Koi desu ga Koi Janai

Like this manga ^
Like a boy teasing the girl but it’s reversed.
The girl isnt shy and she likes teasing him
Thank u

i thought it was too extreme to the point where it got mean but The Flirtatious Princess Consort fits the bill

Otokonoko ni Toriko probably the closest to what you're looking for.
This Boy Got Me falling Hard a reverse situation where a girl sponsors boy.
Empress's Harem kinda. Female lead definitely wears the pants though.
Tsuki no Oki ni Mesu mama this one has the boy that does the teasing, but he gets bested by female lead anyways.
Hime to Knight to, Tonari to Watashi. story 5 have low-key teasing female lead.

Idk, but these are more shoujo friendly femdom(ish):
Kawaii Ore-sama
Koi wa Tenka no Mawarimono oneshot Ikenai Candy Love
Sadistic Beauty this one is explicit

Haven't read these yet, but maybe these (based on female dominance tag that weren't hentai/ecchi):
Boku no Kanojo wa Saikou desu!
S Watari-san to M Mura-kun
Oh! Lord Jesus

Sorry if I went off tangent for some of the reccs, but I hope they're enjoyable at least.

I'm in idol hell T.T

otomen where the guy likes cute things and the girl is the 'manly' and rough one

Kawaii dake ja nai Shikimori-san
Ice Guy and the Cool Female Colleague maybe
Takane no Hana Nara Ochitekoi!!
Teasing Master Takagi-san

Subete no Jinrui o Hakai suru. Sorera wa Saisei dekinai. has some of this too, though it's not the focus.

Teasing-focused:

• Karakai Jouzu no Takagi-san
• Ijiranaide, Nagatoro-san
• Shinigami Bocchan to Kuro Maid
• The Ideal Relationship Between Idols and Otaku (Heads up, this one's more cruel than the others)
• Tsumi to Kai (Warning: nsfw, bdsm)

Role Reversal, but not focused on teasing:

• That Girl Is Not Just Cute: Female lead is cooler than male lead
• Gokushufudou: The Way of the House Husband: Ex-yakuza becomes a house husband
• Ice Guy and the Cool Female Colleague: Cool female lead
• Palace Meidi: Boy becomes a servant to a young empress
• No Filter x No Confidence: Timid male lead, outgoing female lead
• The Story of the Girl I Like Being Too Ikemen: Handsome female lead
• Tonari no Kinniku Joshi: Muscular female lead
• The World of Moral Reversal: Girl wakes up in a world with reversed gender roles
• Immortal Swordsman in the Reverse World: MC is incarnated into a world with reversed gender roles, but he's OP

Other resources:

• Role Reversal tag
• Reversed Gender Roles tag
• Female Dominance tag
• /r/Role Reversal
• Role Reversal Resources - a list of role reversal media (full disclosure: I made this list)