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In this maelstrom of thrust and parrying by both sexes I can see something which IMO girls don't really tend to tell guys about.Yes most of us may be prejudiced about marrying/dating virgins but we are also under the pressure to "perform", but I don't think most girls relish the idea of holding the guy's hand throughout the sexual process. I am not justifying actions of the"players" but I do believe that most girls tend to prefer a guy who knows his way around. So the sweeping generalization that the phenomenon of gender disparity of guys sleeping around being players and women in the same position being sluts originates totally due to hypocritical male attitudes of seeking sex and disdaining women who do the same isn't right.

Guys are indeed under pressure to "lose" it either by their friends and to "perform" by their partners so for us it tends not be the special gift to given away but rather the embarrassing start of a learning curve where you fall down a lot and need time and experience to get better. However the dipshits with attitudes of overbearing arrogance are indeed found more commonly in experienced guys (after all male psyche is conditioned to believe more sex and higher no. of sexual partners is better)and hence the stereotype of "players" who seek only sex. As for the rest I believe waiting a bit is better as sex does tend to need emotional maturity to not be a traumatic or regrettable first experience.

thx u save me time^^, i sign what u wrote.

you can laugh at me,
Im 23yo still virgin, because I dont have a gf and I wont have in near time, because im dont have enough time (study and my hobby), and Im not going to spend any buck to a prostitute.

personally I dont actually care if my patner isnt a virgin, as long she care and love me thats all matter.

"we are people because of other people"
"I am who I am because of who we all are"

Quote from Domonkazu

you can laugh at me,
Im 23yo still virgin, because I dont have a gf and I wont have in near time, because im dont have enough time (study and my hobby), and Im not going to spend any buck to a prostitute.

personally I dont actually care if my patner isnt a virgin, as long she care and love me thats all matter.

i know how you feel, i'm 19 years old, still a virgin with the same reasons as you have. girls have thrown themselves at me but i think of my future first. especially since i'm chinese.

i've heard of a girl inviting a guy over to sleep at her house since it was raining. the girl was a total slut who went around with any guy and she was friends with the guy i'm talking about right now. anyway she singled out this guy because he was chinese. so she invited him over since her parents weren't there. she had him sleep in another room. but while they were sleeping the girl called over the whole family to come to the house because of an emergency. then she went naked and went to sleep in the room where the guy was sleeping. the next thing that happened was,

the guy woke up
the entire family was in the room
the uncle was a cop
pointed his gun at the guy
and forced them to marry.

pretty screwed up, but its also the main reason why i didn't do it yet.

I think it's rare to see guys thinking that way. Nothing to laugh about. More like admire.

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A lot in Peru. o.o

you're right =s

@blakraven66: so she set him up, or it was just a coincidence?

btw Im also a chinese even though I barely know few words 🙁

"we are people because of other people"
"I am who I am because of who we all are"

Quote from blakraven66

i've heard of a girl inviting a guy over to sleep at her house since it was raining. the girl was a total slut who went around with any guy and she was friends with the guy i'm talking about right now. anyway she singled out this guy because he was chinese. so she invited him over since her parents weren't there. she had him sleep in another room. but while they were sleeping the girl called over the whole family to come to the house because of an emergency. then she went naked and went to sleep in the room where the guy was sleeping. the next thing that happened was,

the guy woke up
the entire family was in the room
the uncle was a cop
pointed his gun at the guy
and forced them to marry.

pretty screwed up, but its also the main reason why i didn't do it yet.

That sounds... uh, weird. 🤣

omg, when did you edit your post? I completely missed that

Stupid girl!! Are they going to marry? Please don't marry such a stupid girl...

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@blakraven66: so she set him up, or it was just a coincidence?

btw Im also a chinese even though I barely know few words 🙁

she set him up. why else would she call for an emergency then sleep naked next to the guy who wasn't even interested in her?

and the reason for the chinese thing is because in the eyes of people here in the philippines. chinese people are seen as successful in business, rich, classy etc.

Quote from skittles

omg, when did you edit your post? I completely missed that

Stupid girl!! Are they going to marry? Please don't marry such a stupid girl...

they already did. what else was he supposed to do with a gun pointed to his face?

Quote from blakraven66

and the reason for the chinese thing is because in the eyes of people here in the philippines. chinese people are seen as successful in business, rich, classy etc.

I KNEW that was the reason.

That's so sad!!!!!!!!! And if he divorce, half is money is going to her 😢 Tell him to hide his money with you.

i'd go to the f*cking police and charge the copper for attempted murder, and the girl for blackmail or other. Or at the very least say "Hell no!, you lot are crazy!"

he was disowned by his parents because of that incident. which led to him becoming flat broke. which led to the girl's set up being useless since she wanted to marry him for his money. poor guy...

and divorce is illegal here

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Or at the very least say "Hell no!, you lot are crazy!"

he would have been shot. but being a cop it might have been an empty threat. but the pressure of a gun pointed at him must have had the blood go to his head so he couldn't think rationally.

😢 I feel extremely bad for him... And he has to live with her, for life (oh my god).. And he'd eventually lose his money anyway marrying to her... so, rather just be broke early.

poor guy. There must be something... you can do? Somebody can do?

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😢 I feel extremely bad for him... And he has to live with her, for life (oh my god).. And he'd eventually lose his money anyway marrying to her... so, rather just be broke early.

poor guy. There must be something... you can do? Somebody can do?

it was a legal marriage.
forced and threatened, but still a legal marriage with the wedding ceremony, documents everything.

being disowned by his family...he no longer has any support.

and if he went to the police. who would believe him. especially since he's testifying against a police.

Quote from blakraven66

i've heard of a girl inviting a guy over to sleep at her house since it was raining. the girl was a total slut who went around with any guy and she was friends with the guy i'm talking about right now. anyway she singled out this guy because he was chinese. so she invited him over since her parents weren't there. she had him sleep in another room. but while they were sleeping the girl called over the whole family to come to the house because of an emergency. then she went naked and went to sleep in the room where the guy was sleeping. the next thing that happened was,

the guy woke up
the entire family was in the room
the uncle was a cop
pointed his gun at the guy
and forced them to marry.

pretty screwed up, but its also the main reason why i didn't do it yet.

Damn. Just damn. That's all I got.

[color=green]BELIEVE[/color]

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Quote from reanimated838uk

Or at the very least say "Hell no!, you lot are crazy!"

he would have been shot. but being a cop it might have been an empty threat. but the pressure of a gun pointed at him must have had the blood go to his head so he couldn't think rationally.

I think getting shot would have been what i'd have gone with rather than spend the rest of my life with a nut job. I'd just move away to a place where divorce is legal. But to be honest though, i think this is a rare case and you might be a bit overly paranoid about it happening to you. If that were the case, you'd have no female friends whatsoever, forever.... which i assume isn't the case...