Virginity
18 years ago
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Quote from Dark_Sage
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What age do you think it's okay to start having sex?
Puberty. Fuck societal norms. Nature set puberty as the standard.
Why do alot of people think it's impossible for people to stay virgins until they're married?
Because people are stupid.
I know it's off-topic... but are you going to continue to harass people in this topic? Or are you just being pissy today? Cause honestly... the last 4-5 post of yours in this topic have had negative connotations in them...
On-topic... I believe in free will... People can choose who and how they want to do whatever they want. I don't always have to associate with those people. At least that's how I see it. And that's all I'll say about that. >_>;
18 years ago
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I'm 21 and still a virgin. I figure it will happen when it happens.
Wanna help me rule the world?
18 years ago
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I don't necessarily think there is a "right" or "wrong" answer to how many sexual partners a person has (as long as it's between informed & consenting adults).
There is certainly what is right or wrong FOR ME PERSONALLY, but that doesn't mean it's right or wrong for others. Of course it would be hard to have a serious relationship with someone who felt very differently about it, but that ties in with similar values & all that. 😃
"[English] not only borrows words from other languages; it has on occasion chased other languages down dark alley-ways, clubbed them unconscious and rifled their pockets for new vocabulary."
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18 years ago
Posts: 218
Quote from kawaiiairbender
I have a two questions.
What age do you think it's okay to start having sex?
For a girl, whenever her partner can make her wet. For a guy, whenever he can get the gumption to go into CVS and buy condoms.
Why do alot of people think it's impossible for people to stay virgins until they're married?
Because everyone wants to break the rules...and because it's hard to say no when you're really, really horny. 🤣
18 years ago
Posts: 323
Quote from Dark_Sage
Quote from kawaiiairbender
What age do you think it's okay to start having sex?
Puberty. Fuck societal norms. Nature set puberty as the standard.
Why do alot of people think it's impossible for people to stay virgins until they're married?
Because people are stupid.
=_= but some people start puberty early, I mean my aunt started puberty at 8, and there was a girl that got pregnant at 5 or 6 so obviously she had hit puberty. So I don't think that can be used as a full proof gadge.
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Cheebs your answers worry me. I know a girl that lost her virginity at 11. So if the guy made her wet is it okay? If it was a year before?
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18 years ago
Posts: 218
Quote from kawaiiairbender
Quote from Dark_Sage
Quote from kawaiiairbender
What age do you think it's okay to start having sex?
Puberty. Fuck societal norms. Nature set puberty as the standard.
Why do alot of people think it's impossible for people to stay virgins until they're married?
Because people are stupid.
=_= but some people start puberty early, I mean my aunt started puberty at 8, and there was a girl that got pregnant at 5 or 6 so obviously she had hit puberty. So I don't think that can be used as a full proof gadge.
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Cheebs your answers worry me. I know a girl that lost her virginity at 11. So if the guy made her wet is it okay? If it was a year before?
🤣 Gosh, wasn't thinking about middle schoolers...was thinking about high schooler. But no, that's just consensual rape on both of their parts. I guess you SHOULD wait until you're at or around the proper legal age...
18 years ago
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Quote from kawaiiairbender
I have a two questions.
What age do you think it's okay to start having sex?
Why do alot of people think it's impossible for people to stay virgins until they're married?
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Depends on the person. I think as long as it's consensual, know what they're getting into, has protection, and not a minor+adult, it's okay. Some might regret it later on if they did it at a very young age but it's their decision... so suck it up.
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Because not all people believe that you have to wait for marriage in order to have sex.
18 years ago
Posts: 412
Quote from amaranthine
- Depends on the person. I think as long as it's consensual, know what they're getting into, has protection, and not a minor+adult, it's okay. Some might regret it later on if they did it at a very young age but it's their decision... so suck it up.
Agreed.
As for number two, if people say it's "impossible", I feel like they're making an excuse.
18 years ago
Posts: 70
Everybody do what cheebs say she seem to be smart and all knowledgeable let all bow down to her knowledge and great wisdom
18 years ago
Posts: 278
Quote from kawaiiairbender
=_= but some people start puberty early, I mean my aunt started puberty at 8, and there was a girl that got pregnant at 5 or 6 so obviously she had hit puberty. So I don't think that can be used as a full proof gadge.
So? People have been having sex as children since forever.
Our current laws are going to be trashed in the future anyway. The only real measure of whether a woman is supposed to have sex is if she's hit puberty yet. That's the natural way, just FYI.
It's stupid to believe an arbitrary number fits all cases.
18 years ago
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what the fugnuggets...some of you are seriously giving weird responses and asking weird questions...and that's coming from ME!
First of all, the law states that the minimum age for having sex without parental consent is 18, 16 with. It's there for a reason. Any younger and you can most likely say sayonara to your womb. Think of it as tentacle rape...multiple tentacles 🙂
Second, a lot of people say that it's impossible to practice abstinence because they can't keep their pants on....damn horny people >_>
18 years ago
Posts: 1850
Quote from Dark_Sage
The only real measure of whether a woman is supposed to have sex is if she's hit puberty yet. That's the natural way, just FYI.
So...as soon as a female starts having her period, she's supposed to start reproducing? After all, that's the age when it's biologically possible, so that makes it right, is that what you're saying?
Sorry, I don't think there's an argument in the universe that will convince me that 11-12-13 year old girls should be having babies, regardless of how biologically possible it is.
The so called "natural way" of doing things tends to lead to a lot of death & misery. I for one am quite happy for such "unnatural" things as the c-section that allowed my babies and I to be here today, alive and well. Also the "unnatural" surgery that has allowed my son to run around & be a normal kid instead of the cripple he would "naturally" be. The "natural way" is, IMO, very much overrated. 🙄
"[English] not only borrows words from other languages; it has on occasion chased other languages down dark alley-ways, clubbed them unconscious and rifled their pockets for new vocabulary."
-James Nicoll, can.general, March 21, 1992
18 years ago
Posts: 218
Quote from Scyfon
First of all, the law states that the minimum age for having sex without parental consent is 18, 16 with. It's there for a reason. Any younger and you can most likely say sayonara to your womb. Think of it as tentacle rape...multiple tentacles 🙂
In my state only 16 year olds can do 16 year olds, not sure about 17 year olds, but an 18 year old can't do a 17 year old. 🤣 18 year old with anyone above is okay, of course. 🤣
18 years ago
Posts: 323
Quote from amaranthine
Quote from kawaiiairbender
I have a two questions.
What age do you think it's okay to start having sex?
Why do alot of people think it's impossible for people to stay virgins until they're married?
Depends on the person. I think as long as it's consensual, know what they're getting into, has protection, and not a minor+adult, it's okay. Some might regret it later on if they did it at a very young age but it's their decision... so suck it up.
Because not all people believe that you have to wait for marriage in order to have sex.
That's not what I'm saying. I'm asking why do people think that others do not have the capacity to wait to have sex. My sex ed teacher back in hs told me flat out that I would have sex before I graduated. My old best friend said that there was no way I could wait until I got married before I had sex.
oh okay gotcha cheebs once they can legally have sex. Where I live it is no one under 16 can have sex. 16 year olds with permission with other 16 year olds. Or maybe it's without but I know that no one younger than 16 is allowed to have sex
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined. ~ Thoreau
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18 years ago
Posts: 278
Quote from TofuQueen
So...as soon as a female starts having her period, she's supposed to start reproducing? After all, that's the age when it's biologically possible, so that makes it right, is that what you're saying?
No. That would be a terrible idea. She should wait until she's 40 before even thinking about that.
Sorry, I don't think there's an argument in the universe that will convince me that 11-12-13 year old girls should be having babies, regardless of how biologically possible it is.
Exactly! What's this "biology" thing thinking of? Getting in the way of the laws of a society!
The so called "natural way" of doing things tends to lead to a lot of death & misery. I for one am quite happy for such "unnatural" things as the c-section that allowed my babies and I to be here today, alive and well. Also the "unnatural" surgery that has allowed my son to run around & be a normal kid instead of the cripple he would "naturally" be. The "natural way" is, IMO, very much overrated. 🙄
Way to go off on a tangent. I never said anything about medical procedures or claimed they were bad. Nice strawman argument though. Way to also make an appeal towards emotion.
