boundaries with people are very hard for me to detect.
I have a feeling i will be one forever.
But I would not deny a female friend if she wanted to go out with me.
Polite bump.
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I have a feeling i will be one forever.
I feel the same. >__<
It's complicated, I guess. The OP asks how long it will take before you categorize a new person as just a friend.
But what if you do start hitting off, and after a while it goes off track and circumstances don't allow you to be together... Do you then go all distance-like and just settle for "friends"? I don't know. The people I love (romantically) will always be - and stay - special. They mean more than "just friends".
They become... ehm... soul buddies! Yeah, that sounds nice. Something like that. O_O;;
So yeah, it depends on your situation?
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16 years ago
Posts: 522
I consider every girl I meet as a love interest...
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I consider every girl I meet as a love interest...
It rarely works the opposite way.
I guess I am still the type that always falls to the
friends category.
16 years ago
Posts: 838
Well they say that the best gf u can have is ur best female friend
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16 years ago
Posts: 1353
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I consider every girl I meet as a love interest...
You don't even have a type. I don't know whether that's a good thing or bad thing. 😐
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Quote from bking
I consider every girl I meet as a love interest...
You don't even have a type. I don't know whether that's a good thing or bad thing. 😐
A bad thing as most of the girls aren't worth it,
especially for him.
See, I've never been out with one of my guy friends. I would say around a few weeks allows me to determine whether he'll be a close friend, or just a normal friend.
I don't think that any of them have ever considered me romantically. Or maybe they have and they're worried that it would ruin the friendship side of things if they proceed further. I get along well with them, and I recon it would be a bit awkward if we started going out.


